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2024-11-02 01:13:25

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yeah, i think there's more of an energy for doing better nowadays. especially in parenting.

2024-10-31 16:27:54

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i'm sorry you've had to deal with those types, but it's good to know that you value your worth.
though, i must ask, why do you think there is a change in the wind??
that makes me curious.

2024-10-29 14:43:18

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oooohhh
love this~!

2024-10-25 12:08:11

as if pulled by a magnetic force,
i lean in closer,
inhaling the sweet scent of lavender,
it's floral notes fused with the radiance of Her presence.
a sense of peace settles within me.
the weight of the day lifts,
replaced by the comforting embrace of surrender.
i'm here to please Her,
i'm here to honor Her,
i'm here to love Her.
lost in the act of serving,
i feel Her energy flow through me,
binding us together.
closer.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Romance #Love #intimacy #blackandwhite #writing #snippet #grownostr https://image.nostr.build/4dd0d2f823e85a06ab65f455a0fc27e3fbd88f68abb1ef4073dc6792c78cecdf.jpg

2024-10-24 11:44:25

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no prisoners this morning, john?
lol

2024-10-24 11:05:29

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ty, Lady Mae. ^^

2024-10-13 00:45:30

y'all think this works?
#nes #nintendo #gaming https://image.nostr.build/3c448908cbeffdee9d20e78c07e623d0d2aeb770907cc61697517adc62108627.jpg

2024-10-12 02:47:55

She's always caring enough to encourage a strict #stretching regime before bed—especially after #workout days.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/be7850c7cb734e1fae42c5c8f7041a25d739495137d8bda968dd6897cb4c95f5.jpg

2024-10-12 02:38:07

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nighty-night :3

2024-10-07 20:08:41

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beautiful.
the essence of vulnerability and tenderness. <333333

2024-10-07 13:55:33

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great message~!
marrying a Woman is to become a student of your Wife—to be a lover of Her soul.
don't be a poor student.

2024-10-04 21:26:06

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lol
typically male energy follows feminine energy (because we pursue and chase), but women stroke our egos. :P

2024-10-04 12:41:03

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hi~!
feel free to follow me if you're interested in FLR content:
@npub166h…0thf
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2024-10-03 17:55:10

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puuurrrr
lol

2024-10-03 11:27:15

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maintenance is often overlooked in most things. it's not typically fun or glamorous, but proper maintenance is crucial in all systems.
it's one of those things that no one pays attention to until it's not working.

2024-10-02 01:58:14

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yes~!
i know the one~! <3
"i know what you're doing. you're thinking! lemme help, lemme help." :P

2024-10-02 01:48:31

the 3yo has been absolutely obsessed with this book lately:
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/281610
#parenting #parentstr #books #bookstr

2024-10-02 01:46:05

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this plz <3

2024-10-02 01:36:53

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oooooh
i like that <3
what makes a deep connection for you?

2024-09-29 00:46:10

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purrrr https://image.nostr.build/5424ec8db530026a6c0ee7b898d0e78e32dcced5c41edffa6e09daf5a9a76365.jpg

2024-09-28 21:22:15

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collection??

2024-09-27 13:22:09

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i've been at this for a couple of months now and most of my interactions come from replying to things rather than the content i post.
not even sure how to tell how much exposure or discovery it gets when i post. nostr is interesting; i'm still trying to figure it all out. i enjoy reading your thoughts on it. i feel like i always learn something. ^^

2024-09-23 13:26:04

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She stopped replying to me. >_<

2024-09-22 12:34:38

good morning, moonies.
#grownostr #photostr #moon https://image.nostr.build/3cca859a221ab1b6f91f8109da240db4d269e0d6df6ae830a3c9f6270c45e43f.jpg https://image.nostr.build/568145aae0a14ba16609e1e3c5739638f7286a5b54d0be969198ffa3ae14af19.jpg

2024-09-22 02:36:56

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#goals

2024-09-22 02:12:55

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princess bride ^^

2024-09-22 02:05:20

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night-night

2024-09-21 12:44:28

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2024-09-20 02:29:50

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sleep well, moonie :3

2024-09-18 13:20:36

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my Wife really enjoys the holo taco brand. there's a great selection of glitters and shimmers and finishes~! ^^
i just did Her toes in "existential crisis." lol
if you're interested:
https://www.holotaco.com/products/existential-crisis
if not, keep trending on. <3

2024-09-17 20:30:21

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i love your insights~!
anger isn't meant to be held on to—it's meant to motivate a change of boundaries and/or situation.

2024-09-17 18:32:56

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1000%
vulnerability is needed for a deep connection. <3

2024-09-17 17:31:03

gentlemen, if you're married, have you shared with your Wife what you feel when She expresses Her love for you?
what about the very first time She expressed it?
think about it and let Her know. ^^
#Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #grownostr #asknostr

2024-09-17 16:52:16

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hi~! ^^

2024-09-17 12:50:21

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i can't wait ^^

2024-09-17 12:43:51

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gm
my primary goal is serving my Wife and family—however the target for is always in flux, especially with small children lol.
i love the idea of setting small challenges. for me it's a task list; i love checking off completed challenges ^^
thanks for sharing this wonderful message. have a great day as well~! :3

2024-09-17 12:11:30

sometimes, "i miss You" is not enough...
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #blackandwhite #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/b155b788f37b03d30e42e3d771814a8af1f14dee88387393bc6a9fa3aa01dc59.jpg

2024-09-17 01:17:38

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what is this place?

2024-09-17 01:06:29

"my need of you is terrible and my desire of you almost annihilating"
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #blackandwhite #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/222800d7cb046322e462efe95dcb789ab5fb15eb4aa7ef5ca6c3ccb3624a43e4.jpg

2024-09-17 00:55:09

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i use nostr connect with firefox ^.^
https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/nostr-connect/

2024-09-16 17:19:35

reposting the article i finished over the weekend ^.^
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #chivalry #grownostr
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2024-09-14 21:58:24

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self-talk defines your reality. :3

2024-09-14 21:57:02

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*meow*

2024-09-13 21:07:39

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lol
She's a keeper. :3

2024-09-13 20:55:16

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thank you for the beautiful response ^^
you made so many wonderful points.
especially about couples not speaking about their desires. i was guilty of this myself. we were younger and didn't really know ourselves, but that's no excuse. there's a deep fear of being vulnerable with someone by speaking your truth. it's strange, because speaking your truth is also very empowering...
i also chose to be selfish. even as a "submissive" my service was performed with selfish motivations. the actions weren't selfish, but they were layered with expectations. this made the relationship transactional instead of loving. this also speaks to how even "nice" guys hurt Women.
as far as switching goes, it can work in an FLR, because an FLR is simply a relationship in which the Woman takes the primary leadership role and the man supports Her through devotion and service.
my cheeky response would be that switches aren't truly submissive, they just like topping from the bottom every once in awhile. :P
thank you again for a wonderful reply~!

2024-09-13 18:47:09

true submission in an FLR is when love drives the desire to serve.
intentions matter—he should be devoted to Her, motivated by his love for Her, rather than "serve" Her for the thrill of feeling enslaved.
do you think intentions are important in relationships?
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #grownostr #asknostr

2024-09-13 13:38:43

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keep it up~!! :3

2024-09-13 12:40:23

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it's a good day to have a great day ^^
(i've had coffee :3)

2024-09-12 12:11:02

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gm
i'll do my best

2024-09-12 12:10:11

more kisses plz o.0
<3333
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #gfd #intimacy #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/4e49d68e3f8ea605a21d9f05451f5fde42019b48979ea1209aafd1aa5991b549.jpg

2024-09-11 21:29:05

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the 3 year-old is pretending to be a robo-vac ^^

2024-09-11 21:20:13

#cooking lasagna soup tonight~! :3
#cookstr #souschef #subbysouschef

2024-09-11 21:18:10

a man who initiates with self-interests can only be in a relationship with himself.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #Marriage #intimacy #grownostr
#note1d0x…c6dq

2024-09-11 13:56:52

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gm, Hannah. :3
i missed it; i was reading to the 3 year-old
<333

2024-09-11 13:54:14

a lot of men believe they're being submissive to their partner when they're really only submissive their own desires. a real FLR can only begin when a man puts Her fulfillment first. this means understanding Her for who She really is, not who he wants Her to be.
what do you think are the biggest challenges in truly understanding your partner's needs?
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #grownostr #asknostr

2024-09-10 14:03:53

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i look forward to reading it~! ^^
it's a massive topic full of nuances and twists, so it's understandable. kinda why i felt a little nitpicky. :3
sometimes it feels like a lot of guys get stuck on "protecting and providing" and completely miss the essentials of being a good partner.

2024-09-09 21:52:19

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<333

2024-09-09 16:45:08

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i get where you're coming from about how masculinity can help women feel safe and express their femininity. though i think that the concept of masculinity should be expanded on a bit more. foundational masculinity should *also* include things like loyalty, compassion, and being vulnerable, not just protection and providing. these qualities are important for creating strong emotional bonds and are what makes a space feel safe.
also, the way it's framed makes it seem like masculinity precludes femininity, which overlooks all the ways a woman can inspire and draw out healthy masculine traits from men—there is so much strength and leadership in femininity.
femininity isn't reliant on masculinity to exist. the two complement each other in a harmonious balance.
apologies if it seems like i'm being nitpicky. ty for the thought-provoking post. :3

2024-09-06 09:23:41

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i adore this song. <33333
wasn't our weeding song though :3

2024-09-06 01:27:43

"If only you knew of the power of your eyes as you look up, of your body as you writhe before me, of your mouth as you adore me, of your words as you give yourself to me."
~Marquise of Tease
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #blackandwhite #quote #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/946273851995410ad86cdf9baf29154ed379fcc3b5d6a6cc5aa047d9786f2a8a.jpg

2024-09-05 18:27:00

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thank you :3
i noticed people refer to nostr as a protocol, so i was asking from that angle.
things seems a bit different here than what i'm used to. i've played around with nostr on another account, but never really tried to focus on creating content before.
just wanted some tips on boosting signal reach :3

2024-09-05 16:56:22

intimacy is often expressed in unique and special ways in an FLR.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #blackandwhite #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/0ee65fe26a14dc76ce29c5eda5c13579f6896fd4a2f40762d2db5b607d70efa8.jpg

2024-09-05 15:27:42

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omg

2024-09-04 15:46:02

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i agree, but usually do a morning cup and an afternoon cup.
maybe it's an american thing? coffee over tea. :3

2024-09-04 14:31:38

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oh my
that looks amazing
:3

2024-09-03 23:05:40

love is low time preference;
passion is high time preference;
a fulfilling relationship requires both.
#Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #passion #grownostr

2024-09-02 16:24:12

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he's a 10 but a slave for you >>>>>>>

2024-09-01 19:14:45

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what a gorgeous picture~! ^^

2024-09-01 17:13:39

submission to your Wife isn't what She does to you, it's what you do for Her.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #WifeLedMarriage #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #grownostr

2024-09-01 08:52:15

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lol
they can burn

2024-08-30 16:22:30

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@dave, the correct response would have been "good, boy"
thanks for trying ^_^

2024-08-30 01:48:31

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a little something for the #bitcoin lovers here on #nostr ^^

2024-08-30 01:46:05

the key dangles from Her anklet, a silent testament to the power She holds. “not your keys, not your coins,” She whispers, Her eyes locking with his. in that moment, he felt the full weight of Her dominance, and the deep, abiding love that makes his submission so sweet.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #WifeLedMarriage #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #blackandwhite #footstr #chastity #teaseanddenial #grownostr
https://image.nostr.build/6db75a99975c61fe0794de700175851c65e6feb682b760a39d18be6055383a19.jpg

2024-08-30 01:39:04

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ty
there's still work to do separating the dysfunction from my true self

2024-08-29 23:02:34

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<3 this.
beautiful response. :3

2024-08-28 15:49:00

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whoa~! what a though-provoking piece. ^^
the insights you shared about self-examination resonated a lot with me - especially as a submissive man trying to navigate the layers of my identity. there's often a contrast between the private "true self" and the public "normal self" that creates such an inner conflict as you've described. and then there's distinguishing between whether the submission i feel is authentic devotion for my s/o, or simply a kink in which i use Her. i found that embracing authenticity was life-changing in my relationship.
when you wrote, "For some time, I believed that the perceptions of others were more important than my own reality..." it really struck a chord with me. it really highlighted the struggle many face in reconciling societal and/or cultural expectations with their authentic desires. this internal strife has certainly been a major theme in my journey.
similar to you, i also engaged in a lot of internal processing and took small, intentional steps to have more integrity. but, as you say, the key is consistency. it's been a transformative journey - aligning my actions with my true self. and accepting my true self through a reframing my own reality.
thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences as well. i really enjoyed reading another perspective and journey on this.
it was a fantastic read. ^^

2024-08-28 15:00:18

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do you have any links to good educational sources for this?
<3

2024-08-26 17:52:42

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why is it that i post/reply on one client, but sometimes don't see a response to my post/reply until i open a different client? :3

2024-08-25 22:23:09

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whoa there's a lot going on here, and a lot of it resonates well.
"Some modern men or kings of men prefer to worship a Queen. The most effective ones choose one who is enlightened"
yes, this~! deference, respect, and adoration aren't just signs of submissiveness, but of healthy masculinity. many men are just servants of their own desires and lack the self-discipline required to properly honor and uplift a Queen.
thanks for sharing ^^

2024-08-25 21:22:34

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@npub192k…43u7 has no issues :3

2024-08-25 19:00:35

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^.^

2024-08-25 17:32:43

chivalry has always been a shining example of healthy masculinity, and in an FLR it bridges the gap between strength and service.
what are your thoughts on chivalry?
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #WifeLedMarriage #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #masculinity #chivalry #submissivemen #grownostr

2024-08-23 23:18:20

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gn :3

2024-08-23 16:47:55

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thank you for being here :3

2024-08-22 16:31:25

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it definitely has a learning curve. everything feels a bit abstract until you start trying it out.

2024-08-22 16:11:31

how important is it to have a #NIP05 on #nostr?
is there any benefit? or is it just as a type of identifier?
#asknostr

2024-08-22 01:59:12

the highest expression of masculinity can be seen in acts of service. by putting his Queen first and serving Her, a man doesn't diminish or emasculate himself; he elevates his soul and aligns with his deepest purpose.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #WifeLedMarriage #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #masculinity #chivalry #submissivemen #grownostr

2024-08-22 00:31:26

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i'm not entirely sure but i think it has something to do with the nip-05 verification and the domain name :3

2024-08-21 23:21:36

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i found it easier on desktop.
what mobile os do you use?

2024-08-21 22:56:02

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ty for sharing ^^

2024-08-21 21:57:13

#cooking with my Queen tonight! :3
#cookstr #souschef

2024-08-21 21:53:06

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yw :3

2024-08-21 21:49:34

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Komi Shouko from Komi Can't Communicate

2024-08-21 21:26:27

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*weeb intensifies*
:D

2024-08-21 16:51:24

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thank you for the advice, Miss <3
and for the motivation :3

2024-08-21 16:12:32

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i love this response. very thoughtful!
it's very difficult at the moment to determine if there is an audience or community for different types of content. where do i find them? how can they find me?
tags are okay, but not everyone uses them.
and yes... the bots... ;_;

2024-08-21 15:57:47

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"THAT'S GOTTA HURT"
X_x

2024-08-21 15:12:49

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>_< lol :P
if only it worked that way.

2024-08-21 15:10:20

Her nails trace the contours of his vulnerability, each stroke an alluring reminder of the power She wields. Hers to shape, Hers to love—he wouldn’t have it any other way.
#FLR #FemaleLedRelationship #WifeLedMarriage #Relationship #Relationships #RelationshipGoals #Marriage #Love #Romance #intimacy #vulnerability #chivalry #submissivemen #grownostr #blackandwhite
https://image.nostr.build/dcd4e5bd421a2e36a8aa7b4aea21e0f7d93a4d257c59d17e58ce1956e515314a.jpg

2024-08-21 12:32:17

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ty! <3