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2024-04-02 01:59:04

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That’s how I feel too 🥲

2024-04-02 01:54:04

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Yep! Exactly the issue I have lol

2024-04-02 00:44:26

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I don’t, that’s why I’m talking about it 😊 Ask me anything about human behavior and I got you, but when it comes to anything tech wise I’m completely lost. Lots of other people have had some great ideas!

2024-04-02 00:18:54

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🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

2024-04-02 00:03:29

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The issue is hate on posts, creepiness in the DMs. If details are needed, they can message me. Also I’m sure you can see the issue in my posts by some people’s responses.

2024-04-01 23:32:00

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I know you didn’t mean it this way, but I don’t think people need to prove their experiences. You’re welcome to message me if you’d like! 🤗

2024-04-01 23:30:23

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You’re the toxic masculinity, don’t project that shit on me 😂😂😂

2024-04-01 22:59:05

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Cuz little is never goes away ☺️ we just forget to play when we’re older, or we think it has to be a certain way.

2024-04-01 21:23:43

If you’re a man (or woman) that perceives my notes as hating men, I dont know how to save you. I WANT to be here with you. You’re completely missing the point. The people who get it, get it.
Just unfollow me.

2024-04-01 21:08:23

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I refuse to do the work for men. Seems pretty damn fair to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

2024-04-01 20:55:08

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I didn’t volunteer. I said “please educate yourself.”

2024-04-01 20:51:30

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“Again, from my perspective.”

2024-04-01 20:47:26

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You clearly don’t understand what feminism is about. If you did, you’d know that it’s ALSO about men and you’d support it. Please educate yourself.

2024-04-01 20:26:46

These apps always know 😅 Thanks #thepattern I already did ☺️
https://m.primal.net/HqVe.jpg

2024-04-01 20:17:18

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🥹🫂

2024-04-01 20:09:04

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That’s what I thought when I saw it 😂 I’d love to be able to do that if I knew how.

2024-04-01 20:08:31

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Oh awesome! Thank you 😊

2024-04-01 19:58:39

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Thank you ❤️

2024-04-01 19:54:27

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WOW!!! Thanks for your help!! 😃👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

2024-04-01 19:39:20

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I’ve heard so many people say this! But I have iOS 😭

2024-04-01 19:34:28

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I hope 😂

2024-04-01 19:29:59

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This is what @npub1klr…7gxc was talking about. It would definitely be helpful!

2024-04-01 19:25:40

Everyone proving my point today is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
#note1mq4…e0sv

2024-04-01 19:16:36

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RIGHT 😂😂😂 It’s like they don’t even think lol

2024-04-01 18:58:26

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Thank you! And I can understand that and I also think a lot of women feel like they wouldn’t be respected in the field. But that’s a whole other issue 😂 It would be cool to see what else could be created on nostr!

2024-04-01 18:54:13

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Yeah I can totally see that!

2024-04-01 18:52:48

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I feel like this would not fly 😂 I would of course be totally fine with it, but then you have to think about people abusing the blocking function. Then the numbers wouldn’t truly represent the user and their content (I’m sure I’d have a lot of blocks but if you know me I’ve only been kind on here). I think it’s just a matter of considering options and seeing it as an issue, like the poster mentioned versus completing ignoring. I’m glad a lot of different people are talking about it today 🥹

2024-04-01 18:46:39

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I know ☹️

2024-04-01 18:40:57

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I love this idea! Is this something I can do now?

2024-04-01 18:37:44

THANK. YOU. 🫂❤️
#note14vv…2klc

2024-04-01 18:33:03

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Sick of toxic men 🥲

2024-04-01 18:07:59

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😔🫂🫂🫂🫂

2024-04-01 17:48:04

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I completely agree with everything you said. It’s fundamental to nostr, like you said, which is incredibly unique! There isn’t really a way through besides what you mentioned.

2024-04-01 17:31:51

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And that it’s not me hating men. Defensiveness really clouds people’s minds.

2024-04-01 17:22:28

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Yes exactly!

2024-04-01 17:21:40

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Oh and I’ve reported users but I dont know what that does.

2024-04-01 17:20:03

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I use primal and mute them. But that doesn’t block them. They can still follow you and interact with your content.

2024-04-01 17:15:34

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That’s just based on my experience here. When I’ve searched hashtags to find other women to connect with they are rarely active. Of course there’s exceptions, but I’ve had a difficult time finding women, therefore it seems as though nostr is primarily men. But I agree that it doesn’t have to be! I don’t want it to be. I don’t know what would need to change to draw more people in. The emotional safety issue is a huge one, whether you’re a woman, trans, person of color or another group. When I go on TikTok I know that I won’t be harassed and have no power to do something about it. Here, I can only unfollow and mute, yet the haters can still follow me.

2024-04-01 17:09:56

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Other platforms allow users to be blocked and reported and potentially banned from using the platform for hate/harassment/etc. This isn’t the case on nostr of course because that completely goes against the whole foundation of nostr.
There’s too many issues to list, but you can research it if it’s helpful. To me, it feels like a microcosm of being a woman in the world. For example, I posted a picture of myself but then received hate for it because I’ve brought up mistreatment by other nostr men (aka if I post a picture like that then I deserve mistreatment). We’re held to the same BS societal guidelines here as we are in the real world. And when women bring up the issues here (in a kind way), we’re still unheard, harassed, and not considered. We just want our experiences to be considered, not dismissed. I hope that helps.

2024-04-01 17:03:22

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True! I totally get where you’re coming from. But if the majority of the nostr population is men, theres only so much decorating our feed that we can do (and significantly more likelihood of dealing with assholes). I didn’t post this as a complaint, it was simply to bring awareness and maybe a productive dialogue about it.

2024-04-01 16:41:24

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They wouldn’t have it in mind because men don’t need to consider other people’s experiences. The world is built for them. They’re conditioned to be that way, so I don’t think it’s malicious.

2024-04-01 16:40:08

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Thank you for demonstrating what projection means! Bravo 👏🏻

2024-04-01 16:38:47

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I think you missed the part that said “if you’re defensive you may want to self-reflect on why.”

2024-04-01 16:36:56

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Notice I didn’t say any of those words you mentioned besides “marginalized.” I don’t view myself as helpless, I view myself as unsupported by my environment.
And also, it’s quite the assumption to make that all the women on nostr never experienced any struggle or harassment on here. Tell me why would a woman post on nostr (predominantly men) about being harassed? They would get the same “eye roll” response you just gave me. Point proven.

2024-04-01 16:33:00

I think it’s easy to say just mute the person. But if you don’t have the lived experience of being a woman, or being part of a marginalized group, you will never understand our experience, especially what it’s like to be on nostr.
I love nostr AND it’s challenging to be here because it feels like (again, from my perspective) another man’s world; built by men, for men, that only men will truly benefit from (if you feel defensive after reading that, you may want to self-reflect on why).
I understand the purpose and updates being made consistently. But without some type of protection from the /harassment/hate, I just can’t see nostr expanding the ways it’s envisioned.
I appreciate the men on here that have been kind to me and have my back. You’re the only reason I’ve stayed 🫂
And please don’t come for me, I’m tired today 😂
#note18yj…yql0

2024-04-01 11:43:57

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I delete it ALL 😂 I know people that keep everything too.

2024-04-01 03:18:08

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Maybe 😂

2024-04-01 02:51:17

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Right 😂 I don’t take it as a compliment lol

2024-04-01 02:26:42

Is it a guy thing to save numbers of the people you’ve dated? I’ve had guys from MONTHS and YEARS ago message me, even ones I’ve never met!
If I’m done with you, you’re dead to me 😂 Number deleted, photos deleted, blocked on social media, and if you touched something of mine I clean it or get rid of it if I can. I DO NOT want your energy around me 🤣🤣🤣

2024-04-01 02:19:45

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😂 My rabbit holes turn into hours and hours and forgetting I need food/water and have responsibilities🤣🤣

2024-04-01 02:10:47

10:10

2024-04-01 01:21:08

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I may have to!

2024-04-01 01:19:30

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Maybe I’m not that far down the rabbit hole 😂😂

2024-04-01 01:18:44

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I wish 😂😂 more like knock some sense into them hahaha

2024-04-01 01:18:22

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Oh yeah I have no issue with those people. Even if I don’t like/agree with their stuff (unless it’s extreme). Just the men who have tried to make their move and did so in horrendous ways 🥲

2024-04-01 01:09:08

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It’s okay 🫂

2024-04-01 01:08:48

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Well that is completely out of my wheelhouse 😂😂 I will begrudgingly accept it and hope they become bored of me.

2024-04-01 01:07:37

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That’s what I was thinking too. So it would essentially be pointless unless all clients had the same feature. Oh well. They can keep creeping for whatever reason I guess 😒

2024-04-01 00:57:55

This 4B movement in Korea is about to spread worldwide 🤭😂

2024-04-01 00:56:26

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😔😔😔

2024-04-01 00:29:05

Primal needs a “remove follower” button like IG.

2024-03-31 03:09:26

GN friends 🌙✨
Enjoy this oldie but goodie.
https://m.primal.net/Hpvk.jpg

2024-03-29 03:55:15

Why do AI pictures come out so good, but then the fingers are always so fucked up 😂
https://m.primal.net/HpQf.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HpQg.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HpQh.jpg

2024-03-29 02:13:54

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That’s awesome! I like to cook with people, by myself it’s not so enjoyable 😞

2024-03-29 01:30:57

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Mmmm I used to make chicken alfredo all the time and loved it 😍

2024-03-29 00:52:28

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The food looks yummy! 😋

2024-03-28 23:27:21

When I click on a note to view the comments, why do I have to click on each individual comment to see the follow up comments, then have to keep clicking to see alllllll the comments? Sometimes I get lost in a comment whirlpool 😂

2024-03-28 14:59:54

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The ? is accurate 😂 if I don’t work, I don’t get paid 🥲

2024-03-28 03:46:53

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Gn 🫂

2024-03-27 22:01:40

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😂😂😂 Yeah after I posted that I realized there wouldn’t be anything on it 🥲

2024-03-27 18:27:36

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GM!!

2024-03-27 18:14:50

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I’ve seen a handful of them! You have to start searching for people under different hashtags. Then you’ll come in contact with more similar people 😊

2024-03-27 14:38:48

I would 1000% sign up for this 😂 Spotify wrapped always calls me out BIG time 🥲
https://m.primal.net/HoqW.jpg

2024-03-27 14:28:07

“If you want clean fun go fly a kite” 🎶 This band is so strange but I love them.
https://m.primal.net/HoqR.jpg

2024-03-27 14:17:03

Had my music on shuffle then “everlong” played. I think I listened to @npub1np3…4mnu version so much, his was the only one I could hear in my mind 😆

2024-03-26 20:53:42

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Yes there’s a lot of cats! But also doggos and other animals too 🥰

2024-03-26 15:02:30

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I was just saying yesterday I need a husband from nostr 😏

2024-03-26 14:40:05

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Always gotta have the gator signs 😆

2024-03-26 13:27:32

My work plant baby I’ve kept alive for 3 years 🥹 #plantstr
https://m.primal.net/HobD.jpg

2024-03-26 12:57:33

Off to be a therapist. Anyone wanna trade jobs for the day? 😬

2024-03-26 12:27:53

“Take this pink ribbon off my eyes. I’m exposed and it’s no big surprise. Don’t you think I know exactly where I stand? This world is forcing me to hold your hand.” 🎶
GM! ☀️☕️

2024-03-26 03:21:20

Gn #nostr (and my future husband 🫶🏻)
Sweet dreams 💫🫂

2024-03-26 02:13:48

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Never got that money back either 😂

2024-03-26 02:08:23

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Thank god 😂 I had to send my last ex gas money so he could take me out 🥲🥲🥲🥲

2024-03-26 02:07:08

I suddenly have a lot more followers. Maybe I’m attracting my future husband 😝🤣🤣

2024-03-26 01:56:10

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I remember my ex trying to convince me to get a hotdog there cuz it was so cheap 😐🤦🏻‍♀️

2024-03-26 01:40:48

Nostr is the only way I’ll find my husband cuz I don’t go out 😂 WHERE ARE YOU 😭
#note104p…fa04

2024-03-26 01:39:16

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I’m looking for a husband so if you know anyone on here send em over 😂

2024-03-26 01:20:20

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What a cool tree! GN 🤗

2024-03-26 01:09:41

Do other people get that feeling when something is so cute you just want to squeeze it really hard?! 😆

2024-03-25 12:35:11

“The roof the roof the roof is on fire, we don’t need no water let the mother fucker burn, burn mother fucker burn” 🎶
GM #nostr

2024-03-25 02:39:53

Sometimes this speaks directly at me #spirituality #costar
https://m.primal.net/HoGH.jpg

2024-03-23 20:56:00

Men, please call out other men. They’re only going to listen to you.

2024-03-23 19:19:22

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Binging love on the spectrum and forcing myself to do adult things I don’t wanna do 😂 what about you?!

2024-03-23 01:37:40

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HOW DARE THEY 😠

2024-03-22 22:25:16

I can remember 50 client’s life stories, but when it comes to my personal life I can barely remember anything 😂

2024-03-22 19:13:55

Why do I get notifications of zaps but they aren’t in my primal wallet? It’s only some of them. #asknostr

2024-03-22 16:03:46

After listening to @npub1np3…4mnu video, I’m inspired to revisit my late 90s/early 00s alternative rock playlist. Best music ever made ❤️

2024-03-22 14:40:40

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🤣🤣

2024-03-22 13:39:22

Zaps are like sex. Sometimes it’s reciprocal, sometimes it’s one sided. It’s okay to give a little sometimes and it’s okay to give a lot other times 😆