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2024-09-19 01:16:18

"Those jobs are for teenagers, they don't need a living wage."
Alright you bitches, you can only have your Chicken Nuggies in summers and weekends after soccer practice...but in Hell, because teenagers are people who still deserve a living wage.

2024-09-11 03:32:43

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That debate wasn't going to change any MAGA minds or liberal ones, but I'm hoping it's enough for the Undecideds, and the Republicans who are sick of MAGA bullshit.

2024-09-11 02:49:06

Immigrants eating pets, what a WEIRD thing to say.

2024-09-08 06:07:13

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Right, it understands what it is, but still loves it

2024-09-01 13:50:46

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There you go being high maintenance (assuming you deserve equal rights) lol

2024-09-01 13:39:54

Conservative Men: Women are so high maintenance!
Also Conservative Men, crying because no one made them a sandwich.

2024-08-30 19:02:56

Speaking of Muppets, @npub1p8v…86uv asked the very important question:
What Muppet do you most relate to?

2024-08-29 17:34:28

If you've ever had an occasion to think about changing your name, whether it's because you're trans, non-binary, for spiritual reasons, or just because, what would you or did you choose, what is it's significance to you?

2024-08-28 21:55:36

What is something they try to shove in movies or TV that just isn't that interesting to you?
Mine is Poker, they try very hard to make it look interesting, but it's just not very entertaining to watch.

2024-08-27 14:19:36

The existence of libraries says, We want EVERYONE, to have access to information, entertainment, and services for free.
So, what are the people who want to defund and censor them saying to all of us?

2024-08-22 13:59:27

The USPS isn't "losing money", it's providing a service, that's the job of the government. Conservatives never talk about how much money Defense loses, and entire aircraft carriers just "disappear".

2024-08-20 16:14:05

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oh wait am I not adding necessary R's?!

2024-08-20 16:03:59

I love when British people add unnecessary R's to words!
Like they say NASAr instead of NASA, y'all are cute.

2024-07-18 19:55:20

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TOTALLY, I could go off for a long time about Hitler's history with women and girls.

2024-07-18 19:02:17

Can you imagine being this repressed? We'll accept your LGBTQ+ self over here, ya'll. You don't have to do a Fascism.
https://www.pride.com/republican-national-convention-grindr

2024-07-18 13:53:26

Seriously, if the American Election cycle was a TV series, I would say it was being way too over the top and dramatic, this much stuff just doesn't happen, and yet here we are.

2024-07-17 22:31:13

Awww yes, more from the Cursed Timeline:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2024/07/17/president-biden-tests-positive-for-covid-unidosus-leader-says.html

2024-07-17 20:06:25

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Pick better fries lol

2024-07-16 14:57:10

Grind Culture Bros Be Like:
Life Goals:
Do a Capitalism so hard I stroke out.

2024-07-16 13:12:25

I'm not sure if I'm about to get propositioned, murdered, or go home with a discount on some pork chops...
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2024-07-16 01:24:15

I'm in the process of buying a new used car, anyone have an advice on negotiating the best deal?

2024-07-15 19:19:00

Do we have the option to remake it?
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/792/109/243/450/054/original/e5d94dda38722069.png

2024-07-14 19:17:15

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I don't want to be too much of an optimist here, but I am seeing a trend...hopefully it keeps happening

2024-07-14 17:56:18

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I've seen people posting more and more that we need to stop being nice and just refer to Trump by what he is a Rapist, not buts, and I couldn't agree more.

2024-07-14 17:35:16

I saw this posted on Tumblr, and the comments were very angry, and admittedly I was thrown by the title at first too. I read through it though, and couldn't find a lie, this is just stuff a good Relationship Therapist would tell you:
What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture"
the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love
the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities
the idea that you should meet your partner's every need, and if you don’t, either you're inadequate or they're too needy
the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else
the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship
the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on
the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life
the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself

2024-07-14 15:30:06

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I guess you could say that about all songs in some way, but now I have to go relisten to every Ke$ha song. It's not too far from imagination that a generation who feels like they have very little hope has so many songs about living in the moment, when the future feels so doomed.

2024-07-14 15:14:24

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That's how she sings lol

2024-07-14 15:08:43

You ever have one of those moments when you've listened to a song a ton of times, but then have a sudden realization of what it's actually about? This was me listening to Chandelier by Sia today. Oh, this isn't a party song, it's about numbing yourself, because the realities of life have become too overwhelming. Well, shit.
https://youtu.be/2vjPBrBU-TM?si=OwVRnnn-z8F5_Tux

2024-07-14 03:17:54

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Ohhh good choice, when I was little I read that fairies wore flowers as skirts, and I always wanted to do that.

2024-07-14 02:54:21

I really want to crawl into my pocket dimension. Mine involves very soft blankets and pillows, snuggles, candlelight, tea in a lovely cup, a great audio book, and a gentle storm outside.
What does your's involve?

2024-07-14 00:33:30

Yep, that's a normal way to react to being shot at:
Trump replied: “Wait, wait.” He then pumped his fist, mouthed the words: “Fight, fight, fight.”
And the crowd at the rally responded with cries of: “USA! USA! USA!”
Armed troops in uniform soon arrived as some spectators shouted abuse at the media.
Agents then whisked Trump away from sight.

2024-07-13 15:59:40

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I did, although some of it hit me in the gut, but that's part of growing

2024-07-13 15:53:21

I saw Inside Out 2 last night. I really enjoyed it, but I noticed something. Riley's parent's emotions had all settled into the sex that they presented as, whereas Riley had emotions that presented as male, female, and non-binary. I don't know if this was intentional or just portraying a young person still figuring out identity, but I thought it was an interesting touch.

2024-07-12 15:53:09

Why are companies that should specialize in cyber security, really really shit at cyber security? I've never had faith in privacy from Corporations, but they can't even cover their own asses.

2024-07-12 14:12:35

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Yeah I've seen it a lot too, like people don't have enough confidence in themselves to do it on their own.

2024-07-12 13:50:02

Okay, this is me just talking about some stuff in my life, that's currently stressing me out. None of you know these people so it won't hurt anyone to spill a little tea.
Some friends of mine are divorcing, and I'm friends with both of them. It's a situation where they both carry some blame, and it isn't one of those, This is clear the side you should take, things.
One of the people, James, can be something of a man child sometimes, likes being cared for, and is very resistant to change, but also can't settle either. This has been rough for his spouse Amanda, who is one of those people everyone likes, but has trouble expressing her issues with people often to remain likable. The whole thing festered too long, and Amanda ended up cheating. Yeah, it sucks, but I'm going to say something unpopular here. Some people cheat, because they are cheaters, they intended to cheat, and they always will, but some people cheat, because they are stuck, and something deep in their brain knows they need to change the situation, so they do an "unforgivable" thing, and I think that is the situation. Either way, other than instances of abuse, there are rarely relationships that end, because of just one person, there's a whole lot of gray in between. In these situations, I never want to take sides, I don't want to cast out either one from our circle, and I never know what to do in these situations. I'm still navigating this with my brother and his ex, when they broke up, and I'm still friends with both, and while they aren't full of hate for each other or anything, they still aren't at the point where they can hang out with each other either. I don't know, it just feels heavy, and I don't want to leave anyone out or make anyone feel bad for leaving a relationship they were unhappy in. It's just a part of life and I'm doing my best to figure it out.
Anyway, have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

2024-07-12 01:33:12

Today I Learned:
My husband went to Christian School, and apparently they had a Fight Club.

2024-07-12 00:49:07

Things No One Tells You, But They Should:
All trauma you've repressed through your teens and 20's will come bite your ass in your 30's, you will not escape this reckoning.
What else do you wish someone would have told you?

2024-07-11 18:00:55

Who had Gay Furries hack the Heritage Foundation on their bingo card?
https://www.advocate.com/news/gay-furry-hackers-heritage-foundation#toggle-gdpr

2024-07-11 16:21:26

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2024-07-11 14:44:43

I sure do miss journalism.
The Daily Times, New Philadelphia, Ohio, July 9, 1924
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2024-07-11 13:45:38

This hit me pretty hard:
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/768/147/325/726/614/original/55e5c6f443add04c.jpg

2024-07-10 17:19:24

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If you all like those creamy eggs, you are much fancier than me, and I will trade you mine for something else.

2024-07-10 17:09:18

TV Chefs, please stop trying to get me to make your soupy ass Scrambled Eggs.

2024-07-10 14:03:43

Here's my question:
How do you motivate yourself to do a task you don't really want to do?
Lately, I've been saving episodes of podcasts I'm really looking forward to listening to, and telling myself, You can listen, but you also need to fold laundry, or wipe down the bathroom, ect. It work okay most of the time, like giving myself a tiny award.

2024-07-10 01:02:24

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This actually goes back all the way before they were even invented

2024-07-10 01:00:41

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It so is

2024-07-09 21:35:31

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Oh dear

2024-07-09 21:35:04

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Yeah I want at least something for comfort

2024-07-09 20:47:46

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LOL that's seasoning, I do it too, I just try not to burn anyone out when I'm cooking for a group

2024-07-09 20:46:09

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Amen

2024-07-09 20:44:15

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Bahaha

2024-07-09 20:42:47

Me: Ugh I hate drama and chaos!
Also me, surrounds myself with drama and chaos.

2024-07-09 20:34:18

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To their own food they are cooking publicly

2024-07-09 20:25:12

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Oh yeah, I've tried, never managed

2024-07-09 20:19:22

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told me to say this

2024-07-09 20:18:42

I have so many testicle support opinions.

2024-07-09 18:48:17

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Oh sure, you think science is funny lol

2024-07-09 18:41:47

BRA RANT!
Alright, I have what science would call big ole titties, and as I've aged I just have way less patience with feeling uncomfortable at all. Because of this I rarely wear underwire bras anymore, but someone will always tell me I just haven't tried the right bra or haven't worn the right size. Here's the thing though, I HAVE. I've spent hundreds of dollars finding the right size and best quality, and guess what, wearing them more than a few hours still gets uncomfortable. Still, for years I felt like I owed people seeing my Tits conform to some kind of standard that's not even based on real Boobs. Like maybe we can just wear what we want or not wear it, I feel better with a little support, but if you don't, do your thing. If you love your underwires, do that too, your boobs and what you do with them isn't anyone's business.

2024-07-09 17:25:25

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One church lady once went off on me, because we should not bless people who are unbelievers

2024-07-09 17:16:31

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I've been going with the old Shrek, Better out than in lol

2024-07-09 17:02:21

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But then kids might think about "private parts" and become depraved sex maniacs lol

2024-07-09 16:56:23

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The Five Tips Your Doctor Doesn't Want You To Know lol

2024-07-09 16:49:04

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LOL

2024-07-09 16:48:17

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I was trying to think, and I don't remember not knowing, but I also don't remember being expressly taught about it either.

2024-07-09 16:47:23

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LOL this is above my pay grade

2024-07-09 16:46:30

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Definitely, I try to explain to people why they call coming out of religious ideas is called Deconstruction, it takes time to question and reevaluate everything, you have to give people time and space to do it.

2024-07-09 16:37:27

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I'm not sure, I saw the post of Tumblr

2024-07-09 16:34:20

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Making kids or adults understand that there is always an "It depends" while making them also understand that they need this foundational knowledge to understand more complex ideas, can certainly be a task. That's why I've always admired great teachers.

2024-07-09 16:30:39

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This is your fault @npub1h7g…a6y3

2024-07-09 16:30:13

Whenever I say "Bless You" to someone when they sneeze, I shoot them some finger guns, and remind them to be thankful that I kept demons from flying into their mouths.

2024-07-09 16:22:23

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Or like me, they love spicy food, but their stomach doesn't lol, and I still use hot sauce, just not the really hot kinds

2024-07-09 16:20:55

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I was watching a bunch of cooking shows and every time the chef would add hot sauce they'd do a little suggestive wink or something like that to the camera, and it's just a really common ingredient basically everyone uses, why is it loaded like that?

2024-07-09 16:03:26

I love when people act like they are being naughty, because they added hot sauce to food.

2024-07-09 15:32:10

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Yeah, this is one of the few times when I'm not going to blame pharmaceutical companies, they just don't make much money on vaccines, but that's what always gets blamed.

2024-07-09 15:28:13

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Right we want some kind of security in what often feels like chaos

2024-07-09 15:25:31

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YES

2024-07-09 15:25:09

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I don't think it's entirely evil or anything either, if someone grew up being called out for being "different" so they hid behaviors and mask a good amount of the time, they are probably afraid for their kid to go through a similar thing, but it is missing the mark on what would make this better for their child.

2024-07-09 15:22:35

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Fascinating

2024-07-09 15:22:17

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It's not as common, but bullies are still bullies unfortunately

2024-07-09 15:11:28

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Oh wow that is an excellent point

2024-07-09 15:05:54

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No one said that

2024-07-09 14:51:28

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Please don't conflate this into thinking that I mean a child who is ND or disabled is less good or desirable than a child who isn't, I am not, only a monster would see it that way.

2024-07-09 14:48:39

Okay I'm just spouting off here, and this is purely conjecture, so feel free to comment or send studies or whatever. I'm curious what other people think.
I feel like so much of this anti-vaccine rhetoric is based in ableism and self hatred. Many of the conditions that are attributed to vaccines by anti-vaxxers are often genetic. Let's say the big one, "Vaccines are giving kids autism." Autism has a large genetic component, estimates between 40%-80% are common. I have to wonder how much of it is wanting something to blame when they have trouble accepting their child as is, as well as having trouble accepting themselves as possibly having autistic traits. Maybe they are afraid of being blamed for not being good enough or healthy enough to have a "perfect" child, and it's easier to blame something completely unrelated.

2024-07-09 13:40:11

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Wow someone else has seen Crimewave!

2024-07-09 13:37:30

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It depends lol

2024-07-09 13:36:58

This is fascinating:
https://youtube.com/shorts/VfsUefFIhCk?si=o8b4MW5t2cQRfRGO

2024-07-09 13:14:07

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I never get tired of this one, so well written

2024-07-09 13:08:24

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Oh, so you're the one

2024-07-09 12:59:22

So, when people start yelling about there only being two genders, we all get to roll our eyes and say, "Omg, you're being so middle school right now!"
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/756/646/817/497/889/original/303aa432d17f7174.jpg

2024-07-09 02:25:34

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Ohhhhh

2024-07-09 02:24:13

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Upon reflection, I have realized my weed gummie just hit, and this might be a personal situation, and not something everyone else might understand.

2024-07-09 02:23:00

I love when guys think they have a sexy move, and it's showing you their butt, and shaking it around.

2024-07-09 01:12:38

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Wow you're just asking for it tonight, aren't you

2024-07-09 00:48:32