Starsstorm ☘️

Feminist. Mother. Midwesterner. ADHDer. Unashamed lactativist. Cat lady. Apparently a misandrist. Millennial. Mayo lover. Vagina Dentata Enthusiast.

I’m a unicorn who believes in the mystical power of educated women.

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2024-08-11 14:05:56

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She’s using Muslim as an ethnicity.

2024-08-06 16:20:48

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That would have been my Kitty hahaha

2024-07-26 00:17:37

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Things like this make her look pathetic tbh. It’s weird to have a presidential candidate making a statement on what is essentially a game show.

2024-07-24 13:43:30

Twin A might be autistic. Both of my twins’ therapists have brought it up via concerning patterns and he’s starting to show regressions. I was already wondering because he’s so like my nephew (who is autistic). And our service coordinator for therapy asked if we had looked into neuropsych.
Trying to wrap my head around it. With ballet for all the kids and the boys therapy, it’s been so busy here. We go to 6 dance classes a week.

2024-07-21 19:11:20

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The fuck even is this?

2024-06-19 13:39:28

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I hate these people so much. They just keep destroying things to get into the news.

2024-06-19 13:29:40

My youngest daughter is requesting a sheep as a pet.

2024-05-14 16:34:51

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This is so fucking gross. I hate it so much.

2024-05-14 16:33:01

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❤️ I keep hearing it gets easier, but I swear I might chew out the next person who tells me how much they wanted twins

2024-04-30 14:30:02

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Are you looking for suggestions?

2024-04-15 16:12:41

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I can’t imagine what prompted this post, couldn’t be the lawyers right?

2024-04-15 14:29:21

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Thanks. My toddler loved it and immediately threw it on her body.

2024-04-15 14:11:10

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I finished and the ones on the matching shorts turned out very well. I feel like I’m getting the hang of them.
https://media.spinster.xyz/3bd11580997cf4a7a9320e5ddba38eb8ed0d1b7e608f1b974b2e9b06461e987e.jpeg

2024-04-14 19:11:05

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I’ve taken them out once already, they were unseeable before.

2024-04-14 19:00:31

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This is the mess I’ve be making 😅
https://media.spinster.xyz/323056d38eb5435f9f67c4613d7b4bb7f8fe75d39ad83c2a9e1524f3af5c5797.jpeg

2024-04-14 18:57:07

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I’m so glad I’m not alone here 😀

2024-04-08 02:30:43

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Man Gash? That’s fucking a disgustingly misogynistic way to refer to a vagina.

2024-04-03 14:43:05

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He’s actually never told her about the issue since it’s a problem that started in puberty. In general she’s weird about any decisions we make that are different than the ones she did.

2024-04-03 02:57:07

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I’m undecided and I live in Illinois, so my vote doesn’t affect the outcome since Chicago will decide how our state goes.

2024-04-03 02:48:25

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My dad is a trump voter who likes RFK. He definitely appeals to some conservatives.

2024-04-02 20:35:57

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I always do my best to make leftovers on holidays and my husband gets annoyed.

2024-04-02 20:34:57

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The best. Three days of not cooking at all!!

2024-04-02 20:32:54

Survived Easter. Kids had a great time and I’m enjoying leftovers.

2024-03-21 00:10:36

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Yeah not allowing the us flag will not stop other flags at all. And I’m in liberal Illinois and they still do the pledge at school.

2024-03-20 13:33:57

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This is a fucking joke right? Like I hate the flags everywhere shit, but a school really told an American kid he can’t fly the American flag on his vehicle? There is absolutely no way the conservative media doesn’t jump all over this either.

2024-03-18 19:06:04

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Our friendship has kinda been on the outs since I had my twins because she disapproves of her friends having more than one child and occasionally two. She’s child free AND also dislikes children, which I mean I’m fine with mostly because I don’t need to mom share with everyone I know, but she can’t handle it. So we’ve become more distant friends.
Additionally, it’s hilarious because it’s totally virtue signaling for her because less than two years ago she was still regularly making fun of trans women we both know who are absolutely awful, cracking jokes about how lame nonbinary shit is, and more privately, all while pretending to give a shit to our joint friends.

2024-03-18 14:03:29

Friend posted some bullshit meme about how dancing at 6 causes more permanent changes to your body than puberty blockers and hrt will. Claims doctors can tell when a woman in their twenties danced for a couple of years as a child because it changed their feet so much. Those changes happen to pointe dancers and probably kids wearing too small of shoes. You don’t start pointe until at least 12/13.
I have a 7 year old dancer. Her pediatrician has no idea she’s been dancing since she was 2. Memes full of shit. I danced from 18 months to 6 years old. No one can tell I was a ballet and tap dancer for four years as a child.

2024-03-17 12:59:36

I bought an electric kettle because I’m tired of heating up water on the stove. I have an unbelievable amount of tea because people keep giving it to me.
My husband is deeply confused about why I would do this.

2024-03-04 04:29:40

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Customer service at a big box store. Had things thrown at me, was regularly cursed at, and frequently followed by creepy men.

2024-02-22 17:21:32

Illinois’ usual false spring seems to have turned into real spring. Cause my daffodils and tulips are coming up, the birds have moved back into our backyard, and the bees are out dive bombing people this morning.

2024-02-20 18:52:20

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He’s so gross. Doesn’t understand breastfeeding at all obviously. Women think men pretending to be women and pretending to breastfeed are gross because it’s a fetish. Women can’t have a breastfeeding fetish as it’s a normal body function for us.

2024-02-20 18:06:06

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Excuse me, just criminal mischief?!?!?

2023-12-07 15:30:12

My older sister was just diagnosed with cancer. Like me, she has little kids. She’s just 40. I’m gonna take a short break here.

2023-11-02 00:31:56

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Why does he look like he’s cosplaying fancy Nancy in France?

2023-10-26 14:32:58

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Poor baby ❤️

2023-10-18 02:37:37

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The draft should be abolished for everyone. Fuck the draft.

2023-10-12 04:23:11

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It’s a bit surprising cause I don’t follow gc accounts on Twitter, but I guess it’s counting more than just who I follow on there.

2023-10-12 03:10:15

Twitter seems to believe that I’m located in the UK because all I’m seeing is people talking about Starmer?
I follow mostly musicians on Twitter (or X I guess). And JK of course.

2023-10-10 00:09:45

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Happy #IndigenousPeoplesDay to you ❤️

2023-09-29 16:03:51

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You’re wrong but okay.

2023-09-29 16:02:39

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Vaccines do not cause autism.

2023-09-28 21:05:22

Twinnies update: still pretty much non-verbal here (they both only have 3 words), so I’m pretty sure we’re going to speech therapy next month. My 3 year old is also speech delayed and the twins were preemies. They’re also lagging behind developmentally in other areas like fine motor skills and some comprehension stuff, probably cause they’re preemies and one of them already clearly has sensory issues (genetic likely cause I have them too).
They are driving me crazy though. So much climbing, slapping, biting, and falling. Sometimes they’re so sweet and they play together and hold hands, but mostly it’s lord of the flies here. At least no one tells me how much they wish they had twins in public now like so many women did when they were tiny and cute.
Oh and they get the zoomies like my cats used to.

2023-09-01 01:57:47

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Yup.

2023-09-01 00:12:46

Sick again but none of the kids are showing any symptoms :blobfoxdisapprove:

2023-08-27 01:05:56

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Honestly, I won’t even encourage them to do any competitive sports outside of dance (which is weirdly both competitive and a performing art?). At least dance will always be mostly female anyway.

2023-08-27 00:48:24

I’m so tired of women I know, who don’t care about women’s sports and are completely un athletically inclined, claiming that anyone who thinks ‘tims in women’s sports are cheating’ are just terfs who don’t care about women’s sports.
Unlike them, I have daughters. My girls dance currently, with one of them in a children’s dance company that does multiple ballets a year. Dance is highly competitive, athletic, and leads to scholarships for a lot of young women too. Of course I’m worried about women’s sports and not just because I’m a terf by their own words.

2023-08-24 14:20:09

My children have brought home the first cold of the year

2023-08-23 15:45:06

And this is exactly why children cannot be a human right to have.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12436123/Aussie-parents-blocked-seeing-babies-newborns-DETAINED-Greek-authorities-human-tracking-fears-born-surrogates-Crete-Mediterranean-Fertility-Institute.html

2023-08-16 19:48:24

I don’t know about anyone else, but as a mother of young children, I am constantly being hit with therapy and mental illness based accounts on social media that blame all sorts of mental illness on mothers.
The underlying message is your mother ruined your life by loving you too much, loving you not enough, having emotions, not getting you everything you wanted, etc. It’s literally navel gazing, but I can’t look away and every time I see something related to it, it makes me wonder if I’m destroying my kids’ lives by having expectations, not being extremely gentle in my wording all the time, not parenting by these gentle parenting scripts or whatever else is popular.
I think this trend is extremely damaging to the mental health of women, especially mothers. And doubly so for mothers like me who have anxiety , depression, and neurodevelopmental disorders (or some other issue).
The thing that makes it hit so hard is that it’s coming from other women.

2023-08-07 14:23:49

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Yea. They’ve literally made the conservative talking points I spent my teen years arguing against a reality.

2023-08-06 05:10:19

Yes. It’s past time.
#note12ll…pemy

2023-08-05 16:51:02

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I didn’t realize how cute they are 😍

2023-08-01 14:44:09

Recently saw a friend admit on Facebook that the bad things involving the queer and trans movement are indeed happening, but they also claimed that the only reason anyone cares about them is because media is warping them into thinking it’s more common than it is and anyway, trans rights you know.
So to sum up: men are a danger, doing bad things using this rights movement, but trans rights are more important than people being hurt.

2023-08-01 13:56:32

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Yeah I didn’t have any idea what terf was until 2017 when I was pregnant for the first time.

2023-07-21 19:46:12

Twins are both walking. This is terrifying.

2023-07-09 03:21:40

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I also get progressive. I think supporting a social safety net is what gets you there on this quiz. It’s obviously a very American one.

2023-07-05 03:00:52

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This is a joke right? No one really thought that was a good idea….

2023-06-29 15:20:30

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Enjoying this. We’ve got some tomatoes and strawberries this year, but I have plans for a proper garden next year.

2023-06-28 01:26:33

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I’m so tired of people letting white men pretend they aren’t white men.

2023-06-28 01:24:02

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Why is he such a disgusting person?

2023-06-19 21:41:08

Told my Disney hating, conservative sometimes absolutely insane dad we were taking the kids to Disney and he said ‘it’s not my thing, but have a good time’.
My progressive friend tried to tell me we shouldn’t because florida is full of evil people when I told her. And Disney is actively supporting the nonsense she loves that I also hate.
…. Again, I really hate it when conservatives I know are more reasonable than liberals and progressives.

2023-06-16 03:02:16

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It’ll be a much better ride I think.

2023-06-16 02:29:41

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I’m hopeful it’ll be entertaining. As far as I know they’re only changing the decoration and music of the ride. The path will be the same.

2023-06-14 15:35:51

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I’d also like to note we may very well see more of this in the US in the future because information about pregnancy and childbirth is actively being desexed by medical professionals everywhere leaving lay people giving inaccurate information the primary source of sex based pregnancy information online.

2023-06-12 17:55:55

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Even if the president doesn’t, White House staff definitely should 🤣

2023-06-12 17:52:23

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In the most basic terms, yes. Supporting private defense contractors is definitely extremely capitalist. There would be more support for citizens versus company profits (war is very profitable). And a leftist government in my opinion would or should be less capitalist and more focused on its own people. Political left and right definitions tends to be rather thorny when it comes to the US though.
In case you’re wondering, I am a former occupy Wall Street supporter and Green Party member. You can’t support Occupy Wall Street’s aims and accept defense contractors’ money/support in my opinion at all.

2023-06-12 17:19:48

I don’t think this is controversial, but anyone who supports defense contractors in the US or accepts their support cannot be a leftist.
Signed, a daughter, granddaughter, and niece of defense contractor workers.

2023-06-07 05:00:29

My younger sister is annoyed at the trans community trying to make Gwen Stacy in Spider-Man trans because of the colors in her costume and my older sister used the term alphabet people today when talking about TQ+ part.
I am not sure what’s going on. It’s unlike them both to sound this terfy.

2023-05-29 19:27:27

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Some of these friends I haven’t seen much since I had kids. They don’t do kid friendly activities and I don’t have the time to keep up regularly right now.
I’m not certain how much they believe, but they’re all still involved in the old anime convention circuit.

2023-05-29 19:17:47

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Yup. Lots of them. I’ve had five friends do it this year. All of them single, late 30s straight women. Only one has a child.

2023-05-29 17:34:02

Another friend is now an approaching middle age nonbinary woman.

2023-05-25 16:29:58

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I am not surprised. Pretty sure Target is seen as the upscale Walmart by white suburban moms who are ashamed of appearing in Walmart (it’s definitely a class thing). Speaking as a white, suburban mom who knows tons of other moms exactly like this. I don’t think most suburban moms across the whole country are onboard with the gender identity nonsense and women do most of the household shopping.

2023-05-11 13:34:30

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I’m honestly surprised money isn’t just being dumped in the Republicans as well, which makes me even more cynical. Like what the powers that be want is for us to fight over transgender nonsense

2023-05-10 02:46:29

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Holy fuck does that teacher not know what boundaries or professionalism is. Students should never have a teacher’s contact private information at that age - only the school issued email which can be monitored. I know this is a tif, but this is exactly how kids are sexually abused by teachers.

2023-05-09 20:33:47

Because this keeps being a thing. Person who gives birth is the same damn thing as mother, just with extra words because some people have the sads. There’s only one kind of person who gives birth and we call them women and mothers. Describing women by their bodily functions is dehumanizing.

2023-05-09 20:08:40

My state is now dropping mother entirely in state paperwork to person who gives birth. To affirm the probably five tifs who have babies a year.
Also my state is so expensive for families that we’re basically a state people flee from to go elsewhere.

2023-05-09 00:46:53

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Kitties are the best thing ever imo. He will definitely one day flop at your side and want pets.

2023-05-08 22:22:52

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He’s so cute 🥰

2023-05-05 03:45:39

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What even is the point of advertising women’s clothing on men’s bodies? All it tells me is they don’t know how to make clothing that firs

2023-04-27 21:11:43

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There’s also a truck like that in my town. Driven by a non passing tim, but has lots of gun and trans stickers.

2023-04-27 16:00:23

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I’d prefer not to plus they live in my garden under our shed.

2023-04-27 15:50:56

Bunnies are beheading my tulips now 😭

2023-04-27 15:43:26

I have zero interest in hearing or seeing a they/them woman talk about the mental
of motherhood imposed on women. If you’ve opted out of womanhood and motherhood, your opinion on this is meaningless.

2023-04-27 12:47:47

ABC news obsessed with trans shit this morning.

2023-04-26 17:46:14

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This is utterly brilliant.

2023-04-03 19:29:25

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I figured he was one of the nut cases who thinks taking estrogen changes your chromosomes from xy to xx. And I wish I didn’t know about them.

2023-04-03 19:22:31

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Later claims to be an xx chromosome individual who has gotten women pregnant. Seems impossible without at least the SRY gene.

2023-04-01 21:08:19

Having a sad day. Ran into my brother and sister in law at a store picking out baby things, they’re expecting their first, and realizing how many things I’ve missed out on because of Covid, twin pregnancy, preeclampsia, and my husband’s absolutely awful mother and sister is just making me really sad.
I’m also working through NICU trauma. My therapist specializes in mothers with adverse outcomes and she’s assured me that what I’ve been feeling as we’ve gotten closer to the twins first birthday is really common. It’s made worse by the fact that none of my in laws to this day understand what the NICU is and what it means when your baby is there. My mil brags to people about the healthy birth of my twins, but both of them were critical at their premature birth.

2023-03-31 19:26:28

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I’m dying. This kitty so cute 🥰

2023-03-31 19:25:53

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He’s so cute 🥰 I love tuxedos. The most adorable kind of cat.

2023-03-22 02:46:30

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He just gets more and more creepy :blobfacepalm:

2023-03-22 00:05:27

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Gender queer was written by a tim wasn’t it? No wonder it’s full of misogyny.

2023-03-06 03:21:09

A friend is unbelievably upset that people are boycotting a YouTube show made for babies and toddlers that has a NB woman on it. I’ve never heard of this ‘show’, but you’d think it’s the best thing since sliced bread.
People need to stop trusting YouTube to teach their kids.