Rayne is Messaging your Wife on Nostr: Look, like don't engage with me about this shit, because nobody is going to like what ...

Look, like don't engage with me about this shit, because nobody is going to like what I have to say. Probably not even you.

But I will say this.

"Girlcock" is not "unfortunate branding". The celebration of girldick is important, special, and should be talked about. Just as girl pussy, boy pussy, and boy dick, and all the genital/gender spectrum should be celebrated and talked about.

Not all trans femmes want a pussy. Some of us have dicks and are good with them. I'm one of them. I owe it to the many girlcock-havers who celebrated their having a girlcock in this loud way on the Fedi to shape that perspective, and appreciate other bodies, and my own.

I'm not less of a woman for that. Some trans femmes want pussies (and if they do I hope they get it 💜). But if you believe that a very specific bottom surgery defines transness and/or womanhood, then you need to unfuck yourself.

If you're cis, and hearing about girlcock makes you uncomfortable, then you have some major issues with gender essentialism and transmisogyny.

I'll still fight for better sex education and for your bodies to be talked about loudly, and I'll still think your body is beautiful, but I just wanted to say fuck you for not giving me that same solidarity in return.