🌛🦋Amelia Kayne (hiatus)🦋🌜

Wine-loving, coffee-addicted, writer, wife, & dog mom. Currently working on multiple projects because that's how I roll. (She/Her).
#amwriting #writerslife #romance
#bookworm #introvert #coffeeaddict
Also: ameliakayne@masthead.social

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2023-09-01 02:59:24

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@npub1cy3…ra4a So glad it was helpful & good luck with your writing projects. 😊

2023-08-31 02:16:01

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@npub1ste…szjx
You're welcome! Take care and good luck!! 😊

2023-08-12 05:31:14

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@npub1cy3…ra4a
Thank you. Best of luck to you.

2023-08-12 00:09:01

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@npub17ad…a3ve
Take care and best of luck!

2023-08-12 00:07:12

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@npub1kh7…xddd
But the therapy is fun... at least for me 😅😈

2023-08-11 20:53:55

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@npub1cj9…s25q
Thank you for being a part of it. 😊

2023-08-11 20:53:00

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@npub126x…zeed
Thank you!!! Best of luck to you too!! 😊

2023-08-11 20:51:56

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@npub15dq…ej73
Thank you for your kind words! I'm looking forward to this break. It's been a long time coming. 😊

2023-08-11 20:50:19

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@npub1k24…26zw
Running a game is a lot, and it can be taxing. I have so much piled on that something had to give. In all honesty, I've been long overdue for a break and should have taken one sooner.
Thank you so much for being uplifting and being a part of this community. You helped make it was is. All of you did. Best wishes and good luck! 💙

2023-08-11 20:44:01

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@npub1kh7…xddd
I would never do that to myself or them--and they know that. But I can force them to spill their thoughts into an online diary... 😅😈

2023-08-11 20:41:58

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@npub1w4h…sk60
Thank you!! 😊

2023-08-11 09:19:47

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@npub13vq…cct8
I'm so happy to hear that our little game helped you! I never imagined that our community would grow in the ways it had, and I'm so glad you were a part of it.
Thank you so much for the luck and well wishes!! I appreciate it more than you can know. 😊

2023-08-11 09:17:38

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@npub1tfp…0mnp
Thank you so much for your kind words and being a part of our community. It's been such a fun ride. 😊
I'm so glad to hear it--- and I look forward to reconnecting with you and all the rest of the Twitter refugees in the near future. 💙

2023-08-11 08:50:00

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@npub163a…t5jr
Thank you for being a part of our community! It was a fun ride.
I absolutely love your characters!! If and when you publish, please let me know because I would love to read your stories! 😊

2023-08-11 02:20:39

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@npub1kh7…xddd
Thank you for being a part of it. I loved learning all about your characters and the world you created. 🩵
I would, but the lunatics (my characters) have taken over the asylum (my head), so I need to succumb to their demands so I can sleep later... or they'll be waking me in the middle of the night. 😅

2023-08-11 01:17:33

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@npub1vmn…r9uz
I'm so happy to hear that! Thank you for your kind words and thank you for being a part of our community.
You'll definitely be seeing me around in the future. I'm not leaving, just taking a much-needed and much overdue break. 😊

2023-08-11 00:29:52

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@npub1nqm…hujh
I'm so happy the game helped. Thank you for participating and being a part of our community. 😊

2023-08-10 23:54:35

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@npub1zqh…lfk3
Thank you!! I love that saying. 😊

2023-08-10 23:47:56

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@npub1ek8…t2en
Thank you so very, very much!! Your kind words mean more than you can know. The stress just kept piling on and something had to give. I'm hoping some time away will help recharge my batteries and that I can finally get back to feeling like myself again instead of an anxiety-ridden, sleep-deprived ball of stress.
My bestie always the same thing, "You do you, and don't apologize for making yourself a priority." 😊
I'm looking forward to coming back—better and stronger. 🩵

2023-08-10 23:26:32

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@npub1x7x…w0km
I appreciate it! 😁

2023-08-10 23:23:11

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@npub1gmq…xaut
Thank you and that is so true. I'm hoping that some time away will help recharge my batteries, because I am drained.

2023-08-10 23:13:32

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@npub1x7x…w0km
Thank you! I'm going to need all the luck I can get this month. 😊

2023-08-10 23:12:03

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@npub1yy2…7vpm Thank you. 🩵

2023-08-10 22:57:14

So, as many of you know, #WritingWonders is coming to an end. Unfortunately, I no longer have the time or energy to host or participate in a daily hashtag game.
I just want to say that it has been an absolute pleasure getting to know you all and hearing all about your stories. Best wishes and happy writing! 🩵
#amwriting
#WritersLife
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2023-08-10 00:39:56

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@npub1kh7…xddd
Thank you!! I'm gonna do my best, but first I'm going to sleep for about 12 hours or so. Then I'll do some ass-kicking. 😁😅

2023-08-10 00:37:26

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
It's up to you how you want to utilize your CWs. If there's anything graphic, explicit and/or detailed then obviously use a CW. But like I said mentions are a bit trickier because everyone is different and it's just hard to predict whether they might be triggering. I appreciate you asking. Have fun with the prompts and happy writing! 😊

2023-08-09 16:59:05

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
This is hard to say, because just a mention alone might be triggering to some, while others might not have an issue at all. No two people are the same and it's impossible to predict whether a mention might be triggering on its own. I think in these cases it might be better to CW just to play it on the safe side.

2023-08-09 06:05:33

#WritingWonders Players,
If you think your post might be triggering, please put a CW in the subject box (see example below).
Things that need a CW:
🔹Sexual assault (SA), rape
🔹Abuse of any kind
🔹Grooming, pedophilia, incest
🔹Animal cruelty, sacrifice, death
🔹Self-harm, suicide
🔹Death or dying
🔹Infant death
🔹Eating disorders
🔹Substance abuse
🔹Explicit violence of any kind
🔹Graphic sex and/or nudity (NSFW)
🔹Hate speech of any kind
🔹Slurs of any kind
🔹Homophobia, transphobia, etc
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2023-08-09 04:09:31

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@npub1kh7…xddd
Thank you! 😊

2023-08-09 01:28:21

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
Thank you! 😊

2023-08-08 23:38:34

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@npub1x7x…w0km
Thank you! 😊

2023-08-08 22:50:56

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@npub170m…k6jy Thank you! 😊

2023-08-08 22:48:02

Hey #WritingWonders players,
Just a quick heads up that I’ll be on hiatus for the rest of this month. Between real world responsibilities and trying to hit my deadlines, I just don’t have much free time these days. I’ll try and pop in and interact if and when I can, but I’m not making any promises. Have fun with this month’s prompts and happy writing!!

2023-08-08 00:03:48

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@npub1kt9…d5v3
It honestly is. AI will never replace real people, but those AI bros sure are trying. It's only a matter of time before the lawsuits starts piling up.
I was a fan of Artbreeder and used it for character creation, but then found out how AI works and noped right out. I'll use stock pics (not AI generated) until I can commission a human artist to draw my OCs.
The thing is the AI is not original. It steals & scrapes from others. I don't know how any creative can be okay with that.

2023-08-07 23:40:26

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@npub1wln…kuvx
For me it varies. Some days are good and some days I don't know what the hell I was thinking during drafting. 😅
But I'm raging perfectionist whose imposter syndrome loves to creep in while I'm editing. I am my own worst enemy.

2023-08-07 23:36:03

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@npub1tfp…0mnp
2/2
You want to make sure background is large enough to fit the prompts. You'll have to play around with the text and spacing to ensure it's legible. I like using white text with a black outline for darker backgrounds and black or darker colored text on lighter backgrounds. Hope that helps. 🙂

2023-08-07 23:33:39

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@npub1tfp…0mnp
We use Google docs for our questions, and the girls use Canva for the cards, while I use BeFunky (I have a paid subscription). The backgrounds you can find on Unsplash, Pixabay, or Pexels. I know Canva and BeFunky also have background images, but with BeFunky you need a subscription. I'm not sure about Canva.
But anyway, we just copy and paste the questions from our doc onto the background image. 1/2

2023-08-07 22:32:07

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@npub18u8…q90e @npub1wu7…3d23
It *never* fails, lol. Never. 😂🙃

2023-08-07 22:19:15

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@npub1wu7…3d23
Oh, the joys of being trapped in editing hell 😅🙃

2023-08-07 22:08:17

How my day in editing hell has been going so far, minus the YouTube bit. I decided to procrastinate by falling into the black hole that is Pinterest instead. 🙃⬇
#amwriting #amediting #amrevising #editinghell #writing #WritersLife #writer #WritingCommunity
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2023-08-04 18:09:22

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@npub1cwx…wvr6
Absolutely!! I'm addicted to creating my characters on the Sims! I downloaded some poses recently and can't wait to snap some pics of my cast. 😊

2023-08-04 18:03:11

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@npub1cwx…wvr6
Yessss!!! My Sims are based on my book characters too. Honestly, the game is perfect for making characters, especially if you're using CC. I haven't posted their profiles on my blog, but that's a pretty good idea. 😊

2023-08-04 10:35:42

4. #WritingWonders
Share art, pics (face claims), and/or mood boards of your side characters.
I don't have art of my characters just yet, but I do have face claims of my side & background characters that I keep for personal use.
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2023-08-04 02:54:30

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@npub1gmq…xaut
Love Florence + the Machine. 😁

2023-08-01 18:42:37

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@npub15z7…sr3d
Same!!

2023-08-01 18:40:31

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@npub1cwx…wvr6
We've missed you too. 😊💙

2023-08-01 17:29:45

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@npub1cwx…wvr6
Welcome back! 😊

2023-08-01 17:28:59

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@npub15z7…sr3d
I love fake dating. 😊

2023-08-01 17:27:56

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@npub170m…k6jy
I'm sure they will. 😊

2023-08-01 17:27:42

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@npub1ste…szjx
You absolutely should! I love it when side characters turn into main characters and get their own stories. 😁

2023-08-01 17:27:12

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@npub175l…55we
YES!!!! Autumn is my favorite season. The colors + sweater weather + bonfires + mulled wine and cider. I can't believe autumn will be here next month. I'm so ready for it. 😁

2023-08-01 17:25:01

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@npub1cwx…wvr6
He absolutely is! There's a reason he's one of my favorites--and my readers as well. 😁

2023-08-01 15:56:39

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@npub175l…55we
That would be my ideal day. Throw in a bonfire and some s'mores and I'm a happy girl. 😊

2023-08-01 15:32:50

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@npub1ste…szjx
A kitchen witch? She sounds like someone I'd like to spend time with too. 😊

2023-08-01 15:26:13

1: #WritingWonders
Hey all! I'm Amelia & I write mostly paranormal & fantasy romance. I'm also one of the #WritingWonders hosts.
If I could hangout w/ one of my SCs for the day, I'd choose Ryan. He's pretty laidback and down-to-earth for an immortal who loves kicking demon ass. Not to mention, he's a great storyteller with a killer sense of humor.
We'd probably spend the day chilling on the patio, drinking craft beers, and just chatting about anything and everything.
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2023-07-29 15:43:53

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@npub1qtc…rwqy You're welcome 😊

2023-07-28 20:14:38

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@npub1kh7…xddd
Glad you like the questions!!! Can't wait to see your answers! 😁

2023-07-28 16:48:37

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@npub1yy2…7vpm
Right? This year is flying by so fast.
No problem! Feel free to mix and match your WIPs. That's what I usually do. 😁

2023-07-28 16:26:47

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Part Two of Alt text: Questions 23-31
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2023-07-28 16:26:04

Who's ready for August? New month = new daily questions. Here's the prompt card for next month's #WritingWonders which I will have pinned to my profile on August 1st.
As always, all are welcome to play. Answer whatever questions you like and feel free to skip the ones you don't. Just use the #WritingWonders hashtag to participate. Happy Writing!
~Character Prompt Cards & part 2 of alt text can be found in the comments below~
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2023-07-20 08:17:42

20: #WritingWonders
Ryan: Why do you ask? *kicks his feet up, a cool smirk playing upon his lips* Feel like playing a round of FAFO? Cause it’s been a while since I’ve played. And man, I’ve gotta tell you, I’ve been itching to blow off some steam. *winks*
Nick: Aw, honey, you do care.
Ryan: Dude. Why do you gotta poach my interview?
Nick:...
Ryan: This is payback, isn’t it?
Nick: Ding, ding. We have a winner.
Ryan: I just can't have nice things.
Nick: *rolls his eyes* FFS.
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2023-07-19 03:39:26

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@npub1cy3…ra4a
You can just answer for your MC's local area. That's what most of many of us do. 😊

2023-07-19 03:36:37

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
He's always asking for head pets and belly scratches. 😁 He'll interrupt my writing to let me know it's time for him to get all the attention. 😅

2023-07-19 03:34:14

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@npub15kl…k35n
Thank you!! 😊 Dogs are the best. 🐾

2023-07-18 09:00:25

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@npub1cj9…s25q
Thank you! 😊

2023-07-18 08:33:48

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@npub19m5…28dy
Thank you!! 😊 He's really sweet and helps ease my anxiety, quieting my imposter syndrome.

2023-07-18 08:16:45

18: #WritingWonders
Do you have a muse?
Not really, but I do have a little helper. 🐾🙂
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2023-07-18 07:26:56

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@npub1a84…aya3
Aww, I'm so happy you got a new cat. I love her name! 😊

2023-07-18 07:11:25

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@npub1a84…aya3
Aww, I'm sorry about your cats. 😥

2023-07-18 06:54:34

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@npub1tfp…0mnp
And that's how we should all be. We can all learn from one another. 🙂

2023-07-18 06:35:14

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@npub1yse…jaay @npub125d…yray @npub1cj9…s25q
It's okay to not like certain anatomical terms. I'm not a fan of some euphemisms and metaphors when it comes to high-heat romance. We all have different tastes and that is perfectly okay.
But we shouldn't be referring to those terms or spicy, open-door scenes as porn.
And I love that we can actually have these kinds of civilized conversations on here. 😊
I love high-spice romance (obviously, lol). 😁

2023-07-18 06:14:03

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@npub1tfp…0mnp
Thank you.

2023-07-17 15:44:25

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
I didn't catch that one. I'll have to see if I can find it. Are you comfortable with sharing the handle? If not, no biggie. 😊

2023-07-17 15:35:44

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@npub14nj…6ldh
Reading is my treat after I finish writing for the night. I love to grab a glass of wine or some tea, and curl up with a good book.

2023-07-17 15:19:31

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@npub175l…55we
We're happy you're still with us. 😊

2023-07-17 15:17:58

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@npub1ak8…efnf
I've never heard of it, but I am all for smashing the hell out of the patriarchy. 😊

2023-07-17 15:04:44

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@npub1nuw…pzfl
We did have a lot of positive responses, but some were negative as well. I don't think it was intentional, but I'm hoping we can all learn from one another.

2023-07-17 15:03:01

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@npub1rut…953e
I think most of it was unintentional, but there were a couple that seemed to be making a dig at the genre.

2023-07-17 10:52:35

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@npub163a…t5jr I love this. *happy sigh*😊❤️‍🔥

2023-07-17 09:57:35

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@npub1fgl…4jl4 I just can't believe what I saw. That way of thinking is not only hurtful, problematic, but extremely archaic. You would think that people would be more mindful and open, especially with all the book-banning going on. I'm extremely disappointed by what I saw.

2023-07-17 09:36:19

🚨 Attention #WritingWonders Players 🚨
This weekend we saw some hurtful comments made some of our players towards Romance and Erotica writers. Just to make it clear, that kind of rude and hurtful behavior is not and never will be welcome here.
ALL writers of ALL genres are welcome.
Please see the attached post below for more details.
Thank you.
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2023-07-17 07:08:56

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@npub1py0…64pt
Lose Yourself by Eminem was playing in my head after that first paragraph 😁

2023-07-17 01:40:39

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@npub1udm…974p
Seriously? You do realize that Romance is the number one selling genre. You do realize that many writers here open-door sex scenes and you're comparing us all to 50 Shades and calling us cringe-worthy? 🤨
BTW, this kind of judgment does not fly on this hashtag or in the #WritingWonders community. If you can't be respectful or mindful of others, then just skip the question.
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2023-07-17 01:26:58

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@npub10d5…vvxa
I'm not sure we read the same posts...
Granted most were respectful, but a few let their judgy flags high this past weekend.
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2023-07-17 00:06:36

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@npub1cj9…s25q
If it's the same person we're talking about (which I think we are), it's not their first trip down Judgy Lane. We addressed being respectful of others last month, but I guess that went over their head. Maybe getting blocked will deliver the message, but it's doubtful.😕 😒🙄

2023-07-16 23:42:28

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@npub1cj9…s25q
I caught that too and as the game host and Romance writer I'm not only disappointed, but extremely pissed off. It's 2023, you'd think people wouldn't have such archaic views in our community, but I guess not.

2023-07-16 15:36:00

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@npub1fvf…vlru
I absolutely agree 😊

2023-07-16 15:03:36

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@npub1yy2…7vpm @npub1vmn…r9uz
Sex is such an emotionally intimate and sensual act, where both are stripped bare (literally and metaphorically) and vulnerable. I think it's only natural that emotions would take center stage.
I love foreplay & sexual tension, but the after care scenes are what really get me. Give me all the cuddles and pillow talk.😊❤️‍🔥

2023-07-16 14:53:09

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@npub19m5…28dy
Absolutely. It's the best way to ensure that you get it right. 😊

2023-07-16 14:41:00

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@npub1vmn…r9uz
Yessss!!! I absolutely the firsts and don't get me started on the cuddling and hand-holding, and playing with each other's hair.... I'm just a pile of goo thinking about it 😂🫠
Don't tempt me, lol. I just might make one. 😂

2023-07-16 14:31:30

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@npub1vmn…r9uz
I'm a sucker for the tender moments. They make me melt every single time. 😊
I'm really thinking I might need to make a banner at this point. 😂 The number of people equating erotica and sex with porn is mind-boggling. It's 2023, FFS.😬😅

2023-07-16 14:28:02

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@npub1fgl…4jl4
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Not everyone is comfortable writing sex scenes. Not everyone likes reading and writing them. That's why there are different heat levels in romance. There is something for everyone. 😊

2023-07-16 14:17:33

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@npub1ajs…l2sx
Absolutely. 😊

2023-07-16 14:14:33

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@npub19m5…28dy
Of age and consensual is so important. I've seen lots of writers screw up BDSM. It takes a lot of research and care when including it in your stories. 😊

2023-07-16 14:10:34

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@npub1q32…xgsx
I love cuddling scenes too 😊

2023-07-16 14:05:36

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@npub1cj9…s25q
Exactly. I couldn't have said it better myself. 😊

2023-07-16 14:03:06

#WritingWonders Players
A couple of things:
Intimacy doesn't just mean sex alone. It's the tender moments. It's the intertwining of fingers, warm embraces, forehead kisses, sweet gestures, and much more.
Also:
🔹️Erotica ≠ porn
🔹️Romance with open-door sex scenes ≠ porn
🔹️Four-letter anatomical terms ≠ porn

2023-07-16 07:52:31

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@npub1cz0…wk5s
Who said vanilla?

2023-07-16 07:22:09

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@npub1vfj…r94p @npub125d…yray @npub1aq3…0nhy
I meant baseball bat. I've seen so many references to them in the past that now, I just roll my eyes.
I've never come across Batman spice—at least, not that I remember.

2023-07-16 07:02:35

16: #WritingWonders
How comfortable are you writing with writing kissing and/or intimacy?
Extremely. Kissing, intimacy, & steamy sex scenes are my absolute favorite to write.
I'm not the type who worries about what my mom, family, or friends think. And luckily, they've all been supportive, encouraging,& helpful—especially my husband.
But like many others have mentioned, I do worry about repetition and keeping things fresh.
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