Rayne is Messaging your Wife

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Cat mom, veganarchist, amateur radio operator, math nerd and programmer, EMT, martial arts student.

18+ only followers please.

Gray ace & demisexual (but sex+), lesbian with theoretical pansexual tendencies, nb transfemme woman, if you think my identity is confusing try being me.

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2024-05-29 23:48:48

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@npub1r4h…u0jf mustaches are bourgeois decadence

2024-05-29 22:52:38

For trans men, the mustache will stop growing after about 3 years on testosterone.

2024-05-25 16:02:44

I should just block Kolektiva, nasty little post-Twitter faux anarchist snitch-ran shithole.

2024-05-25 14:22:12

Getting cancelled in Germany like it's 1933.

2024-05-22 00:28:08

Wild that Microsoft did this...
They have such a history of not forcing people into an operating system and keeping the market open and competitive, not enshittenfying things and invading privacy, I'm just shocked I tell you

2024-04-23 14:25:11

Being a lesbian fucks.
Happy Lesbian Visibility Week!

2024-04-22 21:08:33

Stolen because amazing and no alt text
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2024-04-16 14:00:46

It's amazing to me that like, the top 3 franchises Bethesda's owns are, "war is horrific and unchanging" (Fallout), allegory for climate change (DOOM), and "Kill Nazis" (Wolfenstein), and yet gamers that play these games somehow get mad about trans people being in the Brotherhood of Steel? Like what the absolute fuck?

2024-04-15 14:58:19

I personally think that transexual is quite the opposite of an "icky word". It's actually quite powerful.
A lot of people think sex is not socially constructed, and immutable, and rather construe "gender" to be this other metaphysical construct we're allowed to "change" because it is "socially constructed" on top of that.
But I say fuck that noise. Sex is just as bullshit and interchangable as gender. Do whatever you want with it.

2024-03-31 13:23:45

😩✋: Celebrating Jesus's resurrection today
😌👍: Celebrating @npub1ffe…jg74's resurrection today

2024-03-31 02:02:29

@npub1w63…kyah that avatar is something lolol

2024-03-28 02:54:22

I bet one of the weirdos that follow me and boost irregular posts and never interact with me are my dad, or a cop

2024-03-27 14:01:25

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@npub1gmx…atcq the Fedipact is exactly that.
https://fedipact.online/

2024-03-18 23:01:49

All of them

2024-03-17 17:27:37

So my dad, like many white men, has an unnecessarily large truck.
One time, we went to go pick up my step brother and he pulls his gigantic truck into the parking lot. This boomer Trumper lady comes up to him and was like, "see, now that's a real truck! Unlike these electric vehicles that people are pushing."
My dad, while sitting in a large V-10 Ford F-Some-Big-Ass-Number-50, then proceeds to lecture this lady about how EV's are the future, and that's a good thing because he's concerned about his grandkids and wants them to live on a healthy planet.
It's that moment that I completely understood the basis of liberals' political stances.

2024-03-15 14:15:57

Hey, new people requesting me!
I won't approve you unless you have pronouns on your bio or introduction, as well as either a decent bio or post history that kind of tells me who you are.

2024-03-15 13:49:46

I mean, think about it...
- There's already Hoopla and Kanopy. Imagine if they had more resources and they could just be superior to Netflix and Hulu in every way, and free.
- Imagine how much violence houseless people could avoid if libraries were open around the clock like some of my old college libraries.
- Libraries of things already exist. Imagine if they were expanded. Imagine if you could get almost any tool you could find at the hardware store, any tabletop game, any game console, laptops, phones, exercise equipment, etc.
- Imagine if free classes at the library were expanded. There are already libraries with cooking, computer software and coding classes, CPR and bleed stop, etc. What if you could go to the library and become an EMT, a phlebotomist, a welder, and HVAC tech?
- Many libraries have playgrounds. But imagine if libraries had waterparks, amusement parks, etc.

2024-03-12 19:16:26

Life hack: The best way to not be labeled a TERF is to not say TERFy things.

2024-03-12 14:21:02

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@npub126w…dgxm @npub19fc…ay3c Skip Intro's copoganda series on YouTube is a great primer for this if anyone is interested.
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ac8vr2QyTdlWwd8OQIc1it6bAfMGPPC

2024-03-12 14:07:01

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@npub19fc…ay3c I had those feels too.
What's scary about the whole thing is that it just shows that even if cops put their own lives before unarmed children, lie about it, and then it's revealed that they were actually the cowards everybody knew they were, that many Americans still think cops are always correct.

2024-03-10 14:49:45

Alright gays of the Fedi, we lost an hour today, so you have to be doubly gay one of these hours today to make up for it.

2024-03-05 00:34:13

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@npub1jce…9qgc "Listen Nina, all I'm saying that is people come around and become good allies eventually. I mean, look at me! I get that while I'm making this abrasive and unsolicited suggestion to you I am not considering your position in society and thus blinded by my own privilege, and thus contradicting the unwanted advice I'm giving to you; but that's somehow irrelevant!"

2024-03-02 15:08:36

Also I want to be abundantly clear about this as well.
If you sit here and say that you support me and the classes I belong to, that is: gay, trans, and woman. Then you have to support the Palestinians in their struggle. The bare minimum in doing the latter is to say that Israel is doing a genocide and the US, and thus Biden, is complicit.
If you fail to understand the connection, you fail to understand basic intersectional theory.
Thus you are not my ally.

2024-02-27 18:31:21

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@npub10s9…vl5c as a leftist and US military vet...I am not colored the least bit shocked by such discourse existing.

2024-02-25 16:15:55

If you have five and a half hours, I recommend watch Jessie Gender and Aranok's video about the monomyth of Star Wars https://youtu.be/puXNbtHksb0
If you don't have that time, the big important takeaway is that neoliberalism and fascism are only opposed on a surface level, but actually rely on each other to recycle the "Hero's Journey" and maintain the status quo.
So, if you're wondering why exactly Biden isn't opposing the fascists as well as he could even though he stands to lose an election as a result, and thus the fascism he claims to oppose may win, it's because Biden and the rest of the neoliberals rely on fascism. Because in order to justify neoliberalism and all the bullshit that comes with it, they must be the heroes that save us from fascism.

2024-02-17 15:26:39

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@npub1r4h…u0jf for a supposed awkward stage that really looks good! When I first started letting my hair grow I looked like a Beatle lol

2024-02-11 02:11:29

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@npub19fc…ay3c I haven't read the book completely (even though I know most of it) So I think I qualify to answer this question? Lol
It's honestly one of the best satirical critiques of fascism I've ever watched.

2024-02-09 15:12:01

I should do a hip pocket class on how to file a lawsuit (in America).
In the meantime, if you think you've been wronged and it might have legal basis (and you don't have a lawyer or money for one), start at https://textbookdiscrimination.com/, there's lots of good sample documents, advice, templates, and more.

2024-02-01 23:49:15

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@npub1gmx…atcq the fact we have to give it at least one star is because capitalism made it that way 🤣

2024-02-01 23:32:28

Capitalism sucks

2024-01-23 16:06:28

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@npub19fc…ay3c Assuming it's a smart move, maybe it's because market research has shown the fanbase to be interested in other things that Netflix has.
Alternatively, it might be just them grasping at straws to grow their subscriber base (instead of doing what it needs to do and paying the directors, writers, actors, and others what they're worth and creating compelling original programs).

2024-01-03 00:52:29

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@npub19fc…ay3c seems like a pertinent film for 2008, and I imagine it's even more relevant now.
I might check this out tonight.

2023-12-31 04:30:48

My New Year's resolution for 2024:
Be more misanthropic and anti-social

2023-12-27 23:06:22

Last boost: someone should create a Sun Tzu bot where it just says "common sense" aphorisms about war and attributes them to Sun Tzu.

2023-12-06 18:21:49

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@npub19fc…ay3c in my experience, it seems to be more the other way around.
I don't think police actively seek combat veterans, just simply that a lot of combat veterans pursue LE because
1. Usually veterans get priority hiring or some sort of bonus on the entrance exam
2. It's the closest thing to continuing on the experience of being outside the wire on deployment, so people who found solace in war can continue to be an armed occupier by being a cop. I imagine that's quite a few people because even though the poverty draft and stuff is a real thing, there are a lot of people who sign up to seek valor.
That's what I've observed from people in my unit and adjacent units anyways.

2023-12-06 17:05:06

Joooooooooooooobbbb

2023-12-05 21:26:13

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But I'm just really tired of suffering to keep some fragile system straight relationships survive on going...
Women, idk be gay or just find some other reason to find your boyfriend attractive.
Men, learn how to be interesting.
I just want to live a normal life and not be mentally ill on the Fedi 😭

2023-12-05 21:24:41

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...and look, I get it.
If we give me a decent job, then that means anyone can get a decent job because I'm a real bottom of the barrel human being.
Then if that happens, you'll have to look at your boyfriend and wonder why you're attracted to him.
...and then men everywhere would panic about not being able to get girlfriends because then having a job wouldn't be that special...

2023-12-05 21:20:03

I'm just going to keep acting like this until you give me a decent apartment and a job where people don't harass me.

2023-11-10 15:48:12

Hey everyone!
I hate to ask again, but I'm still struggling and still living on $165/mo, which is mostly eaten up by my portion of the rent and phone.
It's still a while until food stamps and that small above-mentioned VA disability hits. So I could use some help if you can spare it.
PayPal: @saladbreath
Venmo: @rynyday
ko-fi.com/salad_breath
linktr.ee/rynynite
Thanks so much 💜🖤. Y'all's kind donations make life a little bit more normal for me. I promise I'm trying super hard to figure out something so I don't have to keep asking.
#Trans #TransCrowdFund #MutualAid @npub1shp…v9ff

2023-10-14 16:24:32

Hi everyone, sorry to be asking again.
Bank account has -$3 in it until my small $165 disability check hits at the end of the month. I could use some stuff around the house. It would also be nice to get a couple of comfort items for my upcoming orchi.
Anything helps, even a boost, and as always, I'm grateful to all of you 💜
Venmo: @rynyday
PayPal: @saladbreath
ko-fi.com/salad_breath
linktr.ee/rynynite
Thank you!

2023-10-02 02:07:18

Your mom

2023-09-25 20:32:36

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@npub1gg8…439g yeah, I feel like women not feeling like they live up to standards of desirability is just inherent to being a woman.
I think there's another layer added to that when you're outside of the box of cishet femme white womanhood with certain body proportions.
I think most women just want to be seen as beautiful and women. Even those super conventionally pretty trans femmes that are certainly enviable (is that a real word? Whatever I'm inventing it lol) had to reconcile the slow changes of their masculine body into womanhood in the society around them. It's hard to feel pretty when it's hard to even feel like a woman.
It gets better as time goes on and people around you affirm you 💜

2023-09-24 16:53:24

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@npub1gg8…439g I dunno about that, or if that's even feasible.
Because like, I feel like certain times invoke certain feelings.
Like, if I wanted to bitch about waking up at 04:00, that would have a very different meaning to people all over the world if we all used UTC time.
Though I do agree that things that are as arbitrary as Daylight Savings Time are absolutely ridiculous

2023-09-24 16:42:27

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@npub1gg8…439g UTC isn't affected by daylight savings time. It's definitely a good thing to have when youre making plans with people across the world. (A lot of world wide HAM nets use UTC so that's why I keep the widgets handy)

2023-09-24 16:36:52

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@npub1gg8…439g np. I like to have a UTC clock widget on both my computer and phone, it's a very helpful thing to have 💜

2023-09-24 16:27:26

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@npub1gg8…439g it's 04:27 UTC as of this toot.

2023-09-10 23:03:26

Look, like don't engage with me about this shit, because nobody is going to like what I have to say. Probably not even you.
But I will say this.
"Girlcock" is not "unfortunate branding". The celebration of girldick is important, special, and should be talked about. Just as girl pussy, boy pussy, and boy dick, and all the genital/gender spectrum should be celebrated and talked about.
Not all trans femmes want a pussy. Some of us have dicks and are good with them. I'm one of them. I owe it to the many girlcock-havers who celebrated their having a girlcock in this loud way on the Fedi to shape that perspective, and appreciate other bodies, and my own.
I'm not less of a woman for that. Some trans femmes want pussies (and if they do I hope they get it 💜). But if you believe that a very specific bottom surgery defines transness and/or womanhood, then you need to unfuck yourself.
If you're cis, and hearing about girlcock makes you uncomfortable, then you have some major issues with gender essentialism and transmisogyny.
I'll still fight for better sex education and for your bodies to be talked about loudly, and I'll still think your body is beautiful, but I just wanted to say fuck you for not giving me that same solidarity in return.

2023-09-09 21:58:53

Asking cis people their pronouns usually gets me the same look as when I ask Iris to please throw up on the hardwood and not my bed. #Caturday
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2023-09-06 16:46:38

Cis people just wake up everyday and have a chance of going and living a full day where no one thinks about their genitals.

2023-09-06 05:19:53

Cis people should give me money for creating this shitty bill

2023-09-06 04:25:30

Cis people get jobs even though they fucking suck at them

2023-09-06 04:25:15

Cis people just have kids and then suck at parenting 95% at the time.

2023-09-05 17:40:32

Tech people...
Babies...
Sweeties...
Pumpkin cakes...
I'm begging y'all not to be abrasive, shitty, Stackoverflow ass mfers when you're "helping" non-techy people with stuff.
Like, just please don't.
On another note, there are a lot of non-techy people that make your spaces great. Show them some respect and value their contributions as well.
Mmk thanks.

2023-09-04 04:00:20

Look, there's three basic tiers of chasers:
3. Cringey weird guys that are just a bit too fetishy
2. Really nasty rotten eggs
And the worst...
1. The Ohio Medicaid Review Board

2023-08-27 18:14:31

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@npub1y7p…66re which track? Lol

2023-08-26 14:37:45

Okay y'all
So my girlfriend @npub1af9…25nu texted the owner of Chapel Hill Winery in Dawson, PA to have her change the name on the ads and stuff.
They then deadnamed her and said that her "new direction" does not coincide with the vision they have the for the winery.
Which like, we all know what that means right?
Feel free to let this piece of shit know how we feel about that in Google reviews or the other socials.
https://todon.nl/system/media_attachments/files/110/956/403/615/330/588/original/44149af8bbb5ff92.jpg

2023-08-25 18:30:14

Dear society: what do y'all get from me keeping my balls? Serious question

2023-08-22 20:11:03

I'm gonna need y'all to wish my beautiful daughter a happy 3rd birthday :blobcattriumph:
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2023-08-03 14:33:27

Sorry to ask again. Y'all were helpful recently. Unfortunately stuff kind of piled on (like I had to take Iris in for a full appointment to get her medication, so that was like $150, I got $35 garnished from my small disability, etc)
So yeah, I'm broke again, no more food stamps until the 18th and I won't get my disability again until close to the end of the month.
Any small amount helps 💜
ko-fi.com/salad_breath
@saladbreath on PayPal
rynyday on Venmo
linktr.ee/rynynite
Thank you
#MutualAid @npub1shp…v9ff #TransCrowdFund

2023-08-03 00:49:19

I forgot that there was this song where this dude just yelled "Sail!" multiple times and we just accepted that.

2023-08-02 18:09:31

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@npub1j8m…v5r7 I thought I was the only one that did self shoulder kisses. How cool 💜🖤

2023-07-12 17:35:05

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@npub1edc…0q44 I long for the day where it will be common decency to not be creep on children using the bathroom and not something that a federal judge has to impose on with an order.

2023-07-11 15:25:49

Fuck cops

2023-07-09 20:13:56

Question for #ActuallyAutistic #trans people who have sensory issues around clothing material.
I noticed that before I transitioned, I could only wear baggy jeans, because like the material of men's jeans felt gross on my skin. The denim material in women clothes though seems to be softer and just nicer on the skin. So I don't mind wearing tightly fitted women's jeans most of the time.
Did any other trans fem people notice this? trans masc people, did you notice that it's harder to find comfortable men's jeans?
...or is it just me or that I coincidentally bought shit jeans until now? Lol

2023-07-08 22:48:13

I'm watching Zoe Bee's new video "Why We Secretly Want the World to End", and I'm so glad that this is being made because I think about this A LOT!
https://youtu.be/tGVe4Fju0P0
Its so interesting that people, in general (outside of our gay, leftist world of the Fedi), commonly hold two deep beliefs that kind of contradiction each other:
- The apocalypse is exciting, because it brings us into a world where we are forced to cooperate for survival, and no longer chained down by government and capitalism.
- While society could be better, anarchy is a chaotic mess. A world without the state and the capitalist structures facilitating profit motive and functional hierarchies surrounding it is unsustainable.
How strange when you hold those two propositions next to each other.

2023-07-06 15:49:35

Breaking: heterosexual Republican women in Florida realize DeSantis sucks because he took their alimony checks
https://mstdn.social/@pivoinebleue/110667331233742942

2023-07-06 07:40:31

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@npub1r4h…u0jf besides a new face, no

2023-07-06 07:38:14

I would be so much happier if I nuked my account on here.

2023-07-06 02:38:25

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@npub1r4h…u0jf lolol spoken like a German

2023-07-06 02:22:43

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@npub1r4h…u0jf I think it's the same here, though you'll be met with odd looks from everything other than your fellow graveyard shifters if you say good morning at like 6 pm lol

2023-07-06 02:17:21

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@npub1r4h…u0jf well see the fact that it's a general greeting just makes it less fun, so I'm going to pretend I didn't hear you say that lol

2023-07-06 02:12:23

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@npub1r4h…u0jf lol it's an ongoing joke I have. Literally everytime I check the federated timeline, regardless of what time of day it is, there's always someone posting "Guten Morgen"
So I assume Germany is in some weird time void dimension where it's always morning lol

2023-07-06 01:52:22

I need a palette cleanser after that convo lol.
So, what's everyone up to tonight? (Unless you're in Germany where it's always a Guten Morgen 24 hours a day, weirdos lol)

2023-07-03 22:37:04

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@npub18wj…lvmv cops are definitely whiners. I disagree that they whine as much as landlords.
But that could also be because I have to actual ask my landlord for things and I would never ask a cop for shit.

2023-07-03 18:07:32

Landlords and landlord adjacent people (e.g. property managers) are the biggest whiners I've ever met in my entire life.

2023-07-01 13:54:21

Okay I'm not a computer security expert by like any means, but I find it REALLY suspicious that an admin, *checks notes*...
- Had the kolektiva database and all the information within it in a plain text state that just happened to coincide with the time that this person got raided by the FBI.
- That also the FBI had the appropriate warrants to get into their computer, and access this information.
- That one would need to put a database in plain text in order to troubleshoot issues with it.
- That the admin got raided for "participating in a protest"**.
** Don't get me wrong, I know that the government does very shady shit to punish people for protesting, but I doubt they would get a warrant signed by a judge to go raid a person's home even if they actually participated in a riot and set a police car on fire.
I'm very very cautious about snitch jacketing anyone, but snitching or a perfect storm of carelessness & dishonesty seems the best way to explain this by preponderance of the evidence.
Either way, switch instances now if you're on there.

2023-06-25 16:24:11

I just want everyone to know that I'm wearing a crop top and shorts today.

2023-06-21 18:24:07

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@npub1y7p…66re but how do you avoid the Trekkies? Like if I like this show I want to talk about it. I can't not talk to Trekkies. I have a counselor who's a Trekkie. Many of my mutuals on here are Trekkies. I sort of date a Trekkie. They're a fucking infestation lol.

2023-06-21 18:00:06

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Then of course once I like that show, I'll end up wanting to reach out and develop community and then I'll actually get cancelled for making a mistake.

2023-06-21 17:59:02

I think I'll give Star Trek a rest before I fuck around and end up liking that show.

2023-06-21 13:36:29

Stardates suck and there's no good reason for anyone to convert to their use from the Georgian calendar in the 22nd century.
Some weird creepy nerdy psuedo-smart cis guy like y'all's boyfriend probably made that up in the writers room to feel smart and self important.
(Con't)

2023-06-18 21:40:51

Look I'm entering discussions** with Eugen's wife and doing what I can, but realistically I think it's going to be better for me to get away from universodon and dot social. The thought of Meta being in my space is scary, I have a lot of trauma tied to Facebook and I can't do it. So please, if I follow you and you're on one of these instances, please go somewhere else soon.
**😉

2023-06-16 12:20:27

Me: I really don't get andro ppl's obsession with Pike. Like how are you going to make it your whole personality to thirst over dad types? That would be like me obsessing over moms...
@npub1af9…25nu: 🤨
*Montage plays in my head of the countless times I've held MILFs in high regard*
Me: Okay but that's different...

2023-05-15 13:57:40

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@npub14t5…ap6k I agree in this instance. The Hippocratic oath should be the supreme law of any medical care provider, not to mention should be the basis for their ethical framework.
I think it does logically follow that maybe the medical practitioners are equally as fault here, even if that's hard to swallow.

2023-05-12 01:23:29

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@npub1q47…h4cg that's gay lol

2023-05-12 01:11:57

I'm gay

2023-04-25 14:06:25

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#[0] I definitely will! Also if you want me to point to specific accounts for that purpose based on people I talk about in my toots let me know

2023-04-25 14:01:26

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#[0] the most BS from a single instance, yes lol

2023-04-25 13:57:09

Today is going to be the day I block the whole mastodon [ dot ] social instance I can feel it :blobcattriumph:

2023-04-24 23:52:00

Thanks to #[0], I really want a gay space communism version of Seinfeld now 😭

2023-04-21 15:52:02

Everytime I come to Columbus or some other big city I'm annoyed at how hard it is to just exist.
I think I seen 1000 "no public bathrooms" signs in stores and stuff the few hours I been there.

2023-04-20 02:10:35

Being trans is cool as shit.
My whole life it's like, I had this yearning for girlhood/womanhood that I suppressed my whole life because I felt like it just wasn't for me. I was a boy/man. I just had to make the best of it.
After learning from other trans folks and getting past the barriers I imposed on myself, I realized that I maybe I wasn't man, and I lived as a nonbinary person, then I realized that maybe I was a woman, and I lived as one. That's so cool.
It's like holding in a big fart your whole life and then letting it go finally lol.
The transmisogyny, and cis people (and occasionally other trans people) sucking is definitely really uncool. This hyperfocused genocide of us is terrible. But I could never go back. I don't want to. I love my wonderful cute little community of transfemmes (y'all are so pretty and wonderful :Blobhaj_Flag_Transgender: ), and my handsome happy transmascs.
This is the life for me. And fuck y'all bigots who try and ruin it.

2022-03-23 00:07:35

This is like my favorite meme ever
Edit: alt text and credit added
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