Enia Titova

internet elder trying new things since 1996; will post about #books, #cats, #hiking, #crafts, #food and #sfpol, as well as my #StreetPhotography; currently in the foggy end of #sanfrancisco, parenting #LilOrangeAnnie with @shotsandcuts; fiercely #belarusian, for independent #belarus 🤍❤️🤍 and free #ukraine 🇺🇦

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2024-09-20 17:57:12

So Cards Against Humanity just sued M*sk for ruining a piece of land they bought in Texas for their customers...
#2024bingocard
https://www.elonowesyou100dollars.com/

2024-09-10 03:14:12

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@npub1mpw…4h3u if I could live anywhere in the world, I would live in Melbourne.

2024-08-24 18:41:05

Banana worked hard all week, hardly left the office.
#LilOrangeAnnie #caturday #catsofmastodon
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2024-08-18 17:15:35

#silentsunday
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2024-08-10 19:54:19

“so you’re telling me you enjoy soaking in your giant water dish. OKAY.”
#LilOrangeAnnie #caturday #catsofmastodon
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2024-07-21 23:59:20

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@npub1sfl…gczt I don’t mean to torture you, but I did go to the grocery store and…
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2024-07-20 18:20:30

I rearranged my office so now Banana spends her days lounging within petting reach at all times and gazing out the window.
I did it for me, to be clear. I rearranged my office *for me.*
#LilOrangeAnnie #caturday #catsofmastodon
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2024-07-15 17:58:09

If you want to make a meaningful difference between now and November, stop scrolling talking heads fortune telling and sign up for voter registration and election protection volunteer shifts.
I’m taking two weeks off before Election Day to drive voters to the polls and provide any other assistance the campaign asks of me.
Take advantage of your “unlimited PTO,” fellow tech workers. It’s not like you’re going to be able to focus then anyway!
https://hachyderm.io/@mekkaokereke/112791512836490505

2024-07-06 19:15:46

“And where do you think you’re going?!”
#LilOrangeAnnie #caturday #catsofmastodon
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2024-06-28 01:38:01

I love you all but I need you to CW your debate posts...

2024-06-08 18:05:19

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@npub1sfl…gczt it’s literally my favorite chore in the world, I do it recreationally on vacation and offer the service to local friends do but they never take me up on it 🤷🏻‍♀️

2024-06-08 04:18:38

my San Francisco public library branch series has been on such a long hiatus.
and while I have 3 other posts sitting in my Drafts folder, I'm most excited to share with you today's visit to the Ocean View Branch Library.
https://eniatea.medium.com/seeing-the-ocean-view-353a904d570b
#libraries
p.s. it's also a little bit about #trains

2024-05-30 21:17:20

I’d really like to stop living in unprecedented times.

2024-05-28 00:17:25

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It has been pointed out to me that I have, in fact, had bangs before in my life and here’s evidence of my mother toothbrushing them into place. maybe I should try this…
#vintagephotography #ussr
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2024-05-25 22:05:04

sometimes you turn 43, never having had bangs in your life, and you decide “well, why not now?!”
and so you get bangs on the foggiest day of the year that develop a mind of their own the second you leave the salon.
lord send me patience and some blow dry clips.
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2024-05-25 17:53:24

hey #sfba #cooking folks:
what’s the best place to get andouille in SF? like today? This @npub1wnr…w499 has me in the mood for gumbo.

2024-05-17 23:45:15

ordered some new cat furniture from IKEA.
picked it up at the Market Street location.
ate a delicious plant-based hot dog.
brought it back home on Muni.
what’s not to love?!
#sfmta #publictransit
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2024-04-27 00:15:48

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@npub1gg5…vxnm I started using the library so much more after I moved to the west side and I was wondering why it took me so long until I realized there are absolutely no libraries in most of SoMa. It’s a library desert between Chinatown, Main, and Mission Bay.

2024-04-15 17:08:45

a reminder for some, and an announcement for others!
#sfba #photography and architecture/history folks:
I'm hosting a tour of the historic Ninth Circuit courthouse in SF, on April 19 2024, 2 pm.
the courthouse is usually closed to the public, but I was able to arrange a tour by virtue of being a lawyer!
RSVPs are required so please DM me. additional details in the linked post:
https://sfba.social/@eniatitova/111880218389850907

2024-03-09 20:01:17

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@npub1mpw…4h3u literally got into this fight with my Mom a few weeks ago when I told her we were shopping for an all-electric car.
I’ve been thinking a lot about how people change their minds, especially in the context of the upcoming election in the US. And I struggle to remember an example of when I last did about something big. I’m a design thinker by nature so I change my mind about small things and make improvements to how I do things all the time, but I’m not sure I’m very open to changing my mind about big stuff.

2024-02-29 19:39:29

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@npub1gg5…vxnm I think we focus on store closures but don’t call attention to store openings as much.
I went to the new IKEA and it’s *great*: got everything I needed, and a couple of things I didn’t know I needed 😂, took them home on the train. After shopping, I stopped for dinner at Burma Love in Mint Plaza and it was packed: so much for “no one wants to go out downtown.”
Target and Office Max closed but Total Wine opened on Division. This is a hard transition period but good things are happening too. And @npub14py…9ws9 advocating for and ultimately prevailing on Safeway to remain open for a year was a huge win.
That said: it’s time for bold leadership from the Mayor and the best she seems to have come up with is “force people to go back to the office and give cops more money.”

2024-02-29 19:08:56

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@npub1gg5…vxnm Macy’s consistently had one of the very few size-inclusive formalwear departments where you could try on things without having to order them in advance. Now both they and Nordstrom are gone, so for someone like me, it means ordering a million dresses online, knowing that any sizes I return are going to end up in an illegal landfill in Chile. They provided services like watch repair/battery replacement, alternations and shoe repair/shine which can be challenging to find in San Francisco.
it’s also a key anchor of the Union Square commercial quarter. having two giant buildings (3?) sitting vacant is going to be a hit no matter how you put it. Especially around the holidays when they created destination windows and other decor that drew people to the neighborhood. I know SFSPCA partnered with them to feature adoptions… whether we like it or not, they are an important thread in the city’s fabric (pun fully intended).

2024-02-24 18:43:33

perfect loaf, 14/10, no paws or tail visible.
(vertical photo)
#LilOrangeAnnie #catsofmastodon #caturday
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2024-02-15 19:47:44

the election mail is getting a little unhinged: I didn’t even know dogs could register as Republicans.
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2024-01-23 01:33:22

I’m not proud that I had to be reminded to not “stare at it cuz the sun is still back there” but this is one exceptional #sunset
#sanfrancisco
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2024-01-15 20:14:52

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@npub1s0r…972x what that article doesn’t mention is that the wives/mothers movement was pivotal to Soviet withdrawal from Afghanistan, and was one of the earliest cracks that led to the fall of the USSR overall, so the current demobilization effort is scary for Putin.
The difference between then and now is that Brezhnev conveniently died and was replaced by a reformer (Gorbachev) a few years later after all the regressive replacements also died in office within months of each other.
I’m not sure whether Russia will get that kind of opportunity at reform, because this will certainly not be solved through elections since they will not be in any way or shape “free” this year: Putin will win and will continue to rule until he drops dead.

2023-12-25 00:54:41

#silentsunday
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2023-12-24 03:07:29

we finally decorated our #Christmas tree. this year’s new additions to the #ornament family are:
1. an ice skating giraffe in a red puffer jacket
2. a cabbage (for me)
3. an Early Girl tomato (for @npub1vqp…7592)
and the piece de resistance
4. a new topper of a cat holding a pink star with its tail, in honor of Banana
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2023-12-23 18:24:46

please join me in wishing happy birthday to @npub1fcp…dszd, one of the moderators maintaining this wonderful space for us here at #sfba!
I got you the first gif I ever stole from you:
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2023-12-16 23:37:12

Banana hopes your #caturday is full of joy.
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2023-10-05 15:29:18

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@npub1py0…2dqu @npub10mp…24py I’m “you didn’t used to have to wait in a giant line to get Mitchell’s” old so I’m always shocked at how popular it’s become (but in a pleasant way! yay Mitchell’s!)

2023-10-03 00:24:03

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@npub1503…uxwg yeah. when I was driving to Mountain View, I wasn't doing much better. mind you, my employer had an office in SF. but i was told i hadn't earned the privilege of working there. so i quit.
now they want me as a client. ha! let's see you earn the privilege.

2023-10-02 23:31:46

I woke up in the dark, got dressed, and drove to a doctor’s appointment in San Mateo. The clinic is a mile from my former office so this drive is one I’ve done hundreds of times.
but today it felt... odd. anachronistic.
it’s not that the drive itself is bad: there are way worse places to be than 280 at dawn, inside a warm masterpiece of German engineering.
there’s hardly any traffic. no billboards from enterprise software startups shouting at each other about the superiority of their product offerings.
when I did this commute daily (because there isn’t public transit where I’m going), I treated it like moving meditation.
notice @npub1wnr…w499 still asleep in the folds of the hills. admire how the sun paints the trees a golden yellow.
in isolation, it’s not a bad diversion.
but when we *had to* do it daily? each of us inside a small metal box, suffocating the very view we feel privileged to admire?
that’s barbarian.
will we ever do it again?
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2023-09-25 18:43:44

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@npub10u3…uatl I love this. The light and color composition remind me of Rembrandt.

2023-09-21 03:56:56

can I tell y’all the best thing that happened to me today?
I fed my cat half a pill from my goddamn hand by offering it between two treats.
sometimes the absence of the shared brain cell breaks to your advantage.
#LilOrangeAnnie
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2023-09-20 16:55:48

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@npub1gr8…c639 especially prevalent among marketing and product management teams. you know, definitely not people for whom "writing well" is in the job description *eye roll*

2023-09-20 16:49:03

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@npub1gr8…c639 you already have. everyone who works with me uses ChatGPT to write even the most routine communications.

2023-09-17 02:02:33

I don’t have a great Banana photo this week for #caturday.
Because Banana has been a little standoffish with me as I heal from surgery. I’m a less welcoming lap since I’m not allowed to sleep normally which means Banana isn’t able to sleep on me normally. And then I had the nerve to go back to work and spend my days sitting at my desk.
So. She’s tolerating me for now. But I’m on thin ice as a her Person.
#LilOrangeAnnie
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2023-09-11 23:10:06

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@npub1mpw…4h3u bookmarked, thank you! I've wanted to see Darwin forever.

2023-09-11 22:37:51

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@npub1mpw…4h3u gorgeous! is this the kind of expedition a member of the public could join or... I'll be in the opposite end of Western Australia in November: Donnelly River and Margaret River. But would love to do a future adventure on the northern side!

2023-09-11 18:06:24

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@npub1py0…2dqu they’re conveying a pigeon congress!

2023-09-09 17:38:48

Banana and I went back to work on Thursday after 2 weeks of sick leave. She’s exhausted.
#LilOrangeAnnie #caturday
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2023-09-09 07:25:46

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@npub1503…uxwg I’ve decided that Polaroids completely fail to capture a factually accurate picture of reality yet capture the feeling of it 100% of the time.

2023-08-31 22:12:43

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@npub1503…uxwg this is such a difficult task, I hope you all give yourselves grace during this time.

2023-08-19 17:29:53

Banana has a new cardboard mansion and she likes it very much, thanks for asking.
#caturday #LilOrangeAnnie
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2023-08-14 01:22:24

#silentsunday
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2023-08-06 23:22:53

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@npub1ev6…nh08 yeah, unfortunately that’s not really a workable solution for the majority of the population: I spend at 3 hours a day on video calls as an active participant every day. my product lead probably clocks 8.
my concern as a lawyer is over the destruction of privilege. We litigated this issue over gmail analyzing the data, and the courts found that didn’t destroy privilege. But this is different: this content is being harvested and processed, and may resurface somewhere.
then there’s my personal concern as a disabled person is: I need my colleagues on video so I can read their lips to understand them better. So if this drives people to not be on video, that’s really hard on me and my auditory processing disorder.

2023-08-06 23:22:53

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2023-08-06 21:41:36

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@npub1ev6…nh08 so how will you participate in meetings?

2023-08-05 16:41:09

Banana has been particularly chill lately, she would never let me sneak up that close with a camera before.
#caturday #LilOrangeAnnie
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2023-07-28 19:35:43

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@npub1503…uxwg and they say men don’t have face to face relationships!

2023-07-14 20:36:13

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@npub1gr8…c639 every time I'm forced to go to one of these things, I insist on driving myself for this very reason: I need to be able to leave whenever I want. and then I have to aggressively decline invitations from coworkers who offer to give me a lift/invite themselves to join me in my car. no: I can't rely on/be responsible for anyone's transport that might prevent me from making a hasty exit when anxiety hits.
this is all to say you're not a lone lunatic, we are all lunatics.

2023-07-13 23:17:59

on the one hand, I want to go to the SF Art Book Fair tonight (they’ll have a BORSCHT truck, y’all.)
on the other, I’d like to continue having money.
😩
https://sfartbookfair.com/
#sanfrancisco #art #bookstodon

2023-07-12 18:07:35

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just did a little research and pulled up the Friends of SF Public Library 990.
and all I have to says is: yikes.
https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/946085452/202340769349300539/full
On a revenue of $3M, they spent $1.6M in salaries and other benefits. I guess the finicky form and check it is for me going forward directly to the library!

2023-07-12 17:36:01

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@npub1ev6…nh08 I shouldn't be stunned, but I am. what a loss.

2023-07-12 17:34:55

It's early July, which means I'm engaging with one of my favorite biannual rituals: donating to the SF Public Library for all the books I borrowed/read in the first half of the year.
I'm fortunate/privileged to be able to buy all the books I read, but I prefer to borrow them from the library and support this vital resource for all. so I choose to give back by donating their value.
for #sfpl, you can donate cash in two ways:
1) to the library directly, which involves this pesky form
https://sfpl.org/sites/default/files/2023-02/SFPL-667GiftForm_rev02.2023.pdf
2) to the Friends of the San Francisco Public Library with far fewer hoops
https://www.friendssfpl.org/support.html
if you have an informed opinion on the best way to donate (I know several of my followers work for the city), please share it here, im genuinely curious.
#bookstodon #currentlyreading #sanfrancisco #library

2023-06-29 16:40:07

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@npub1py0…2dqu those hawks have been trying to hunt Banana
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2023-06-26 18:20:49

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@npub1503…uxwg I don’t even know that they really exist anymore, with milder winters everywhere and double glazed windows. maybe a thing from the bygone past that we can only enjoy to a small degree on airplanes.

2023-06-26 17:47:50

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@npub1503…uxwg this made me nostalgic for winter mornings in Belarus, waking up to frost patterns on the windows before school and on the bus to school in the dark. I really miss seeing the more elaborate patterns.

2023-06-14 16:54:50

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@npub1gr8…c639 artificial sweeteners are a migraine trigger for many, myself included. in recent years, it’s become nearly impossible to find a low calorie drink alternative that doesn’t have them. just put in a little bit of sugar, don’t compensate with synthetics to get the “full sweetness” level. im perfectly happy with 5 grams of sugar that tastes just a little sweet.

2023-06-09 20:11:22

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@npub1ev6…nh08 I was going to pick up dinner on Wednesday at Little Original Joe’s (that I called in!) and I was the only human there to get my own meal. Everyone else was a DoorDash driver.
On the way back I passed 3(!) other DoorDash drivers delivering food to homes a block(!) away from West Portal Ave.
It’s very hard to fight against this ingrained entitled laziness.

2023-05-18 17:36:41

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@npub1ev6…nh08 it's just everywhere isn 't it?! orange skies in Calgary, torrential downpours in Italy... we're so screwed

2023-05-07 05:26:03

this is Frankie. She lives in the Tenderloin but escaped from a sitter at 35th and Judah while her Mom was away.
There’s been a sighting in South SF/Colma/Daly City. If you see her, please text Julie at the number on the flyer.
Please don’t try to chase her or catch her yourself.
#sfba #lostdog #lostPet
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2023-05-03 21:09:02

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@npub1ple…a2ev @npub1ev6…nh08 I am continuously frustrated by lack of action on this front. not just because it's a wasted opportunity brought on by real world disruption (pandemic).
but also because it is a scary time in the world for a lot of people who would benefit from moving to a place like San Francisco, that is not actively working to deprive us of our rights.
we should be doing the most to become a sanctuary, and instead city leaders are acting contrary to all the data, and encouraging companies to force people to come back to work. for what? to be less productive, create more pollution commuting, and expose them to a virus with the potential to cause long term crippling disability? all so we can bury our heads in the sand and preserve our CRE tax base for a couple more years?!

2023-05-03 17:12:58

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@npub1ev6…nh08 speaking from personal experience, I shopped at that Nordstroms a lot, in the before times and during the pandemic. Nordstrom caused its own death spiral. I went shopping several times during the pandemic and they were stocking absolutely nothing in store. They disinvested in the location even when the traffic returned.

2023-04-25 15:24:28

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#[0] had the same thing happen yesterday after I spent all weekend preparing (freaking out) about said meeting. it’s that kind of thing that makes me extremely annoyed with people and not want to work with them ever again.

2023-04-22 16:09:30

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#[0] that’s a very good butt, esp considering how fast those fuckers move

2023-04-17 03:23:22

#[0]
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2023-04-14 02:45:48

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#[0] I’ve only had it a week but I’m very glad I got it. I wanted it for a long time and got influenced by people at work getting them.

2023-04-13 22:09:17

I got one of those walking treadmills for under my standing desk, and have become insufferable.

2023-04-12 18:52:34

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#[0] #[1] oh 100%. But I wasn’t even talking about specifics. To me, as an attorney, if I ever hear an executive whinge: “Legal said we can’t do it!” is a red flag to not work with that person. Because what that means is: “I made the decision that the risk wasn’t worth it but don’t want the blowback from stakeholders. So I’m gonna scapegoat legal because everyone knows what wet blankets lawyers are, amirite?!” anyway, this is just personal trauma, don’t mind me 😂

2023-04-12 17:59:53

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#[0] #[1] as an attorney, it is our role to advise of risk, but never to block an executive if they’re fully informed of the risk and willing to act despite it (I call it the “I told you so!” Doctrine). something tells me that this particular Mayor doesn’t do a great job taking responsibility for making risky decisions…

2023-03-21 21:50:22

you know when I moved here from the East Coast, I was promised no hurricanes.
to quote #[0]: “what kind of Florida is this?!”
#[1]

2023-03-21 19:43:57

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#[0] also what book store closures are they referring to? because most neighborhood bookstores are thriving. the only closures I can think of is Aardvark and that was a very dumb call by the landlord.