Meh, I kind of get this from seeing lots of friend group/affinity group splits even on here (various meta and discourse etc), and while I can't really help I can empathize with how much it hurts to see the valid points both sides of something have, the places where both are weaker/vulnerable, the pressure to "take a stance, NOW" and the fear that if you say/do something it could make *you* the target (and often does) and yet if you don't it does too
Sympathy to you and them both
mybarkingdogs /
npub196…x58ny
2024-07-12 14:06:09
in reply to nevent1q…c245
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