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2024-07-18 19:55:20

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TOTALLY, I could go off for a long time about Hitler's history with women and girls.

2024-07-18 19:02:17

Can you imagine being this repressed? We'll accept your LGBTQ+ self over here, ya'll. You don't have to do a Fascism.
https://www.pride.com/republican-national-convention-grindr

2024-07-18 13:53:26

Seriously, if the American Election cycle was a TV series, I would say it was being way too over the top and dramatic, this much stuff just doesn't happen, and yet here we are.

2024-07-17 20:06:25

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Pick better fries lol

2024-07-16 14:57:10

Grind Culture Bros Be Like:
Life Goals:
Do a Capitalism so hard I stroke out.

2024-07-16 13:12:25

I'm not sure if I'm about to get propositioned, murdered, or go home with a discount on some pork chops...
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2024-07-14 19:17:15

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I don't want to be too much of an optimist here, but I am seeing a trend...hopefully it keeps happening

2024-07-14 15:30:06

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I guess you could say that about all songs in some way, but now I have to go relisten to every Ke$ha song. It's not too far from imagination that a generation who feels like they have very little hope has so many songs about living in the moment, when the future feels so doomed.

2024-07-14 15:14:24

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That's how she sings lol

2024-07-14 15:08:43

You ever have one of those moments when you've listened to a song a ton of times, but then have a sudden realization of what it's actually about? This was me listening to Chandelier by Sia today. Oh, this isn't a party song, it's about numbing yourself, because the realities of life have become too overwhelming. Well, shit.
https://youtu.be/2vjPBrBU-TM?si=OwVRnnn-z8F5_Tux

2024-07-14 03:17:54

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Ohhh good choice, when I was little I read that fairies wore flowers as skirts, and I always wanted to do that.

2024-07-14 02:54:21

I really want to crawl into my pocket dimension. Mine involves very soft blankets and pillows, snuggles, candlelight, tea in a lovely cup, a great audio book, and a gentle storm outside.
What does your's involve?

2024-07-13 15:59:40

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I did, although some of it hit me in the gut, but that's part of growing

2024-07-13 15:53:21

I saw Inside Out 2 last night. I really enjoyed it, but I noticed something. Riley's parent's emotions had all settled into the sex that they presented as, whereas Riley had emotions that presented as male, female, and non-binary. I don't know if this was intentional or just portraying a young person still figuring out identity, but I thought it was an interesting touch.

2024-07-12 15:53:09

Why are companies that should specialize in cyber security, really really shit at cyber security? I've never had faith in privacy from Corporations, but they can't even cover their own asses.

2024-07-12 14:12:35

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Yeah I've seen it a lot too, like people don't have enough confidence in themselves to do it on their own.

2024-07-12 13:50:02

Okay, this is me just talking about some stuff in my life, that's currently stressing me out. None of you know these people so it won't hurt anyone to spill a little tea.
Some friends of mine are divorcing, and I'm friends with both of them. It's a situation where they both carry some blame, and it isn't one of those, This is clear the side you should take, things.
One of the people, James, can be something of a man child sometimes, likes being cared for, and is very resistant to change, but also can't settle either. This has been rough for his spouse Amanda, who is one of those people everyone likes, but has trouble expressing her issues with people often to remain likable. The whole thing festered too long, and Amanda ended up cheating. Yeah, it sucks, but I'm going to say something unpopular here. Some people cheat, because they are cheaters, they intended to cheat, and they always will, but some people cheat, because they are stuck, and something deep in their brain knows they need to change the situation, so they do an "unforgivable" thing, and I think that is the situation. Either way, other than instances of abuse, there are rarely relationships that end, because of just one person, there's a whole lot of gray in between. In these situations, I never want to take sides, I don't want to cast out either one from our circle, and I never know what to do in these situations. I'm still navigating this with my brother and his ex, when they broke up, and I'm still friends with both, and while they aren't full of hate for each other or anything, they still aren't at the point where they can hang out with each other either. I don't know, it just feels heavy, and I don't want to leave anyone out or make anyone feel bad for leaving a relationship they were unhappy in. It's just a part of life and I'm doing my best to figure it out.
Anyway, have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

2024-07-12 00:49:07

Things No One Tells You, But They Should:
All trauma you've repressed through your teens and 20's will come bite your ass in your 30's, you will not escape this reckoning.
What else do you wish someone would have told you?

2024-07-11 18:00:55

Who had Gay Furries hack the Heritage Foundation on their bingo card?
https://www.advocate.com/news/gay-furry-hackers-heritage-foundation#toggle-gdpr

2024-07-11 14:44:43

I sure do miss journalism.
The Daily Times, New Philadelphia, Ohio, July 9, 1924
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2024-07-11 13:45:38

This hit me pretty hard:
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2024-07-09 21:35:04

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Yeah I want at least something for comfort

2024-07-09 20:47:46

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LOL that's seasoning, I do it too, I just try not to burn anyone out when I'm cooking for a group

2024-07-09 20:34:18

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To their own food they are cooking publicly

2024-07-09 20:18:42

I have so many testicle support opinions.

2024-07-09 18:41:47

BRA RANT!
Alright, I have what science would call big ole titties, and as I've aged I just have way less patience with feeling uncomfortable at all. Because of this I rarely wear underwire bras anymore, but someone will always tell me I just haven't tried the right bra or haven't worn the right size. Here's the thing though, I HAVE. I've spent hundreds of dollars finding the right size and best quality, and guess what, wearing them more than a few hours still gets uncomfortable. Still, for years I felt like I owed people seeing my Tits conform to some kind of standard that's not even based on real Boobs. Like maybe we can just wear what we want or not wear it, I feel better with a little support, but if you don't, do your thing. If you love your underwires, do that too, your boobs and what you do with them isn't anyone's business.

2024-07-09 16:30:39

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This is your fault @npub1h7g…a6y3

2024-07-09 16:30:13

Whenever I say "Bless You" to someone when they sneeze, I shoot them some finger guns, and remind them to be thankful that I kept demons from flying into their mouths.

2024-07-09 16:20:55

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I was watching a bunch of cooking shows and every time the chef would add hot sauce they'd do a little suggestive wink or something like that to the camera, and it's just a really common ingredient basically everyone uses, why is it loaded like that?

2024-07-09 16:03:26

I love when people act like they are being naughty, because they added hot sauce to food.

2024-07-09 15:28:13

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Right we want some kind of security in what often feels like chaos

2024-07-09 15:25:09

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I don't think it's entirely evil or anything either, if someone grew up being called out for being "different" so they hid behaviors and mask a good amount of the time, they are probably afraid for their kid to go through a similar thing, but it is missing the mark on what would make this better for their child.

2024-07-09 15:05:54

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No one said that

2024-07-09 12:59:22

So, when people start yelling about there only being two genders, we all get to roll our eyes and say, "Omg, you're being so middle school right now!"
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2024-07-09 01:12:38

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Wow you're just asking for it tonight, aren't you

2024-07-09 00:31:16

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LOL excellent

2024-07-08 03:45:09

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OMG I MISSED THAT WOW LOL

2024-07-08 03:43:21

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Hell yeah

2024-07-08 00:15:18

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Yeah I remember it being pretty good when I was a kid, but something changed

2024-07-07 23:17:16

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Not the Billionaires the Bourgeois

2024-07-07 21:29:07

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Nanna Pastina and The Chamber of Parmigiano

2024-07-07 21:26:51

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We all should

2024-07-07 21:14:14

Dead
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2024-07-07 18:42:35

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True, but I still feel like I should put it out there lol

2024-07-07 17:27:10

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It boggles me that any military would still support him at all, he has only mocked and belittled them

2024-07-07 17:14:29

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Because most people who end up homeless, can't just stay on a friend's couch until they figure it out

2024-07-07 14:58:49

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He was only cosplaying as poor, and he still couldn't do it.

2024-07-07 14:27:55

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A Presidency isn't one person, it's a group of people advising, prepping, and making decisions. That's why people are and should be afraid of Trump, he doesn't listen to anyone who isn't about his bottom line, among many other things. The list of things the Biden administration has accomplished is extensive, and people are still mad he's not Obama.

2024-07-07 14:13:09

I will never tire of reading this headline. All rich people should be forced to do this.
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2024-07-07 01:15:53

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It's a little joke from this book
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2024-07-06 23:20:56

Who will make me a Lutheran Basement Jello?

2024-07-06 21:15:20

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Bahaha

2024-07-06 18:15:39

Me, thinking deeply about the 100 Year War: That's too long.

2024-07-06 16:13:40

One time Pope Francis told some Scottish priests that Scotch was the real Holy Water. The BBC happened to be filming for a documentary at the time, and the Vatican made them censor it.

2024-07-06 15:34:31

Today I Learned:
How athletic Freestyle Frisbee is:
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2024-07-06 15:24:13

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Be a White KUK

2024-07-06 14:48:45

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If you know you know. Civil War on Drugs is still one if the best period pieces of all time lol

2024-07-06 14:20:20

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I...I thought I was a morning person lol

2024-07-06 13:54:47

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Yeah, if you're organizing a group, especially, you have to be specific lol

2024-07-06 12:50:15

Early in our marriage, I told my husband I wanted to get up early, and work on the garden before it got too hot. This is when I learned how different people's definitions of a word are. To me early meant before 6 am, so I woke him up to get to work, and he stared at me, eyes half open, like I'd gone insane. He insisted that this wasn't early it was still night. Apparently, getting up early on a weekend was any time before noon. I thought this was ridiculous, but he refused to get out of bed, so I got a hoe, and used it rather loudly and violently by the window where he was sleeping; yes, petty, I know. He eventually gave up on sleep, and came out and helped me. Over the years, we have compromised on what early is, although we still disagree on what getting ready really quick means.
How about you all, what is your early? How quick do you get ready? Have you ever had a time related misunderstanding?

2024-07-06 01:36:00

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If you like fantasy you'll enjoy his books

2024-07-05 19:39:40

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Holy Shit

2024-07-05 17:34:34

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Architect: Fine, get a concussion

2024-07-05 14:12:15

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People dying from falling off the stair counter?

2024-07-05 14:08:18

I've seen a lot of terrible design choices, but this is one of the first ones, I've scene, that I think would actually kill me:
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/734/265/869/703/929/original/43e488c1dab091b5.jpg

2024-07-05 04:37:34

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Lovely

2024-07-05 04:13:29

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Holy shit!!!

2024-07-05 04:08:10

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LOL

2024-07-05 03:53:31

Is this the male version of when ladies wear crop tops that say Slut or Daddy's Girl?
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2024-07-05 02:26:35

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awww I love it

2024-07-04 21:33:05

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I love it!

2024-07-04 21:28:07

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Perfect

2024-07-04 19:58:42

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Let me think about it

2024-07-04 19:41:39

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NICE

2024-07-04 17:56:48

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Adorable and the cat is cute too

2024-07-04 17:50:29

Well Hello, send a pic of yourself or/and what you're up to today or don't and lurk around the comments like a creeper lol
I got as much of my cooking done as I could ahead of time, I've popped a gummie, and I'm watching Acolyte. We are having a Mexican feast later, birria, fish tacos, grilled chicken, refried beans, Mexican rice, slaw, fire roasted salsa from my garden, guacamole, corn ribs, grilled peppers and onion, and watermelon. Friends are gathering around, including dog friends, should be a nice time!
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2024-07-04 17:17:44

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Agreed

2024-07-04 17:13:20

Y'all I cannot...
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2024-07-04 15:55:02

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NO LOL

2024-07-04 14:43:03

Things I've asked my brother to bring to get-togethers when he's asked:
A Tagine
A Haunted Doll
Dogs
An Entire Wedding Cake
A Parade Float
Root Beer From a Place that no longer exists
A Childish Sense of Wonder
Booze

2024-07-04 14:18:56

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BBQ and weed gummies

2024-07-03 21:43:17

The whole Fuck Boi culture is so strange, because they would have you believe that it's because they like and want women. But no women want men who date much younger women or have used and been with so many women. So, who is this for? The only answer is for other men, proving their manhood, and giving them some kind of status with other men. We can talk about how society pushes this on them, but I feel like we are way past that, and even if they aren't, at some point you have to responsible for your own behavior. This isn't to say that there is anything wrong with sleeping (consentually) with as many people as you want, but that's different than using people, and not treating them as people in the first place. Maybe just find better ways to relate to each other guys.

2024-07-03 19:02:19

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Swamps are beautiful and terrifying!

2024-07-03 18:50:16

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Right that sounds awesome

2024-07-03 16:22:16

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Holy crap, sounds Scary

2024-07-03 15:33:07

I don't want to live with a tribe in the woods. I know other people dream of it. Running away to the woods, subsisting on things you grow and make yourself, but Nature isn't a peaceful mild thing. It is violent and messy, and it will kill you faster than just about anything else. I respect it, and what it gives. I think we should care for it much better than we do, but I like roofs, air conditioning, running water, and toilets. I respect the immense power and unpredictability of Nature, but I'm very fine having a wall in between us.

2024-07-03 13:20:54

It is fascinating and comforting to me that kindness so often begats kindness. How differently would this story have gone without the kindness of strangers?
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/mila-hellfyre-nick-alicea-trans-college-student-homeless-puerto-rico-lgbtq-advocacy/

2024-07-03 13:14:12

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❤

2024-07-02 20:16:30

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I don't get to know what will happen, but I do believe there are good people in the world fighting for good things. I'm not saying there isn't a difficult road ahead, because clearly yes. It is scary though, and I'm not trying to downplay that, it's rational, these are dangerous people, and your fears are completely valid.

2024-07-02 20:06:25

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That is scary to think about, a civil war could be possible.

2024-07-02 19:51:20

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I didn't even realize it was a video until after I posted it lol

2024-07-02 19:14:53

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If I had it lol

2024-07-02 15:44:33

If we were going to start a Fedi Commune, what do you think the top three rules should be?

2024-07-02 15:30:00

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Y'all are perverts, I mean, so am I, but I'm still pointing it out.

2024-07-02 15:14:08

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I agree, I do understand the anger, but there's more to the story

2024-07-02 15:11:27

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Me too, and I think that's part of the plan, they want people to think all politicians are the same and their votes don't matter.

2024-07-02 15:08:05

Hey, I'm giving you all a virtual hug today. It's okay to feel overwhelmed and scared right now. This is hard, and no one has all the answers. So, I'm just going to up open it up to speak your fears, to share hope, to share links for petitions or protests, if you just want somewhere to put your thoughts right now, and be heard, then go for it. If not, I'm thinking of all of you, I care about your future. I love you all.

2024-07-02 13:46:49

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Hugs ❤

2024-07-02 12:52:00

Famous pic of Freddie Mercury and David Bowie cosplaying as the two types of 80's Dads:
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2024-07-02 03:56:25

They want us to feel sad, useless, overwhelmed, and powerless, because they are afraid of a people that no longer holds their values, that sees through them. This is not a war they will win. This is a Swan Song of a dying breed. They are afraid of us, and they should be.