Lilith Ferreyra-Carroll

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Community Activist & Campaigner
#Trans #ADHD 🏴
End direct provision✊sex work is work☂️ Traveller rights!

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2023-09-10 08:43:37

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@npub1hq5…tdje I don't see anywhere in the article where they are referred to as he. You can still just re-edit the post instead of misgendering them. Not an excuse

2023-09-08 19:16:42

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@npub1hq5…tdje um, you might want to check those pronouns there?

2023-09-08 19:16:42

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@npub1hq5…tdje um, you might want to check those pronouns there?

2023-09-07 23:50:37

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@npub15pw…qylw 7 years ago the wait for healthcare was measured in weeks not decades and it was the same HSE. The people running that service have become even worse. It could be fixed over night if a proper system was put in place to abolish the NGS and move our care into depathologised informed consent primary care through satellite clinics run by nurses and GPs instead of psychiatrists.

2023-09-07 23:15:59

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@npub1tya…vuam https://www.thecanary.co/opinion/2023/03/20/fascists-attend-victoria-anti-trans-rally/

2023-09-07 20:46:08

You know with all the supposed support my community has on the surface in Ireland, I've seen year on year erosion of trans people's rights and safety ever since I came out 7 years ago. More violence, more transphobic politicians & media and near complete collapse in healthcare. It's really disheartening. I used to think Ireland had something going for it, I hoped the set backs and deteriorations might bring about action and greater change but not anymore.

2023-09-07 15:33:36

Don't forget to attend the counter protest against Posie Parker on the 16th #mastodaoine #Trans
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2023-08-30 12:08:36

It's just so horrific! Desperate!
https://dublininquirer.com/2023/08/30/trans-activists-criticise-national-gender-services-approach-and-centralisation/

2023-08-27 07:39:01

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@npub1anx…7x76 yea, I put a content warning. Some neurodiverse people appreciate it when it comes to photos with eye contact as it can wear people out.

2023-08-26 20:15:03

She scrubs up well
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2023-08-24 12:30:38

Just had my first frustrating back and forth over on bluesky. There's something to be said about the more generous 500 standard character limit on Mastodon I think. Less likely to cause stunted (mis)communication and limited expression causing frustration/anger. Anyway some trans woman blocked me over something that really shouldn't have led to that which is a shame. Hope she's ok.

2023-08-24 09:00:21

Germany passes gender recognition by self determination for trans and non-binary people. Ireland needs to follow suit and legally recognise non-binary people, under 16s and make the process for u18s less onerous. #Trans #MastoDaoine
https://www.dw.com/en/german-cabinet-approves-law-easing-gender-name-changes/a-66608593?maca=en-Twitter-sharing

2023-08-23 19:50:55

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@npub1cn3…paej it's from her personal page

2023-08-23 19:18:12

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Oh great Roisín Murphy now too! Two in one day FFS

2023-08-23 18:01:43

I see Alice cooper has thrown trans children under the bus now. Lovely.

2023-08-21 19:53:06

When something is wrong on the enterprise that nobody can figure out...
#StarTrek #StrangeNewWorlds #Wesley #Uhura
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2023-08-19 14:03:59

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@npub1snd…jg8x I just wish he didn't use Cass as a legitimate source. She's part of the problem, referred to rapid onset gender dysphoria conspiracy in her research and is overseeing horrible policy changes affecting trans children in the UK. She also had meetings with the HSE and NGS re our MoC

2023-08-18 20:37:33

I've got bluesky now: https://bsky.app/profile/trasinscneach.bsky.social

2023-08-15 01:13:40

Good jaysus! 😳
https://www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-news/ray-blanchard-retraction-proposed

2023-08-04 14:26:48

Horrific impacts and risks for Irish children as a result also
https://transsafety.network/posts/gosh-exploratory-therapy/

2023-08-04 11:58:29

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@npub1zvu…l9pt @npub15tx…c2ah yeah, that's one thing that can be done alright but it's not visible when you go into a teams meeting. I think being able to edit your surname needs to be enabled to have it show.

2023-08-04 11:00:00

Hi #LGBTQIA #Trans #mastodaoine folks. Would anyone know is there a way to have your pronouns visible beside your name in Teams video meetings?

2023-08-03 10:00:58

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@npub12dp…rpxf @npub18kf…f555 cool! Will bear it in mind for next week 💜

2023-08-03 09:55:34

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@npub18kf…f555 ah sweet!

2023-08-03 09:50:15

Hi #MastoDaoine, anyone have any tips on a good #trad session in and around #Dublin ? Went to the #Cobblestone yest but there's so many tourists even at opening time it was hard to get a spot where we could actually hear the music proper. Maybe there's a better day for it there? We'd a great time all the same but I'd like to show my in laws some proper music sessions. Also would like to know for me! Feel I haven't been at a decent session in ages. Would of course like to avoid temple bar.
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2023-07-31 16:57:32

Seriously tho...
"I think it would be really funny if we all defederated from the BBC instance (social.bbc) over their institutional transphobia. Welcome to the fediverse, bitches.
Seriously though, it will probably happen sooner or later and there is a good argument for doing it preemptively. #fediblock "https://bananachips.club/@nev/110809395615671435

2023-07-21 02:38:35

Removed my GoFundMe link from mastodon and pinned posts as well as the birdsite. Although I've got still electrolysis and hair transplant to sort out I think I can cover it myself in time. Thankfully in a very different place financially than where I was 3½ years ago when me and a bunch of friends & Irish feminists started that fundraiser and the fact we raised so much made a huge difference to my life. Will be forever grateful but happy I won't have to put myself out there like that any more.

2023-07-19 18:01:30

Hope there'll be a good turnout
https://www.hotpress.com/health/protest-to-demand-trans-healthcare-this-saturday-at-loughlinstown-22980615

2023-07-19 13:16:38

Every Wednesday I have a day at home alone as Natalia goes in to work in the office - Great for decompression for a #neurodiverse #ADHD gal like me - and every Wednesday the apartment management company sends a lad out into the courtyard with an obnoxiously loud hedge trimmer and leaf blower that just constantly makes noise for the entire day! FML
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2023-07-17 22:57:42

Did you know that at the height of the pandemic the NGS would routinely pressure patients into removing their face masks during psych assessments because reading facial expressions was more important than preventing the spread of covid?
https://mastodon.ie/@Lilith/110723775381941140

2023-07-16 12:32:12

It's really important that as many #MastoDaoine as possible attend the protest at the national gender service in Loughlinstown next Saturday. The model of care at the NGS is abhorrent and traumatic for trans people. They force people out of the closet, deny care for neurodiverse, unemployed folks and those whos parents and housemates don't approve. Their invasive questions about porn, genitals and sex are disgusting! The NGS needs to be abolished #Trans
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2023-07-14 23:50:16

So many of what I previously thought were my quirks and character traits are just #ADHD and that's kinda weird to wrap the head around. Where does my condition end any who I am begin? Or is that to binary a way of thinking?

2023-07-14 12:51:44

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@npub1gdq…fl97 great bunch of folks altogether

2023-07-14 11:12:11

#Trans #TransRights #TransJoy #LGBTQ #HumanRights
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2023-07-12 15:10:46

They're rehiring for my old job: #JobFairy #Trans #MastoDaoine https://teni.ie/teni-is-hiring-a-community-engagement-officer/?fbclid=IwAR3VO11_ldDCrXcQ4qNaf4YASqK6VYAWwztuS9Ue9d-rfBwSeP05zLiyFoU

2023-07-08 22:03:37

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@npub1j33…ulvu the cops did

2023-07-08 22:02:57

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@npub1sy6…vscm fantastic album

2023-07-08 21:52:17

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These are people that literally post every day. They are absolutely obsessed and their entire feeds are full of hate. Most of them don't post about anything else. They are largely sick and poisoned with hate. They can't think of anything else and have no credibility. They largely either rt UK account or interact amongst themselves. Sad sad individuals with nothing better to be doing. Stop listening to them!

2023-07-08 21:47:11

If I'm to discount right wing men, general transphobes, sock puppet accounts and fake organisations there are approx 70 gender criticals active on the birdsite in Ireland. Today 3-5,000 people turned out for #TransRights at #TransPride Dublin. They can scarcely
bring 20 people together and they have to bus and fly people in. The Irish media has to reconcile themselves to this! #MastoDaoine

2023-07-08 21:08:22

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@npub1fev…xqxd rte said hundreds, most media said 3k, Paul Murphy said 5k so went with the middle amount. Was lovely to see you 💜

2023-07-08 18:03:29

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@npub1ev3…ql7j @npub1zqd…pv39 was lovely to see all three of yee today :QueerCat_Trans:

2023-07-08 17:52:56

Was really heartened to see approx 3,000 people turn out for trans & intersex pride Dublin today. The national gender service provides the worst trans healthcare in Europe with a decade long waiting list and dehumanising abusive and traumatizing assessments. The NGS needs to be abolished and replaced with informed consent primary healthcare in the community now! Get your psychiatry out of our sex lives! My body my choice! #Trans #Pride #MastoDaoine
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2023-07-06 20:27:20

Fwiw, I'm absolutely fine with mastodon staying niche

2023-07-06 12:34:32

Been added to a random chat on r/Ireland twice and can't leave. Had to turn off notifications on the app altogether. Is #reddit breaking now too?

2023-07-05 16:31:59

Don't forget to turn out on Saturday for trans and intersex pride Dublin. Trans people have the worst healthcare in Europe. No adolescent care, 10 year adult wait. The NGS traumatising model of care forces trans people out of the closet, makes us divulge our porn habits and the genitals of who we sleep with to get hormones. The NGS needs to be abolished and replaced with informed consent healthcare in a primary setting that believes us and respects our bodily autonomy #Trans #MastoDaoine
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2023-07-04 14:41:14

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@npub1tzu…vsup only rugby fans I can see for the most part but stand to be corrected.

2023-07-04 09:10:52

As a #Louth woman I do feel more akin with people from #Ulster than I do Leinster in some ways. There's a way of speaking or an unspoken understanding that just hits different that I can't quite explain. And yes I know Louth was part of Ulster until 1596.

2023-07-04 00:23:58

The birdsite is full of people saying vile horrific things about a mother sharing a picture of herself breastfeeding her child for the last time before she started chemo, just because she happened to be trans. You think they can't go lower but somehow they gleefully find a way. Gender Critical people are just sick.

2023-07-02 17:50:03

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@npub1anx…7x76 I use the mobile website through an app that can be created automatically through chrome. A little tricky to set up but works best for me

2023-07-02 17:44:58

Ah mastodon 😌 Still wish there were quote toots (tho with options like allowing/disallowing/vetting etc), threads worked better and explore/posts updated more often.

2023-07-02 15:45:18

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@npub1ev3…ql7j howaya Paul. Saw you walking down the street the other day but you were on the other side so couldn't say hi. Anyhoo, hope you're keeping well.

2023-07-02 15:39:24

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@npub1lpw…7d3j oh yay. Lovely to find you again

2023-07-02 15:00:24

When I see folks boosting content from a certain business utilising the language of trans activism to promote itself just because it provides expensive private healthcare to trans people who can afford it I die a little inside 🥲 On another note I applied for a job there once and they paid barely above minimum wage on a zero hours contract. I turned them down. There's some good eggs there but Sheesh!

2023-07-02 12:09:42

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@npub1rxs…u6g6 @npub1qp6…dhqc not sure. I basically created a shortcut through android which functions as an app using the web interface. It's the best solution for me, occasionally I dip into tusker which is a 3rd party alternative but don't use it much

2023-07-02 11:39:48

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@npub1qp6…dhqc @npub1rxs…u6g6 yeah that's your app. On the website you'll see this
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2023-07-02 10:31:52

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@npub1rxs…u6g6 @npub1qp6…dhqc yep, looks like clicking on the follow icon should do it

2023-07-02 10:31:11

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@npub1qp6…dhqc I'm using the mobile website and it's not super obvious but when you touch on a hashtag and go to that page there's a little icon that looks like a person with a little + mark beside it. touch on that, it'll turn into a correct mark and then and you'll see whatever hashtag you subscribe to in your home feed then.

2023-07-01 22:53:44

Welcome back folks! Especially the #MastoDaoine ie formerly Irish twitter. Looks like the birdsite/parler 2.0 has broken further today. :sickos: :sickos2: Depending on your set up if you check out the # section you can see what's gaining traction on your local server which is fierce handy. You can subscribe to hashtags to keep in the loop on interests too. #'s are king here so use them for posts #TwitterMigration subscribe to plenty people too and you'll be on your way in no time. :pint:

2023-06-28 10:37:41

https://transsafety.network/posts/far-right-attack-on-honour-oak/

2023-06-27 15:56:14

Good article
https://truthout.org/articles/terfs-are-drawing-on-the-same-fascist-arguments-as-torture-advocates/?s=09

2023-06-26 21:41:11

People getting irritated that the daily mail is paying people to talk to them about pretend cat children. Like, that's what tabloids do, they pay people for stories. It's a big chunk of their content. It's been that way for forever.

2023-06-26 14:07:27

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@npub197y…jepu yeah. They're saying they're assessing people referred 3.5yrs ago. It's not the same and only shows where things were at 3-4 years ago which was at the beginning of covid like!

2023-06-25 23:58:43

The head of the Irish national gender service during pride weekend along with the chair of their governance committee have come out against legislation banning conversion therapy! Come on like can it be any more blatant what the community has had to contend with here? It's incredulous.

2023-06-23 13:22:33

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@npub1c2y…jycf thank you so much Rita 💜

2023-06-23 11:56:50

I'm leaving TENI. #MastodDaoine #Trans
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2023-06-22 23:55:00

If the Irish CT ban doesn't ban genspect and it's proponents then what's the point? The phrase gender ideology was invented by pope Benedict. Genspect and segm were involved in some of the most horrible anti trans legislation in the states and much more. This is just conversion therapy by another name https://archive.is/2023.06.21-192457/https://genspect.org/genspect-launches-new-think-tank-to-draft-a-gender-care-framework/

2023-06-19 20:40:16

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@npub18ee…r5a3 the UK lost the republic of Ireland because of a constitution? Are you for real?

2023-06-19 07:38:45

I was not born in the wrong body. I was born into a society that is wrong. I love my body and I hate what this society and it's institutions does to my community because we dare to be who we are.

2023-06-15 08:05:43

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@npub1d40…u7lw kinda, yeah.

2023-06-15 08:05:19

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@npub1j4e…exfv nor have I but can't wait to see it in fairness

2023-06-15 07:37:58

I don't get all this controversy over this spider character being trans. It's obvious she's an ally and nothing more. She's surrounded by a bunch of spider men who are obviously trans guys. Everyone knows that it's only female spiders that can spin webs yes? Spider men obviously retain that ability.

2023-06-14 13:34:12

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@npub1xjt…9ml2 oh totally obvs not all gays etc

2023-06-14 00:56:39

Seeing the cis gays finally saying that homophobia wasn't fixed after marriage equality, now over 8 years later. I just feel so cynical. Like the trans community and others were warning them all for years. I remember the eyes of many glazing over when I would try to highlight what was happening to trans people in Ireland and how it would affect the whole community. They're getting a little hassle on social media and all of a sudden it's a problem now. Urgh!

2023-06-09 22:20:14

Bit wishy washy but more sports people need to be coming out as allies and speaking out in support. The health impacts of banning trans people from sports are very real. https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/06/08/gareth-thomas-trans-inclusion-sport/

2023-06-09 09:46:50

I wish Irish people would do more to deconstruct or at least be critical around the whole generational bs that's been imported here. Like, population wise 'gen x' are our 'boomers' tis all bit inaccurate and a weird quasi social construct I feel tbh.

2023-06-09 09:23:29

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@npub12mc…xdp7 also feel free to drop me a message any time if you need any info or advice re Ireland.

2023-06-09 09:21:52

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@npub12mc…xdp7 the archeology museum is great, check it out or the chester beatey library near Dublin castle or hugh lane gallery

2023-06-07 00:18:31

Good article
https://theconversation.com/historians-are-learning-more-about-how-the-nazis-targeted-trans-people-205622

2023-06-05 11:27:32

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@npub1yl2…et64 he's a lot of things besides whatever his religion is. Baha'i isn't particularly Marxist either but he's no problem squaring that circle I'm sure. There's plenty of trans and LGBQ Baha'i too. Not an excuse.

2023-06-05 11:24:18

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@npub15mx…nk6t thanks, corrected it there

2023-06-05 10:58:55

I think it's safe to assume that if you're British and in any way high profile that you're transphobic unless proven otherwise. I am totally unsurprised that Omar Djalili is transphobic. Bit wild that he shared a doc by a self confessed fascist to reveal it all the same. #trans #transphobia #MastoDaoine

2023-06-05 10:58:55

2023-06-02 01:17:39

I nearly reactivated my account to tweet in anger but I'm really trying so hard not to. I searched the #IRFU for any mention of transgender people and there's one tweet where they link to a statement... banning trans women from the sport. Two women a low levels in the sport were affected by this decision. Two! I really hope they are not marching in Dublin pride this year. #pinkwashing #pride #trans #lgbt #lgbtq
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2023-06-01 13:26:27

Four years ago yesterday the psychologist in the Irish national gender service in a mandatory assessment asked me what goes through my mind when I receive oral sex. When I refused to answer and spoke out about my experiences I was accused of libel and eventually discharged. #Trans #MastoDaoine

2023-06-01 13:14:58

I wish Serpentwithfeet had more recognition. Incredible musician.

2023-06-01 12:36:25

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@npub1cn3…paej oh in my case as my mam says 'that horse done gone left the barn' a looong time ago.

2023-06-01 11:24:27

The IRFU changing their logo for pride month. Ugh!

2023-06-01 08:15:08

I feel very privileged to call @npub1fev…xqxd one of my dear friends 🏳️‍🌈 https://archive.is/2023.06.01-080318/https://m.independent.ie/life/we-won-by-one-vote-the-lgbtq-pioneers-who-led-the-fight-to-decriminalise-homosexuality-in-ireland-30-years-ago/a2048480428.html

2023-05-30 21:24:09

God I really hope twitface gets banned in Europe🤞

2023-05-30 14:17:06

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And the + stands for 'and whatever yer havin' yerself'

2023-05-30 10:57:54

Everyone should know that in an Irish context the A in LGBTQIA+ is an umbrella terms and stands for 'Ah shur you know yerself' #LGBT #LGBTQ #MastoDaoine :crips: :pint: :trans_autistic:

2023-05-30 09:08:51

I think it's kinda wild that the same sorts of people that would accuse trans folk of being funded by Soros are getting funding and legal support from a billionaire author who's been accused of using anti-Semitic tropes in her writing in the past. What ever they attack us for they are almost inevitably actually doing so themselves.

2023-05-28 20:58:43

In previous years, pride months made me irritable with all the cynical corporatism. This year with all that's been happening, I feel trepidation and fear for what may be store. Many cis-het folks are going to be shocked and saddened and unable to understand I'm sure while trans folk, who are not listened to will be like we 'warned you this could happen' and left to pick up the pieces yet again. I hope I'm wrong.

2023-05-28 12:06:39

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@npub12mc…xdp7 hmu when you get here. Would love to meet!

2023-05-25 23:52:17

5 years ago I made this video for the Drogheda launch of together for yes. I think this also ended up being the last professional video I ever made.
https://youtu.be/_0K__mk46Fs

2023-05-23 21:26:09

Cranks: Transes are erasing lesbians
Lesbians:
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2023-05-21 23:36:23

So a man filled up with toxic anti-trans culture war nonsense got blind drunk, had a psychotic break and beat an elderly cis woman up so badly she had to be put into care. Gender criticals and media hacks spout constant transphobia which results in thugs feeling they can attack and nearly kill people #trans #MastoDaoine
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/thug-who-put-woman-86-30023270

2023-05-21 12:30:36

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@npub1jcr…mmeq and how many of those emails were supportive. Worth noting that only ministers are FOI-able but this is still an indicator.

2023-05-21 08:22:33

So it was all bullshit. Quelle suprise! #trans #MastoDaoine
https://www.thejournal.ie/fine-gael-ministers-transgender-issues-eviction-ban-emails-6072239-May2023/

2023-05-18 11:55:27

Nearly put a post up on Facebook asking my friends when they reckon the far right gangs are going to start attacking LGBT+ property and executing people in Florida (my guess is pride month is going to be very precarious) but couldn't bring myself to post. I may be in Ireland but helplessly witnessing genocide unfurl for my community is no less distressing and feeling my voice drowned out in the din is dismaying. Figuring out how to navigate these times is distressing to say the least.

2023-05-17 16:50:14

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@npub18j3…sxwk I'd say that a couple of years ago but many people have been saying as such for so long now that it can't be excused. It's gone from willful ignorance to complicity https://the-beacon.ie/2022/09/17/as-the-trans-community-celebrates-victory-against-terrorism-the-irish-media-continue-to-stoke-a-culture-war/

2023-05-17 15:41:55

Lots of people rightly condemning the rise of the far right and gender critical movement in Ireland after the homophobic attack on that poor kid today. However the media's irresponsible culture war reporting on trans and LGBT issues has a big big part to play. The links between negative disinformed media reporting and rises in hate crime can't be overstated.