Michelle Appavu / Michelle Appavu is on Nostr

Wife. Writer. Runner. Mother. IVF. Animal Lover ❤️.

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2025-03-01 14:38:29

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#logicalfallacies
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2025-02-10 15:44:19

As a woman, I find the Nike Superbowl commercial EXTREMELY frustrating.
This whole "us vs. them" in the mainstream is mind boggling.
Who is telling women we can't be demanding? We can't be relentless? We can't put ourselves first? We can't be confident? We can't challenge, dominate, or flex?
WHO is telling this to women?
The absolute lack of critical thinking and the bandwagon phenomenon is crazy to watch from the sidelines.
A REALLY great, quick read that I came across years ago that really touches the heart of this is Scott Russel Sanders' essay, "The Men We Carry in Our Minds".
If you're feeling crazy and want to read it (text attached), I'd love to hear your thoughts.
#Nike #feminism #woke #superbowl #criticalthinking
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2025-02-06 17:50:28

Worst. Advice. Ever.
#badadvice #dumb #ignoredovebutenjoythechocolate 😆
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2025-02-06 13:51:08

Currently taking a cellphone #photography course at the local #arts center. It's amazing what are phone cameras can capture 😍
#cellphonephotography #lighting
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2025-02-04 17:32:22

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awesome - thanks for the recommendations!

2025-02-03 14:04:14

Started running again last week. Before this pregnancy, I was running daily 10ks at about a 7.5ish minute mile on average. Now, at almost 10 weeks pregnant, running is an entirely different ballgame. I am not trying to break records and am focusing on simply completing the run, but other runners will probably understand - it's hard seeing the stats drop.
This will probably be the best run I do for the next 7 months, but it will be fun to see what I am able to achieve regardless.
*noted to add that I have been medically cleared to run during pregnancy and am not putting the baby in danger.
#running #runner #pregnancy #pregnancyrunning #runningthroughpregnancy
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2025-01-29 20:02:26

What's everyone watching/binging these days?
I flew through From pretty quickly and enjoyed it.
I'm open to most genres as long as the material isn't loaded with obvious agenda.
Any recommendations??
#binge #bingewatch #television #movies #whattowatch
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2025-01-27 19:19:50

Today was a BIG day.
After 8+ years of being sucked into the amazing and emotional world of IVF, we graduated from our clinic for the very last time.
The amount of money we have put into this journey is about the equivalent of 1 Bitcoin (and probably closer the the value before last night's drop).
I literally cannot count how many trips I have made to this clinic, nor can I begin to fathom the emotions I have felt coming in and out of its door. Or the minutes spent frozen in my car in the parking lot, convincing my legs to move me forward because I needed to keep moving toward the next "step" of our journey.
The absolute devastation of losing our first. A despair so deep that I have hidden it deep, deep back somewhere in my brain where I try to never visit.
The loneliness of going to so many of those appointments alone because life doesn't just pause at our convenience - feeling broken, scared, and alone during the tests, procedures, ultrasounds.
The closeness experienced with Brian when he was able to come - how we were sharing physical space in real time that would (hopefully) provide us with the most precious gift- an "us". A tiny creature, half him and half me.
And it has - four of those gifts, to our amazement.
It's with mixed emotions that I say goodbye to Advanced Fertility Care - infertility has become part of my identity, but wow, I am so ready to move onto the next phase of life.
Regardless of the pain and tears and anxiety involved along the way, these doctors and advanced practitioners have provided us with our children - something I could never truly find the words to thank them for. I mean, how do you even begin to find words to show appreciation for something so amazing as, quite literally, "life"?
We get to grow old with children.
When Cora saw that I had added her name on my medication schedule (so I'd remember to give her antibiotics twice a day), she gave me the biggest, sweetest, most unprompted and authenticity hug she has ever given me. She was SO happy to feel so cared about. And me? I got to feel that hug and feel her love. And they gave that to me - that one tiny moment in time where I felt a million amazing feelings all at once as Cora wrapped her arms around my legs. How do you thank someone for that?
And if we are really lucky, we will get to grow even older with grand children.
To those still on the infertility journey - I am wishing you the very best. Know you are NOT alone. If you find yourself crying in your car after your appointment, you are not alone. If you find yourself staring into the mirror in the patient bathroom, wondering who is behind your eyes - you aren't alone. If you feel like anyone but yourself when everything is said and done, you are not alone.
I hope you find the happy ending that we have been so so lucky to have found.
All that said, our 4th and last baby is measuring just right at 8 weeks 5 days with a 178 heartbeat. 💜.
We have our first appointment with our new OB on Wednesday next week 🤞.
#infertility #ivf #ivfsuccess #parenting #appreciation #thisislife
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2025-01-26 04:31:50

Our 5 year old daughter put an American flag on her cushion fort tonight, unprompted. And unexpectedly - we haven't and do not talk politics much in the house.
Not sure if we just have a super patriotic kiddo on our hands or if kids are taking in much more than we realize in today's climate.
Either way, this little one never fails to amaze me ❤️.
#politics #americanflag #daughter #ourkidsarelistening
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2025-01-26 03:14:25

This is my first post and to be honest, I have no idea what my plans are. I am looking for a platform to be authentic and unapologetic while still discussing the topics that matter to me.
I am also very interested in Bitcoin and what it is going to mean to our future. I lean more on the conservative side and find the writing and presentation of the news today to be borderline appalling.
Looking forward to connecting and finding intellectual stimulation 😎.
#introductions #introduction
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2025-01-26 03:14:25