elilla, quarantined

Latina trans girl immigrant, corrupting Germany with hormones, easy sex, and talking to strangers. Travesti milf big boob futa gf. Silly airhead bimbo who believes in horoscope and gnomes, very harmless, not involved in any sort of antifa squads whatsoever

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2024-10-02 06:13:11

"does 'man repellent' clothing works?" in my experience there's an accessory on my purse that will drive men away whenever I carry it visibly (pepper spray)

2024-09-05 07:05:37

should commission a furry artists to do porn of me as a wasp domme to protest the meta. "what meta" I don't know actually, I just want porn of me as a wasp

2024-09-05 07:01:49

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@npub166y…6dc6 what, are people creating fedi drama about fucking furry porn (pun intended) of all things?? on the fediverse?!?!

2024-09-05 06:41:16

my kudos to @EMusk97623 on twitter who managed to convince a lawyer in Brazil to "invest" 35k in "bitcoin" before disappearing in a puff of smoke

2024-09-05 06:39:20

lowest winter temperature ever recorded in my home state was -8°. weird to think that in these times of 30°+ heatwaves forest fires mid-winter, bet we'll never see those temperatures again

2024-09-04 18:58:23

oh no oh fuck help me
Maltese is way too interesting

2024-09-04 06:50:28

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Japanese goes like "I see, that is definitely a point of view that exists"

2024-09-04 06:47:54

best at compliments: Arabic
best at insults: Italian
best at roasting purely with subtext: Japanese

2024-09-03 18:16:04

me 🤝 my daughter
can only do heavy housework by singing loudly and making a lot of noise

2024-09-03 15:09:28

people who grow culinary #mushrooms: I live in a 5-people family and everyone loves mushrooms. which species are reasonably easy to grow at home/balcony and have a high yield? which keeps producing for a long time? :boosts_ok_gay:

2024-08-31 08:56:23

Unlearning Economics talk about air: COVID, other airborne illnesses, air pollution, and how come people are shocked and Victorian Londoners drinking sewage water but have normalised breathing death.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efM2VlCueZc

2024-08-30 20:36:35

> In a paper by Satomi Yamamoto, she argues that “Futanari” as a term referring to intersexuality and double-sexedness goes back at least as far as the Yamai no sōshi (Illustrated Scroll of Illnesses) from the late 12th century, in which intersex shamans are depicted in a derogatory and submissive way under the label “Futanari.”
I *knew* it, it's shamans all the way down and futas are holy

2024-08-30 09:53:40

I've joined the war against wasps. I'm on the side of the wasps

2024-08-27 10:35:22

yes this is a company meetup day outfit for me, why?
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/113/033/528/672/116/951/original/62637f96f6aa8ee5.jpg

2024-08-26 14:28:04

author: https://linktr.ee/luckofthedrawcomic
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/113/028/788/314/937/764/original/f525a8acb728e3f8.png

2024-08-26 10:23:06

was talking with a friend about the desexualisation of queer spaces, and I realised that the reason I like people who are brazenly/publicly hypersexual even if I don't feel actually that sexual anymore, is that people who despite everything still wear their sexualness on their sleeve make me feel safer.

2024-08-25 07:37:32

"Men are raw dogging their flights" ok I'll click the bait I have to know, "I've just raw dogged a 7h flight, no headphones no tablet no book, nothing".
I've never been so underwhelmed in my life. even the fads are boring now smh. back in my day a tiktok challenge was considered a poor affair if it didn't result in at least a hundred naked people with scopolamine poisoning

2024-08-24 07:27:39

no thanks, I'm a never tucker

2024-08-22 10:19:29

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meanwhile yuri anime Narenare introduced a Brazilian character with an actually representative, 100% on point Brazilian name
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/113/005/158/135/058/263/original/382949af90d46af0.jpg

2024-08-18 07:12:59

first they accused us of being correct about politics, then they accused us of fighting for justice in society, now the accuse us of being aware.
"it's ironic" yes but the intended irony isn't that you're *not* correct, just, awake etc.; the intended irony is the the mere act of caring, of attempting to improve things, is supposed to be cringe.
the biggest difference between 20th century reactionaries and 21st is that ours get off on being the baddies, and I mean cartoon baddies.

2024-08-13 19:17:24

German is a language known for its compounds. For example, you can join the words "Clan" and "Kriminalität" in a single, concise term to express the meaning "I am racist"

2024-08-13 15:28:49

"and then in the early 2020s capitalists pushed technology engineered specifically to make errors look plausible and hard to spot, without any way to distinguish sinal from signal-shaped noise..."

2024-08-11 10:00:43

robot girlfriend who vibrates, lights up and beeps when she needs attention, like one of those discs they give you at restaurants to wait for your order

2024-08-10 09:49:32

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Paul Graham omen reading crew also casually gatekeeping all Germans lmao
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/937/090/366/110/906/original/ee0cc75bd0c83673.webp

2024-08-09 10:02:56

look app developers I want my scrollbars like I want my bulge: thick, vertical, and always exposed

2024-08-09 06:46:33

some people: "you cannot read text in dreams"
my brain: "In this dream we're copying this wen'yan manuscript from kai script to seal"

2024-08-08 07:59:56

"And this is my index key in a public database that has my full legal name and home address, I'm going to post it fucking everywhere lol"—amateur radio people

2024-08-07 09:19:55

just a photo of me at work~
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/919/990/210/349/324/original/08970f7e5a31c708.jpg

2024-08-06 07:32:23

* on firefox, Microsoft Teams can't detect my *output* sound device. camera and mic work fine, but no audio.
* on google fucking chrome, chrome can't see my OBS (v4l2loopback) camera.
how am I supposed to join this Microsoft fucking Teams meeting then

2024-07-28 16:36:49

started my big linen project!!
not my best stitches for sure but this is the first time I do cross stitch on linen, hopefully they'll get more regular with time. the red floss is linen too!
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/865/084/160/273/042/original/fd20b15a5f947ffb.jpg

2024-07-27 10:57:37

quoting Women Write About Comics:
> Heck, if you want a horror story, look up the lesbian/bisexual conflicts in the Northampton Pride Marches, 1989-1993. There were critics there openly and vocally debating on whether “Bisexuality was compatible with feminism.” There were undoubtedly bisexual attendance members listening to this bile for years running, and it showcases the toxic environment surrounding anyone who is not traditionally gay/lesbian in the LGBT+ community, a stigma that continues to this day

2024-07-26 19:26:37

I don't know, middle age is just hard. realising you missed the opportunity of achievement. by age 40 most other accursed cultists have already had their thin semblance of sanity long shredded of all contact with mundane reality by the psychic violations of the Black Goat in the Woods, and here am I still playing videogames on the sofa

2024-07-25 16:00:08

I'm gonna wear my "I like girls" T-shirt today :3 well it's not like any girls are going to suddenly start a conversation with me because of it or anything, but you know, it feels good to be out.
*5 minutes after stepping outside*
girl: "oh cool, where did you buy that T-shirt"
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/847/957/157/683/065/original/e4a9cee7ef3b4b8e.jpg

2024-07-22 13:39:49

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@npub1jq9…jqnl wait wait that third one is relevant to me, where do I learn more abt that

2024-07-19 13:46:00

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@npub1m36…ermh you mean nothing to do with the cartel operating system that'd an opaque black box and so brittle and fragile that a third party software auto update can put it into a boot loop?

2024-07-19 13:41:18

the scary thing for me isn't cloudstrife, it's that "many major hospitals and health services, airlines and airports" are using Windows and can crash with auto updates

2024-07-17 12:00:50

don't care, I have big boobs and they bounce when I walk

2024-07-16 18:26:02

ok now where's the pump :thonking:
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/797/570/233/095/662/original/e03f2b788c36d9b0.jpg

2024-07-15 04:31:56

we are in the next few months due for a visible nova from T Coronae Borealis, a star in a binary system that explodes every 80 years, becoming visible to the naked eye for about a week. literal once in a lifetime event.
if you want to prepare for it you can practice locating the Northern Crown constellation with a sky map app.
https://english.elpais.com/science-tech/2024-06-01/t-coronae-borealis-is-going-to-explode-and-will-be-visible-to-the-naked-eye-very-soon.html

2024-07-09 07:15:10

time to go, my train is here
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/755/294/749/490/692/original/f984e0f0bdf9fb30.jpg

2024-07-08 17:50:47

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meanwhile the porn "AI" that's mining your lewds will get saturated with ecoterrorist agitprop and spew it back at sex RP users, so win-win situation.
style points if the kink you're using to poison your main is hypnokink

2024-07-08 17:48:33

online safety tip: be sure to regularly post all the filthiest kinky perversions you have right on main, so that "AI" scrapers mark your feed as poison for payment processor puritanism and purge it from their training data

2024-07-03 08:07:57

https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/721/518/362/710/154/original/a6999c288b8fa1b5.jpg

2024-06-30 10:21:24

TIL: traditional "crystal glass" is just a marketing term for glass with lead in it. and no it isn't safe.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lead_glass

2024-06-26 19:25:07

🖼
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2024-06-24 20:30:57

third world immigrant transgender single mother born in poverty with adhd who plants native flowers and punches nazis. I deserve a rest every now and then. you have to recognise yourself, to stand for yourself, to give you the keys to your own city.

2024-06-24 06:01:39

I guess there's one (1) dating site left where you don't have to show your face...
(soundtrack fades to dramatic silence) (elilla& shudders) Fetlife. (thunder crashes over the room)

2024-06-22 20:41:09

other girls: apt-get upgrade when they're bored.
me: sudo eatmydata apt -y dist-upgrade when I'm bored

2024-06-21 09:53:21

a baby was screaming so their very English father said in an icy tone that sounded more disappointed than angry and with RP vowels, "stop with that, it's absolutely ridiculous" and the baby promptly stopped, probably to reflect on the impropriety of their breach of decorum. I wouldn't want to be an infant in England I think

2024-06-19 10:51:02

I'm the only transfem who likes the football people.
at least they look a tiny bit alive in this repressed, domesticated land. at least someone looks more animal than robot. I also like large groups of schoolchildren and talkative retired oma squads and Turkish teens playing music in public, for the same reason

2024-06-19 10:45:49

vegan /'vi:gɘn/
vegan /ve.'gan/
:thaenkin:
therefore "german" is actually pronounced [geɐ.'man]

2024-06-17 06:35:26

English: sea horse
Chinese: sea horse
Portuguese: marine horse
German: sea horsie
Polish: sea pony
Japanese: dragon's bastard

2024-06-16 18:19:05

my daughter would like to learn music. at some point she picked up an ukelele "because it looked portable and easy", but she confessed she's "not super passionate about it".
if I find a music course for her I wonder if it would be better to find another instrument that she actually digs. she did mention the bass, maybe. but budget is an issue...

2024-06-13 07:01:40

there's this Backwerk in my commute where someone always flips the tea boxes so that the side with the Polish name is the one facing the customers. :praxis_100:

2024-06-12 19:04:30

attn: #German learners and immigrants looking for practice: the daily news Tagesschau will now broadcast in simpler language. A new one will be available every day 18h on https://tagesschau.de/einfache-sprache
baffingly, no closed captions though.
#DaF #Deutsch

2024-06-05 08:54:59

one of the weirdest things about cis people is that even when talking about another cis person, if the person has chosen a name for themself, the others refer to their government-name as "the real name". as if government is the force that brings the immanent into the phenomenal. any names not granted by the government are declared unreal: they're "pseudo"-nyms, "stage" names, the stuff of drama and dreams. government is thus granted the power of manifesting will into reality—and of dissolving reality into fiction.

2024-06-02 11:32:47

> Google lays off hundreds of ‘Core’ employees, moves some positions to India and Mexico
capitalists are like "sorry, home office isn't compatible with our company culture, you have to be at the office for productivity reasons. whoops your job is now done via Zoom by someone with a 12h-difference timezone and a tenth of your salary"

2024-05-31 08:02:05

anyone recommends doctors to get an autism diagnosis as an adult (in Germany)? my friend has a very terrible relationship with their abusive parents and they're terrified that the therapists will insist on parent involvement

2024-05-30 18:26:57

apparently Youtube barred a whole lot of people now for using adblockers.
I just want to point out that I continue to use Firefox with plain old uBlock and it works perfectly, no ads and no blocks on my side.
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/531/491/461/009/422/original/1b32c9912c457e04.jpeg

2024-05-28 13:52:13

the star of my balcony right now are the foxgloves ☣️
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/519/014/965/310/233/original/5c2934983755c50f.jpg
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/519/036/881/232/332/original/ffcef75a98634d11.jpg

2024-05-25 19:11:04

#nixos people: is there a way to install bleeding-edge updated firmware from git repos outside the standard linux-firmware packages (like this https://git.codelinaro.org/clo/ath-firmware/ath11k-firmware )?

2024-05-25 17:20:10

it's been a while since I posted any porn so here's some celebratory antifa softcore for the antifa softcore porn enjoyers
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/502/857/987/160/801/original/a970178be50b4adb.jpg

2024-05-25 16:52:05

masks and respirators are the most punk of all punkwear in this decade, in the most raw & real sense of punk

2024-05-25 12:32:04

https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/501/728/198/932/178/original/820b44d1153fceee.jpg

2024-05-24 20:49:31

https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/498/021/428/621/151/original/a071aa875a74a674.jpg

2024-05-21 08:52:00

if you're prone to infodumping, that just means you're the exposition character. the writers rely on you a lot

2024-05-20 12:43:46

still thinking of how all normal proprietary software of today would have been flagged spyware ten years ago

2024-05-17 11:47:05

Linux has top(1), bottom(1), and powertop(1). we're missing one

2024-05-14 19:52:31

apparently the windshield wipers of the cybertruck stopped working after a software update.
you know, back in the last millennium we used to make jokes like, "if Microsoft made cars". the idea that people are ok with putting *computers* in their *cars* is, speaking as a computer technician, incomprehensible to me

2024-05-14 08:44:41

do you think somewhere there's a guy who works in literary publishing and his name is Ed, and his business card reads, "Ed is the standard text editor"

2024-05-11 18:00:10

apparently there's still going to be auroras for us ppl who missed it. let's watch aurora reruns everyone

2024-05-11 09:01:58

I didn't post this photo of my NixOS having some sort of existential ontology breakdown
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/421/638/690/142/585/original/d5e0ccf8f60be5ad.jpg

2024-05-09 21:23:08

https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/413/226/597/277/653/original/2c1b266a7e948c54.jpg

2024-05-09 13:49:48

is anyone in my audience into amateur radio. especially located in Germany or Europe

2024-05-08 17:25:15

taking a break from my social media diet to note that I finally took the time to export my #emacs styling like many of you asked. I present you: girly-notebook-theme.el
https://github.com/melissaboiko/girly-notebook-theme
you have to install the fonts for it to work properly, see the README.
FAQ: no there's no dark bg version.
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/406/631/234/811/041/original/1f3397e6660ec17b.png

2024-04-12 07:49:08

att: #DwarfFortress folk: the latest DFHack has:
- Legends browser inside fortress mode
- Dig warm/wet tiles without notifications
- Different icons for aquifer vs. merely wet tiles

2024-03-18 19:55:54

> The Dunning-Kruger effect also emerges from data in which it shouldn’t. For instance, if you carefully craft random data so that it does not contain a Dunning-Kruger effect, you will still find the effect. The reason turns out to be embarrassingly simple: the Dunning-Kruger effect has nothing to do with human psychology.1 It is a statistical artifact — a stunning example of autocorrelation.
https://economicsfromthetopdown.com/2022/04/08/the-dunning-kruger-effect-is-autocorrelation/

2024-03-07 09:40:15

it's March and our hard-earned money is being burned, time to repost this
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/112/053/741/083/340/440/original/31cb060a85ee32e8.png

2024-02-19 13:16:41

soo the scammy lawyer firm that is accusing us of torrenting Wonka (2023), Frommer Legal, has sent a second letter. They more or less ignored my objection that no one in my house torrented, downloaded, streamed, or watched Wonka (2023), sending instead a bunch of legalese about "Persönliche Haftung als Anschlussinhaber". They then reduced the money they want from me from 1700€ to 1500€, again with a tight deadline on 28.02 (9 days from the letter), now with Ratenzahlung.
I guess this is the part where I have to pay money to a lawyer? Which type of laywer should I hire? I hope I can fundraise for this, I'm broke...

2024-02-09 10:58:42

"oh nice, #mastoDev has a professional design team, this will allow them to keep closer interaction with the community since programmers can focus on code while the professional design team participates in community discussions and respond to accessibility criticism with valuable feedback from users."
the #mastoDevs:
(from: https://github.com/mastodon/mastodon-android/issues/614 )
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/111/901/161/961/230/713/original/eb2381ac43536a76.png

2024-01-18 10:30:29

low tech stuff is great but I also look for "mid tech" when acquiring appliances:
- physical buttons (not touch or digital)
- absence of microchips and complex PCBs (e.g. magnet-based rice cooker)
- metal parts
- tech that is easy to understand, access and modify (e.g. simple dishwasher)
- parameters > preset menus (e.g. food drier has a "timer" knob and a "temperature" knob rather than buttons for "fruit", "mushrooms", "jerky" etc.)
- expendable components are standard and replaceable (e.g. batteries, light bulbs)
- absence of apps
- absence of Internet
- absence of "AI"
- no electricity > electricity (e.g. analog multimeter, thermometer, scale)
- plugged on > battery power
- wired > wireless

2023-12-27 22:02:26

hiii! I'm elilla the federated glamtifa influencer~ :sparkles_pink:
I'm:
- in my 40s now, a literal mom, and also something of a queer mom at my local scene;
- trans woman, Latina travesti, sapphic, used to be notoriously promiscuous but kinda calmed down these days;
- white-privileged Global South immigrant in Germany, loved by many, hated by authority, noncitizen untermädchen forever risking deportation but cannot resist the thrill of aktion;
- anarchist antifa vegan radical extremist detained, profiled and monitored by the German state, has a facial scar from literally fighting nazis, cops go "oh it's that one again" at this point;
- plantgirl organic hippie, into urban #wildGardening #naturGarten for nature restoration, insect support, and herbal medicine;
- ex-academic japanologist, worked with writing systems and the history of dialectal tonology, still horny for linguistics and always will be;
- sociable, party girl, loves dance, crowds, noise, people, smalltalk, fashion, talking with strangers, being touched, summer sunlight heat and I'm neurodiv, yes some neurodiv people are like this too;
- sadly, tech professional.
might be a bit obvious looking at the list above, but I'm plural. some of my plurality is religious, drawing from the Brazilian tradition of umbanda, only not like the white bleached type of umbanda.
I post about all these topics without any editing or chill. early on in transition I decided to focus on trans joy in my online presence, and when I ran a survey, many people said they follow me because the way I write makes them feel good about queer life.
I've been using Mastodon for a long time now, and my tutorial got some notoriety in 2023:
https://wordsmith.social/elilla/a-futuristic-mastodon-introduction-for-2021
follow reqs, CWs and boundaries: https://transmom.love/@elilla/110073152267390757
for info on the gender identity of Latina travesti, see:
https://transmom.love/@elilla/107875845516788083
#reintroduction #introduction #altHier
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2023-12-27 20:54:22

ryona.agency: mod is self-identified racist, antisemite, trans hater etc.
https://ryona.agency/users/mint
moth@stereophonic.space: tried to tag and call on the above to dogpile me because I pasted a quote of Anne Frank's diary
https://stereophonic.space/objects/2581db16-60f9-4538-aa1e-5eeee218d397
#fediblock
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2023-11-18 00:06:03

1. stop. burning coal.
2. seriously, stop it. now.
3. no more coal what are you, suicidal?? wtf.
4. cancel all Third World "debt", immediately.
5. land back for indigenous people, immediately. learn from the advanced ecological technology of indigenous people, humbly, returning the respect and material restorations they're richly owed.
6. heavily disincentivise private vehicle driving while making public transportation free.
7. end animal industry. disinvest from high-input intensive farming.
8. invest on research about agroflorestry, food forests, restorative agriculture, soil carbon capture, native biosphere restoration, wilderness as part of human sociality. end the coloniser ideology of "untouchable nature".
9. incentivise the population to close that gap, widely distributing land for free for caretakers, setting up free education on biosphere restauration, setting up community gardens everywhere, normalising edible plants in urban spaces, providing for urban fauna, converting all lawns to meadows etc. find the relationships people already have with plants and add fuel to that fire.
10. more people than you think would rather be planting trees. universal basic income will get you there.
11. shift culture from 24/7 brainwashing to acquire more stuff, to a caretaker culture focused on maintaining what exists; from an economy of production into a circular economy; from an ideology of individual success into one of quality of life, of communal spaces, of enjoying life not by buying fancy things but by having lots of time to share with friends freely. uphold high-QoL low-tech solutions, make degrowth irresistible.
12. grant personhood status and immanent rights to plants, animals, and natural features, like many indigenous cultures or recently the Maōri etc.
13. abolish all fucking borders forever.
"your solutions are utopic, they're too hard to implement" abolishing slavery seemed utopic once. global warming is too big of a problem and it needs big solutions. if you don't do this kind of thing, you'll pay a much higher cost than the cost of doing these things. we're already paying that higher cost.
"it's not up to me to decide, I have to propose realistic solutions that my bosses will accept" if you're not down to even *imagining* actual real solutions, to not even *talking*, not even advocating for what the world could be, we'll never motivate anyone to get there.

2023-09-11 08:51:10

my sense of humour is such that this made me laugh out loud for half a minute. I can't explain it either.
https://transmom.love/system/media_attachments/files/111/045/648/890/858/200/original/6333ade4e0c72da1.png

2023-08-05 08:04:34

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@npub1skl…jhe5 I have access to none of those things

2023-08-04 19:22:53

broke a tooth last week and now I have intense tooth pain. ibu and remedies not working, can't get a dentist till next week

2023-07-16 22:01:43

way I use these words, I absolutely don't use "straight" as the same as "heterosexual" (in the same way that "gay" doesn't mean "homosexual" either). if I kiss a boy that's a hetero kiss but sure as fuck isn't straight. "straight" is the opposite to "queer" (to the level of the metaphor, even), and a hetero relationship sure can be queer.
when I kissed girls before transition that was straight-passing and I would attempt to have straight relationships to various degrees, but even before finding my gender I always ended up queering it anyway, cos I'm not straight and can't ever be happy in a straight relationship, independently of the genders involved.
it's even the case that a homosexual relationship could theoretically be straight in my sense of the word, if the assimilationist agenda ever succeeded. in the current society it's impossible, but gay marriage was a move towards straightening homosexuality, and before this wave of transphobia set them back 30 years, the assimilationists were well on the way to have fully straight same-sex couples.
myself I'm on Sylvia Rivera's camp, I'm fiercely hostile to any hint of straightness in my life. all the stuff I've done with men has been as queer as it gets, whether I was already living as a woman or not.