Dee Fedilore 🦦 / is on Nostr

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2024-10-01 02:30:19

In an attempt to not take the bait and reignite the meta, I am going to leave out which instance admin posted this yesterday.
But this is such a harmful post that whitewashing queer POC on (or running) the instances targeted transphobic blocklists - so I want to actually talk about it a bit.
This is a racist conspiracy theory, being weaponized to harm queer people.
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/229/763/422/162/832/original/32a23a3a562471ac.png

2024-09-20 22:02:39

I am thankful all y'all don't make me have takes about furry drama.
So much of fediblock is furry drama, and none of it ever spills out or causes real problems.
People block or don't block, and it's fine.

2024-09-16 22:11:41

I feel like half of people who talk about "gender abolitionism" are serious people talking about dismantling gender as a class or as a prison to trap people in.
And then the other half are just angry at women or trans people or trans women, and using fancy-sounding works to make themselves feel better.
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/149/506/650/141/882/original/a0e28a9628c868e5.jpg

2024-09-15 16:32:40

This is a call out post, to all the admins of small, weird queer instances.
How dare you do such a great job and create such cool communities in the face of tiny budgets and constant harassment.
You are helping people connect, feel safer, and understand who they are and if you think that's acceptable then I hope you have a very nice day.

2024-09-14 19:26:29

I'm not crazy that it's unusual to ask for this much money for no reason, right?
I'm way more used to "I need $300 so I can eat without becoming homeless" than "I want $1000 for my birthday."
https://tenforward.social/@packetcat/113135661213276678

2024-09-13 15:44:54

This is deeply weird behaviour!
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/131/007/471/450/559/original/ade66a902908e490.png

2024-09-13 07:06:01

- reply

@npub1xp9…amfw Nope! I'm not breaking any rules, but still probably not a terrible idea.

2024-09-13 00:01:19

This post about me by WelshPixie:
https://mastodon.art/@welshpixie/113125448625634331
Was posted 23 minutes after I started this thread:
https://mastodon.social/@fedilore/113125360586268500
If anybody has any questions for me about WP's false allegations, I would invite you to read these posts in context.
#fediblockmeta
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/127/246/378/095/466/original/182f1a91e6f3dcf2.png

2024-09-10 15:39:08

Keeping in mind that so_treu and packetcat started this out of nowhere, three days ago, this is Ro arguing that violence is appropriate against trans people who speak up against explicit transphobia and death threats.
are0h is just a 50 year old cis dude who hates trans women and frequently fantasizes about murdering queer people with baseball bats.
He isn't doing some grand anti-racist thing. He's a bigoted old man.
This is very clearly not about racism.
https://h-i.social/@are0h/113109117289577702

2024-09-09 20:26:25

One weird thing is that WelshPixie seems to think that TenForward came out ahead in yesterday's day-long meltdown of harassment, deadnaming and death threats.
I do not think that is true!
I actually think that a 30-post thread on the fediblock hashtag, full of deadnaming and death threats and very weird Youtube video is going to look pretty bad.

2024-09-09 01:02:52

It's wild how he thinks that:
a) transmisogyny does not exist, and
b) the hardest part about being trans is that JK Rowling says mean things about you on the internet.
https://tenforward.social/@packetcat/113075140775646156

2024-09-08 20:37:45

Adding a bit of context to the word "baeddel" in this murder threat.
Baeddel is a mostly imaginary political movement for transfemme autonomy.
It's silly, because obviously there cannot be a transfemme ethnostate, but conspiracies about the word are frequently brought up to attack trans women who are standing up for the safety of their own community.
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/103/847/195/278/633/original/636ad6b9d05fcc06.webp

2024-09-08 20:37:45

2024-09-08 19:50:32

If you're an admin with visibly queer users, it can be a good idea to pre-emptively block The Bad Space's source list and a few of their allies.
This drama almost always happens because they've gone out of their way to find queer people to harass.
mastodon.art
colorid.es
cathode.church
rage.love
strangeobject.space
queer.group
indiepocalypse.social
blackqueer.life
solarpunk.moe
queer.garden
tenforward.social
scholar.social
h-i.social

2024-08-17 20:57:44

Periodic post to remind me when I fuck up.
I am doing my best, but these also aren't easy topics.