BenG77

Artist - bitcoiner - mover

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attentiveflamingo148248@getalby.com

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2024-11-04 16:04:15

Finding Strength in Vulnerability
Thanks for the reminder, @npub1ujm…nemc
I’d like to share a bit about my path to becoming a man. It’s been a journey – one that took me 40 years and a wake-up call I didn’t see coming: my wife left me after 17 years of marriage and a 30-year friendship. That hit me hard, but it also opened the door to parts of myself I’d kept hidden – my vulnerability, my emotions, my fears.
Growing Up Without a Map:
I grew up in Berlin without a father or a healthy masculine role model. The ’80s and ’90s weren’t exactly a golden age for positive male figures. My friends and I – all of us raised by strong women – like ALL of my best friends!!! - saw men around us either absent or lost in their own ego trips, seemingly disconnected from their families. It was a time when, honestly, men seemed to have let a lot of people down.
Breaking Old Patterns:
It took me four decades to understand that it’s okay not to have all the answers. Just being with my problems – not running from them or trying to fix everything instantly – was a big shift. I realized that the journey to becoming a man doesn’t mean shutting down emotions; it means opening up to them.
Relearning Emotion:
After decades of holding back tears, now even the cheesiest Disney movie gets to me. I’ve learned that just being open to feel, without always needing to act on those feelings, is powerful. Most of the time, simply allowing emotions to exist is enough.
Redefining Masculinity:
Rewiring my inner framework took three years. For me, becoming a man has meant getting softer, staying grounded, and realizing that sometimes, the strongest thing I can do is to feel and express my emotions. No quick fixes, no avoidance – just presence.
That’s been my journey to manhood: https://image.nostr.build/a5a9010a0e9fa797036a229b57cb754a0f03638e640766405b013632f08d3845.jpg #note14cp…vjgw

2024-10-25 10:45:49

GM ( Guten Mittag ) this is a little impression from the south of 🇵🇹 Portugal https://image.nostr.build/73dc2b55cbd2aa5ed3b6a2887935a6587d54554c4ad02f7ab570a64cc0eb1362.jpg

2024-10-22 09:36:27

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won’t make it this time but I send it to my friend @npub1ady…5w6k he might join, next time I hopefully make it ! Is it always on the 22. and in the same Location?

2024-10-22 09:25:56

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Where in Berlin exactly?

2024-10-13 14:58:07

#ecash! need to check the finally out
just some many new exciting things in this space evolving at the same time #note146x…x9wq

2024-10-11 08:14:50

so blessed landing up here on nostr, going step by step into a new dimension of SM and network
Reading all these amazing posts here that I enjoy, as a bitcoiner by 🤍,
Still I struggle with the onboarding process, my main focus is not on the technical part
But I m pushing into it #note17gg…yyup

2024-10-10 21:48:52

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https://getalby.com/invited-by/coinsnap

2024-10-09 15:30:43

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That helps thanx

2024-10-06 09:10:33

thanx for the reminder
since I'm here on #nostr
I don't like the other social media
so much anymore #note1zru…582r

2024-10-02 20:21:43

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Yes you are right, for me this picture is a good metaphor for how I feel between a lot of friends who are still in the matrix,

2024-09-30 16:09:46

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mic drop

2024-09-30 15:51:42

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Thanx for your work

2024-09-30 08:43:20

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Love it bro

2024-09-30 07:32:25

Good Morning from Berlin
While I have my strong elephant coffee I wonder what’s your favorite clients on Noster
Still new here, super excited to learn every day big thanks to my bro
@npub1855…z2xk digging harder into it And ping-ponging it back to me.
peace ✌️ https://image.nostr.build/1a5b183dd7227c76cae9111e7e98af45e65aa3e55b75c2178bd570d68c03bd58.jpg

2024-09-29 16:44:52

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@npub1855…z2xk

2024-09-29 16:43:45

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Hahaha yes master

2024-09-29 16:31:22

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Thanx

2024-09-29 16:30:01

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Nice thank you so much for the link

2024-09-29 16:27:29

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Should work now

2024-09-29 16:26:54

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Thanx

2024-09-29 16:26:41

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Thanx for writing, it is already a Sweet experience to have all these welcoming comments like yours
kinda start liking it here

2024-09-29 16:25:10

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I think it’s the Bitcoin space, hearing “Nostr” so much in potcasts

2024-09-29 16:22:23

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Thanx, quite exciting did my first zaps

2024-09-27 21:10:20

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Wow that's cool projects

2024-09-27 12:36:46

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yes

2024-09-27 11:39:59

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yeah love it

2024-09-27 11:15:23

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check

2024-09-25 07:48:21

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Neid

2024-09-07 04:51:36

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Thanx for the reminder

2024-08-30 23:23:28

brave new world #note15tx…ygs6

2024-08-28 08:57:17

Good morning its my first post here and I m super excited and also a bit ambivalent about this cus I m trying to cut all my sm activity
Nostr been a while on my to dos
So here we go
#introductions https://image.nostr.build/d7971fbbd56e6f61406bae7d1759ae226208f1fca532705f0cd3d4c37a5dd37a.jpg