𝚅𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚞𝚜

𝙰lso see @admin @fennec

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𝙷𝚘𝚋𝚋𝚢𝚒𝚜𝚝 𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚜𝚝, 𝚌𝚘𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚘𝚛 𝚘𝚏 𝚋o𝚗𝚎𝚜'𝚗 𝚓𝚞𝚗𝚔, 𝚗𝚘𝚟𝚒𝚌𝚎 𝚛𝚎𝚙𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚗, 𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚢 𝟸𝟶𝟶𝟶𝚜 𝚝𝚎c𝚑 𝚎𝚗𝚓𝚘𝚢𝚎𝚛, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛/𝚑𝚊t𝚎𝚛 𝚘𝚏 𝙵𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚂𝚘𝚗𝚒𝚌, o𝚌𝚌𝚊𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚑𝚘𝚛𝚗𝚢 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛, 𝚊𝚋𝚜𝚘𝚕𝚞𝚝𝚎 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚘𝚗𝚗𝚒

𝙸 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 a 𝚕𝚘𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚛𝚊𝚖𝚋𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔 𝚘𝚏 𝚜𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚖, 𝙿𝙳𝙰, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚖𝚢 a𝚛𝚝𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔. 𝙸 𝚊𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚖𝚙𝚝 t𝚘 𝙲𝚆 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐s 𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚙𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚢, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚢𝚘𝚞'𝚛𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚘𝚏𝚏𝚎𝚛 𝚜𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜.
••☾𖤓••

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Last Notes

2025-06-17 17:40:35

I kind of want to commission someone in this community but I have no clue who’d even take one, or maybe more accurately a trade, because fuck if I know how to do a currency transfer in this environment. I should stop procrastinating looking into crypto, so others can throw money at me as well. I always did prefer just having a “tip jar” vs proper commission payments. Like a street performer

2025-06-17 15:12:14

Mmmm making garlic bread

2025-06-16 02:26:44

Thinking about how, despite the utter bullshit this space can provide… I genuinely grew as a person, made friends, improved another’s life, encouraged to be myself even when ugly, was able to apply and practice skills, given gifts, efforts reconized, to share myself beyond a brick wall, learned I could trust those already in my personal life (even offline) more, given constructive criticism, watching others grow too, looked out for… I’ve never had a community, never felt like I actually contributed, the friends I made were always few and far between and now I’ve never had more at once. We’ll be alright. I still very much want to do what I can to provide that experience for others. I want to help create a community where we can genuinely think to ourselves we’ll be alright and it isn’t just a cope.

2025-06-15 04:47:58

“You’re not a real MAP unless you condone clearnet borderline cp” is the pedi equivalent of “You’re not a real bisexual unless you sleep with an equal number of both men and women”

2025-06-15 02:15:57

A reminder that Necro.rip is owned and ran by a YAP/AAY couple (hi), and is therefore “pro-c for teens” friendly by default. We don’t allow IRL images of humans for opsec and legal reasons, not because we’re hardline anti-cs or internally mapmisic or think everything is csam or whatever the fuck.

2025-06-13 04:53:35

I’m still friends with a MAP I dated as a minor. It’s been over a decade, I’m well into my adulthood now, aging didn’t ruin our relationship. We’re still FWBs too, no one can pull the “you were just used for your youth” card, they’re nonexclusive, we just didn’t jive as romantic partners. I genuinely forget I met them as a teen sometimes, the relationship is so normal and indistinguishable from literally every other friend and fwb I have, including the ones closer to my age. The idea that MAPs will inherently traumatize the youth with intimacy or will always throw minors away is bullshit, and I’m living proof of it.

2025-06-11 19:42:17

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2025-06-07 11:56:36

Sometimes I think about how some of the people I told I was a MAP to, especially adding on the dating a teen part, hit me with a “I was cool with the dating part, but I draw the line at trying to normalize being a “MAP””

2025-06-05 15:15:23

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2025-06-04 20:42:06

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2025-06-04 20:33:29

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2025-06-03 05:15:47

Fakemon
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2025-05-31 04:30:26

I'll never do the full furry alt
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2025-05-30 23:01:27

One of the biggest concerns with safety on pedi, is the amount of harassment and blackmailing that can happen. Do not be fully trusting of others with sensitive/private information, yours or someone else’s. No one needs to know things like your exact age, who else you talk to, your other accounts, etc. Here are some general behaviors to be weary of;
Overly friendly behavior, very quick to share their own personal information, especially if they use that to say you should share yours in return to be “fair” (did you even ask them to share theirs?).
General guilt tripping behaviors, such as imolying you don’t care about them whenever you need time alone, to more extreme things such as suicide baiting.
“No limits”/lacking their own boundries. You start to be more at risk of accidentally making them feel abused, if you yourself aren’t great at communication to make up for theirs. If you’re exploring things, you CAN suddenly have a limit mid way, and should say so if you do.
Self destructive and explosive behaviors, especially if it’s frequently unpredictiable.
It’s important to note that sometimes abusive behaviors can be unintentional, that doesn’t mean certain behaviors should be tolerated if they make you uncomfortable and/or threaten your safety. Sometimes you will not be in a position to help others, that is not a failing on your part. Other times, someone may have to stop being given chances in order to realize how seriously their behavior is effecting others. You personally not being able to help, doesn’t mean others can’t help instead. Your safety and personal mental health matters just as much as theirs.

2025-05-30 13:20:54

The phrases "you are so mature for your age" and "(MAPs) have arrested development" are there so people can avoid having to say that maturity isn't inherently tied to age, and in fact there are both mature kids and immature adults. It's not just adults lying for grooming or a mental disorder (which is ableism to just accuse for derogatory reasons, btw)

2025-05-21 19:05:28

Well very unfortunately for Hare, I was online at the worst time. She's being threatened by Rain again. Was convinced to take all the blame for the kit.cafe thing, apparently thought I was already in on the plan, didn't expect me to question it. So now Rain knows. Lily had apparently being arguing with Hare in the background to not make that post, and to instead screen shot everything and block (like she said she would ages ago), but she posted anyway. I was hesitant the last time, I'm not letting this boil in the background until it blows up again.
Be careful around Rain, and do not share yours or anyone else's personal information with Rain. Fuck if I know what'll happen now.

2025-05-16 19:28:45

"No kill" animal shelters do not actually prevent animals from being killed. A shelter being "no kill" (typically) means that they remain under a certain *percentage* of animals euthanized, they still euthanize. The distinction between "kill" and "no kill" has honestly done more harm than good, by making people believe that certain shelters are inherently more cruel than others. Or that it's okay to let pets breed willy nilly because surrendered pets are certain to not die if you simply dump them at the "right place".
What you can actually do to decrease the amount of the euthanized pets, is donate and volunteer FOR "kill shelters", so they have more resources to care for animals who will not be quickly adopted out or require more specialized care. Along with sterilizing your pets. Become a foster home for shelter pets, if able. Be kind to your local "kill" shelter, they're not just open because "too many people don't care enough about animals", it's because they provide the same service. If they close, the "no kill" shelter might become the new "kill" shelter (or will just turn down more pets) because they don't have the resources to provide for the number of pets coming in.

2025-05-13 03:45:05

I'm not happy that I was abusive in the past, but I'd be lying if I said it isn't a little amusing to randomly make others realize I *could* fuck with them by suddenly getting inside their head and teasing how I know how to pick them apart. Thing is though, that's a farse. What Im (and probably most other manipulators are) doing is just casting a wide net and hoping the other person ends up revealing more information that helps further narrow down what to say next. I don't need to know anything, if I say "Are you doing alright?" without any reason, and the response to that question is someone being shocked I could tell, I then know that they were attempting to hide it for some reason and can then narrow the search for an insecurity to prey upon. My baseless "observations" end up looking like attentiveness, which can easily be made out to be me either understanding them on a deeper level than I actually do, or caring enough to try. That *really* catches the attention of those who desperately seek attention, approval, and praise. Or are otherwise susceptible to flattery, love bombing.
The manipulation I did wasn't intentional at first, I am autistic, and early on I was sort of just throwing shit at the wall trying to learn how to get other's attention, approval, and praise myself. I wasn't casting a wide net looking for insecurities, I was being socially inept about what was/wasn't appropriate to ask. When others acted surprised that I had "saw right through them", I felt obligated to continue on the path I had set, so I'd keep pretending like I knew more than I actually did, because I didn't want to just outright say they were mistaken and they had just outed themselves on something. Eventually though, I'd have to stop pretending because I couldn't keep it up. Which looked like me flipping switch and not caring at all (again, autistic, didn't quite know how to gently break the news). However, I was so convincing that others frequently refused to believe I had just bummbled my way through getting inside their head. I hurt them, but if they were someone who desperately wanted that kind of attention, they'd beg and plead for me to reconsider leaving when I got bored. THAT'S the point where it became something I considered intentionally doing, because I also wanted attention, and someone (often repeatedly) letting me inevitably hurt them because they couldn't set boundaries, was a helluva thing for a lonely loser (me being a sadist (which was also poorly understood) on top did not help).
The cycle of abuse I was caught in was;
Be friendly and small talk.
Ask a slightly inappropriate but vague question.
Latch onto several potential insecurities (initially out of concern).
Lean into and love bomb (initially as an attempt to cheer them up).
Gradually lose interest because I didn't know what I wanted and that made them start questioning what they're doing wrong.
Lean into that as an insecurity to hear praise about how comforting/unique/chill I was.
Then I'd leave out of total disinterest, because I didn't know how else to end things when I'd just be begged to stay (or sometimes obsessively harassed back by the other person, necessitating being firmly blocked).
At first, I was genuinely distraught over knowing I was being hurtful but not knowing how else to communicate. It made me very sympathetic, but combine with others who were either abusive themselves or just prone to being a victim of my behavior, no one ever learned how to fix it. In some situations, I was being abused back simply because the chemistry was volatile from the start. Initially, there was no bad guy, just miscommunications and unfulfilled social needs brought on by neurodivergency. It became abusive because no one could/wanted to correct my behavior, and eventually I became a little monster who couldn't just be corrected, I needed to face more serious consequences to force me to reconsider putting effort into meeting my social needs another way.

2025-05-02 08:08:11

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@nprofile…p32f This year sucks man
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2025-04-28 20:41:07

I had scary/intense turn ons as a kid/teen. I thought I was uniquely fucked, thinking those fantasies made me a bad person. Already thinking I was a bad person made it easy to excuse abusive tendencies because "being abusive is inevitable anyway". It made me tolerate some forms of abuse because "I deserved to be treated poorly for those abusive behaviors".
Punishment based thinking did not prevent me from abusing others, it just made me more likely to accept being abused myself. Instead of actually learning to understand my turn ons, learning to communicate those desires, learning to regulate my behavior, any of that, I simply accepted I was doomed to be terrible. That the only "correct" way to deal with me was to give me a taste of my own medicine. Until I largely isolated, because I didn't know what else to do to protect myself/others from myself.
Punishment based thinking perpetuated abuse and offered no solution for how to improve.

2025-04-27 21:15:00

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@nprofile…p32f Today has been chill, even if a bit unproductive

2025-04-27 20:59:30

I want the teens to be able to fuck each other without their consentual sex being statutory rape or their own nudes being counted as possession/distribution of cp, when they are literally with other teens. Can we at least have that nuance?

2025-04-27 19:09:39

Instead of vague posting about bad pedi users. Who are pedi users you trust, work with, admire, think are resourceful, funny, etc?
I immediately think of users like @/Apologist@mapsupport.de @/GavinPrynne@mapsupport.de @/nep@gimmeloli.cc @/maytigress@zooey.cat @/Katie@mapsupport.de @/Zoocat@cunny.beauty @/waya@yiffy.pet Etc for those who I find informative, helpful, and/or is usually doing something positive for the space. But there's other users I always love just seeing around because they're funny or chill, like @/Crimson@rape.pet @/Norvit@rape.pet @/shiroispure@cottoncandy.cafe @/Collaredboytoy@puppyspace.org etc.
Just who do you look forward to seeing when you login?

2025-04-21 00:55:25

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2025-04-19 03:55:26

I had an epiphany
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2025-04-18 22:43:31

Sex positivity includes being accepting of low libido and asexual individuals as they are. Sex positivity includes respecting those who are monogamous and/or vanilla. There will be no "lack of kink" shaming in my household, they are not boring, prudish, or sex negative just because they're not as horny as someone else.

2025-04-17 17:38:11

Sexual education should be merged with some more broad communications and health class. As sexual education should be more than just explaining what herpes looks like, it should explain some of the communication skills that are also important to all of our well beings regarding intimate, not just sexual, relationships.

2025-04-17 13:48:23

I don't know, I kind of view only going after barely legals as more disrespectful than just admitting you'd bone the 16 year old too. People who hit on me prior to 18 were usually chill, but the moment I turned 18 a lot of creeps suddenly came out of no where to shoot their shot, and in rather disrespectful ways. I ended up feeling more threatened by those strictly following the law, because they had "I technically did nothing wrong :)" energy about knowing damn well they were pushing boundaries. This wasnt everyone, but there was a certain type of asshole who tripled in numbers overnight.
The issue wasnt that I was still too young to handle some bad attention at 18, no I was fine between 14-17, the issue was that some people will attempt to prey on anyone freshly of age purely because they are as young as you can legally get. You can bump that age up, it wouldn't change that the issue is people find it more acceptable to harass young adults, because the only retribution they fear is the law. Blaming it on age is like blaming the little black dress, people were capable of not being legitimately rapey when I was younger, but went mask off the moment it wasnt legally statutory rape by default (and therefore didn't need to kept on the DL as much).