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"content": ":blobcatthinkingeyes: I have!\n\nThis situation happens a lot with people who are compassionate towards others, I think. \n\nI believe it comes from seeing an opportunity to compartmentalize the relationships and keep them 1:1 with our mutual goals/successes being exclusive to the other person. For example, you and I could become friends and have our own intimate conversations/struggles/etc. and they are not part of the conversations I may have with hubs or your brother.\n\nFor me, if all things are equal, I would consider who would benefit the most from the support. In your above case (Amanda and James) if you don't believe you can maintain a relationship with both of them individually - which of them can you be the better friend to?\n\n(Hope that helps)",
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I have!