Heather_860

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2024-11-08 08:48:13

You think two 14 year olds can consent to each other but not to people who are older, right?
How big an age gap negates consent?
What is the biological mechanism that creates this change?
Can you send me a link to the science that shows age-gaps erasing consent?

2024-10-06 11:38:39

We've created a world where no bigotry is tolerated. No racism, no kink-shaming, inclusive of everything...
EXCEPT AGE
today we are not only allowed to despise other age groups, we are actively encouraged to abhor, and hate on them as much as possible.
https://youtu.be/gi9QpQrf-MA

2024-09-07 11:42:29

Gun Safety is NOT about age.
Stop blaming young people for everything.
87% of mass shooters are OVER age 21.
Being an ageist prick is a nice quick way to deflect from the real issue, but it solves nothing and you're still a prick.
#RespectYoungAdults

2024-09-04 14:26:51

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I've been on Nostr for a year. I have posted 2,630 notes. In all that time I got maybe 30 likes.
I'm not saying Nostr is dead. but it doesn't seem like anyone here has any interest in my content. So there is no significant incentive for me to post another 2,630 notes.
If we're honest, it was probably a waste of time for me to join Nostr in the first place.

2024-08-11 07:00:39

“An Idaho law banning minors from receiving healthcare without parent approval has created a legal problem.
If a child is raped by their parent, medics now require that parent’s permission to administer the rape kit that would prove their own guilt.”
https://www.khq.com/news/a-new-idaho-law-is-keeping-child-sexual-assault-victims-from-receiving-care/article_fc308712-56b0-11ef-9c46-0b2c631626fe.html

2024-07-18 13:31:16

This 20-year-old report says that teens who have sex get depressed. Since then teens have been having less sex than ever, but their rates of depression and suicide have been sky-rocketing. The abstinence that it so enthusiastically endorsed failed miserably.
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2024-07-18 12:06:20

I'd reply to this tweet directly, but Elon deleted my account.
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2024-07-09 17:32:10

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LOL
Sure. Go live in Afghanistan. You and the Taliban will get along great.

2024-07-09 17:30:55

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It's literally the opposite of freedom. It's totalitarian dictatorship that controls everything, even your sex life. You promoting that makes you the most vile piece of shit communist dirtbag alive 😀

2024-07-09 17:28:21

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If you're a primitive mother fucker then maybe yes 😀
No normal humans live like that 😀

2024-07-09 17:25:24

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Nothing you've posted is true.
So either you're lying or you have been thoroughly misinformed.

2024-07-09 05:58:43

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I don't think there's anything in that video about the legal marriage age
which is a completely separate issue from the age of consent.

2024-07-09 05:57:41

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No. Again you are wildly misinformed.

2024-07-09 05:56:41

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with all due respect "father's permission" is vile crap.
statistically BY FAR the most like to abuse a young woman is her father. those guys should have zero control over anything young women do.

2024-07-09 05:54:16

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Women should marry when they want and you have exactly zero right to any opinion on what anyone else does with their life.

2024-07-09 05:52:58

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Somebody lied to you. None of that is true 😀 😀 😀

2024-07-08 19:24:19

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Define "boys" and define "sodomy" 😀 😀
It seems that someone has been lying to you about California laws 😀 😀
Or maybe you have a bizarre definition of "it's ok for...."

2024-07-07 09:30:57

Germany has a very good age of consent law.
California does not. In fact, all sex everyone under 18 has, is in California illegal. Obviously the law is rarely enforced.
In New York State and Illinois (among others) two consenting 16 year olds can both go to prison for the "rape" of the other. US age of consent laws are really fucked up.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RE3hL8okBss _

2024-07-05 09:37:57

Did that young man take advantage of a completely hammered, extremely sexy, very rich woman, simply because he could?
I don't know. I wasn't there.
but it's just as likely a scenario as the reverse.
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2024-07-04 14:42:27

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The entire concept of grooming is total bullshit.
I even made a video about it once.

2024-07-04 04:36:07

The entire concept of groominig is fear-mongering bullshit.
and it is damaging as hell is multiple ways.
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2024-06-26 18:09:50

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LOL

2024-06-26 04:31:10

So I try to watch a video about a woman who broke an age of consent law. It's 6 minutes long. I hear lawyers, journalists, cops, everybody's got an opinion. but the ONE AND ONLY opinion that matters is what the young man says about what happened.
I have zero patience with know-it-all pricks opining on it.
Unless the "news" is willing to present the clear complete verbatim unvarnished statement of the "vicitm" they should just STFU.
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2024-06-23 11:56:50

The vast majority of ageist bigotry targets teenagers, not the elderly.

2024-06-23 03:58:58

the anti-cannibal movement is picking up steam
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2024-06-21 18:31:34

THE PEER-REVIEWED STUDY WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR FOR 16 YEARS!
'Independence Therapy' Could Revolutionize Treatment for Child Anxiety
Pilot study encouraged parents to let their kids go Free-Range.
By Lenore https://reason.com/2024/06/21/independence-therapy-could-revolutionize-treatment-for-child-anxiety/

2024-06-20 04:10:31

A federal judge rejects the lame excuses of Texas cops who kidnapped a 14-year-old woman based on spurious child abandonment concerns.
https://reason.com/2024/06/19/a-federal-judge-rejects-the-lame-excuses-of-texas-cops-who-kidnapped-a-supposedly-abandoned-teenager/

2024-06-20 04:03:19

This quote is from Tolman (2002). That was before the invention of social media.
He really thinks that young women aged 13-19 know little about what it means to be sexual??? Really??? and if they know little, then why??? Who has failed to teach them???
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2024-06-19 18:11:00

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2024-06-19 08:03:51

The word 'sexualize' was unknown 30 years ago.
Did people suddenly start "sexualizing" each other in the 90s?
WTF?
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2024-06-19 05:04:31

There will never be "a serious conversation about power dynamics in dating"
because "power dynamics" is total bullshit.
having power =/= abusing power
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2024-06-19 03:46:46

Creepy is a feeling.
I have no trouble at all respecting your feelings. But I also firmly believe that we as a society should hold this discussion on a *rational level* and use objective criteria.
You may be satisfied shouting your feelings on the internet. I am not.
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2024-06-18 14:20:16

Sexual attraction is a function of biology not of bureaucracy.
The Department of Motor Vehicles doesn't give you a license to be sexy.
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2024-06-18 12:30:03

If anyone actually believed this we'd never let anyone under 25 get a tattoo, join the army, or have children.
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2024-06-17 17:28:15

My latest vid just dropped
https://youtu.be/DHGE-Gztfag

2024-06-17 14:18:10

The Hippies were right.
Countless lives could have been saved. Trillions of dollars not wasted on senseless brutal incarceration. If we had listened to them 50 years ago.
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2024-06-17 06:05:33

In Illinois two consenting 16 year olds who have sex are each committing the rape of the other. That's the law.
It's fun to say "rape is rape" but there are lots of cases when it really isn't,
and we need to face that fact so we can fix really fucked up laws.
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2024-06-16 09:28:42

"sexualization" is 100% bullshit
The entire concept is crap. Like totally absurd.
Mandrills have colorful noses. We have beards and boobs. Exactly the same function. We are sexual. We have sexual bodies with sexual body parts.
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2024-06-16 08:12:54

Everyone here is operating under the assumption that
sexual = bad
Unquestioned.
This is the weird silent #PuritanRevival
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2024-06-16 06:58:13

Female Teenagers Are Women
Stop Infantilizing Young Women Aged 14-20
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2024-06-15 14:38:27

This is how we know "prey on" is bullshit
What happens when narratives collide?
https://youtu.be/3Rp-KIMzPMI
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2024-06-15 10:55:18

that's not childhood
no one is a child at 14
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2024-06-15 08:02:05

Segregation has stiffened a lot.
Teens and 20 somethings used to mix in social situations all the time. They knew each other. They dated each other. (I know, I was there, in the 80s)
None of that is true anymore.
Young adults have been artificially separated into two groups alien to each other.
30 year olds talk about 20 year olds as if they are a different species, and they are literally disgusted by the idea of kissing someone that young.
Hostile tribes have been created.
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2024-06-15 06:46:58

If your society has trained 16 year olds to be vulnerable to abuse,
then your society has to radically change the way it raises its sons and daughters.
16 year olds are not vulnerable by nature. Bad upbringing causes that.
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2024-06-14 17:32:21

Joseph Bronski's excellent 2021 book "An Empirical Introduction to Youth" points out that 50 years ago Tanner showed most young people finishing puberty at 14 or 15 years of age
Tanner was METICULOUS as hell
Tanner links:
https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.44.235.291
&
https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.45.239.13
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2024-06-14 14:19:49

This is the new ideology.
All sex is rape and all romance is grooming.
Abuse is everywhere and everything.
Always be afraid, and remember power causes abuse, if you're younger you're less powerful and will get abused.
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2024-06-14 12:01:25

The drinking age in the US is insane and obscene.
Insanity and obscenity should never be the standard by which other things are judged.
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2024-06-14 10:37:19

No one wants to fuck fish. Fish are not sexy.
But if fish were not sexual they could not reproduce and would go extinct.
RadFems conflate feeling sexy with being sexual, which means they produce all sorts of completely ridiculous rhetoric :-D
#Sexualize #Sexualization
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2024-06-14 10:09:15

When men see these women do they instantly sort out which are over 18 and which under 18 before they allow themselves to get an erection?
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2024-06-12 12:44:13

My basic problem is that I hate making videos.
I would much rather write a 500-word essay than put those same ideas into video format.
The writing takes 20 minutes and making the vid takes 20 hours, which feels like a huge waste to me... except I know that nobody consumes text anymore :-(

2024-06-10 12:47:41

These statistics are old,
but they show that the perpetrators of sexual assaults of teens are mostly other teens.
We have reduced our thinking to THE ONLY PERMITTED narrative, which says the perp must be a \"grown ass adult\"
Let's be honest about these things.
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2024-06-10 10:39:47

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The trend is still in the wrong direction.
and YouTube is full of pseudo-science and misinformation... it's disheartening.

2024-06-10 09:40:19

Ephebophilia doesn't exist. The Wikipedia entry for it cites a work that contains no reference to ephebophilia at all. It's a garbage concept completely unsupported by evidence.
https://tube.xy-space.de/w/nTTxDpYgpcqgtWWBgu9EUN
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2024-06-10 09:31:24

Heather, why?
My issues are with a change in American culture. The problem has spilled over a bit into other countries but on the whole Europe is a great example of how to not fuck things up the way the US did.
My core idea and the reason I do all this is contained in this 4-minute video =>
https://peertube.su/w/pZKq64udYboprfYSdL8vRr
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2024-06-10 09:10:57

Bizarre Puritan ideology has broken the brains of otherwise normal podcasters.
https://peertube.su/w/pMPw7o97CE3PSdatMJEVt2

2024-06-10 08:32:07

It is widely believed that adulthood begins at age 25 because it is widely believed that we are neurologically "fully developed" at 25.
So everyone "knows" that under 25s are children, but NOBODY ANYWHERE has EVER stopped them from being tried and imprisoned as adults?
With their kiddy brains. How is that not inhumane as fuck?
but nobody cares.
(hint: somebody is fucking lying to themselves about brain development)

2024-06-10 08:20:37

When somebody says "Let kids be kids" ask yourself:
Is this really a case of a child being forced to grow up too fast?
Or is this a case of a young adult being forced to live as a child?

2024-06-10 07:45:35

Instantly assume that the young woman has no brain power and must have been manipulated by a man.
#Ageist #Sexist #Vile
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2024-06-10 06:33:41

Puritan Hysteria is how we got teens on the sex offender registry for the heinous crime of photographing their own bodies.
The only moral choice is to start respecting young adults aged 14-18 again.
Prohibition solves nothing.
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2024-06-09 08:29:41

In the 1960s sexologist Kurt Freund did a phallometric study of sexual attraction by age group.
He found that the normal men in his sample were almost as attracted to the 12-16 year old females as to the 17+ females.
full text: https://sci-hub.se/10.1016/0005-7967(70)90029-x
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2024-06-09 06:16:16

Quote: "Labeling a teenager in a consensual sexual relationship a 'sex offender' constitutes cruel and unusual punishment."
Full text: https://via.library.depaul.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer=https://en.wikipedia.org/&httpsredir=1&article=1159&context=law-review
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2024-06-08 16:05:10

Do we really believe that teens can handle years behind bars in brutal prisons,
but they'll be scarred for life if they make love with a MILF?
#KaliefBrowder
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2024-06-08 14:36:04

It seems bizarre to us that Jewish tradition says 12 year old females are women and 13 year old males are men,
but that is a much more normal, natural, and healthy approach than ours.
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2024-06-08 12:32:32

2024-06-08 10:32:29

\"Bridget!!! You don't believe that rape is awesome.\"
\"Sure I do. Think about it. Teens are children. Children can't consent. Sex without consent is rape, and I gotta tell ya, I enjoy it every time. Dirk is the best.\"
--Redefining rape was a terrible idea.--
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2024-06-08 08:54:16

I've been posting on Nostr for 9 months.
2220 notes so far.
In all that time no one has disproven even one of my posts.
Most of the hater-clown-morons don't even try to refute anything I've posted.
Hmmmmm :-)

2024-06-08 06:57:46

I'm in favor of phone-free schools, but trying to ban smart phones for under 14s is dumb. Our young people need more freedom not less.
and practically speaking trying to enforce a social media prohibition on under 16s would be a useless embarrassing fiasco.
Further the message it sends is insulting to young people. They'll all hear "You're too stupid to handle looking at Facebook" which is exactly the same degrading treatment that caused their giant mental health crisis in the first place.

2024-06-08 05:31:04

One of those "Hmmmmm. Hadn't considered that" moments.
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2024-06-07 19:17:12

Nature gave teens all the equipment they need to attract a mate, and the desire to do so,
but left their brains too stupid to make decisions about sex until they're 25???
#RespectYoungAdults #StopNeoPuritanism
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2024-06-07 17:47:03

WTF is wrong with people?!?!
"OMG!!! A person under 30 who is actually human!!! Can you believe it?!?! She does, like, normal human stuff!!! At her age!!!"
So disgusting, demeaning, insulting and fucking infuriating.
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2024-06-07 15:39:58

We MUST stop infantilizing our young people.
It's vile AF.
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2024-06-07 12:44:31

Today's teenagers are infantilized to a degree never before seen in human history.
It's insane and harmful AF.
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2024-06-07 12:43:13

Childhood ends when puberty begins.
During puberty we are pubescent.
After puberty we are adults.
This is basic biology. It is not difficult.
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2024-06-07 11:02:48

LOL
When I was 16 half my friends were dating 20 year olds
and when I was 20 half my friends were dating 16 year olds
Young adults is all one age group :-D
There is not a shred of evidence of anything harmful here :-D
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2024-06-07 07:43:17

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My Bitcoin???
I own no crypto of any kind.

2024-06-07 07:36:04

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If someone is trying to depopulate the world they're doing a fucking lousy job of it 😀

2024-06-07 05:49:04

Attitudes towards young adults were much healthier in the 70s
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2024-06-07 04:38:36

I asked for evidence of harm, and this guy goes "Ew Ick Yuck Creepy" like a 3 year old who doesn't want to eat his broccoli.
Why does this discussion always have to be on the level of childish emotion?
Can't we have any rational contributions?
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2024-06-07 04:19:11

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Exactly. That's why world population has fallen 50% over the last 40 years...
...oh, wait.

2024-06-06 19:34:08

There's just so much stupid here, I can't even...
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2024-06-06 14:14:02

when somebody says teenagers are children
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2024-06-06 10:25:41

Pedos are sexually attracted to pre-pubescents, maximum age 13.
That's the definition of pedophilia.
Pedos have no interest in anyone 14 or over.
#BasicFacts
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2024-06-06 06:07:44

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The truth bothers you?

2024-06-06 06:07:19

The infantilization of teens is the extension of helicopter parenting to older and older ages. It is already completely ridiculous, but trend might still be continuing. Stranger Danger, Sex Predator Panic, and MeToo all merged to create this bizarre intense paranoia over young people having normal natural harmless sex.

2024-06-06 05:49:04

This Man Is 16 Years Old
He can:
drive a car
quit school
work full time
get married
have children
join the British Army
be tried as an adult
be put in adult prison
buy a gun
but:
It's illegal for him to make love to smby over 18
Bc that's the really dangerous thing
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2024-06-06 03:52:44

The brain is by far the least understood part of the human body.
Drawing conclusions about what should be illegal for whom based on junk fMRI studies is atrociously stupid.
#RespectYoungAdults
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2024-06-05 18:59:09

The same shit science they used to "prove" that you're still at child until your 25th birthday can also be used to show that you reach adulthood at 30, or sometime in your 40s :-D
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2024-06-05 18:02:23

American teenagers can literally go to prison for the heinous crime of taking a photo of their own body.
Our laws regarding sex and young adults are fucked up beyond belief.
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2024-06-05 10:47:52

We gleefully wallow
in neo-Puritan sex-phobia,
all under the guise
of criticizing “sexualization”
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2024-05-29 10:01:02

Will we, in today's world, work with our natural selves or against our natural selves?
How do we combine our natural tendencies with the current technology that dominates our lives?
Is it inevitable that post-industrial societies prolong childhood making everybody fucking miserable as hell for years on end?
or is there a way to avoid that, or at least mitigate the damage it causes?

2024-05-28 13:50:53

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Nobody here contradicted any of that.
and nobody is upset with parents.
You seem totally deranged.

2024-05-28 09:47:43

Every Nazi on the planet is a vile racist fascist dirtbag by choice.
Not one pedo on earth chose to be a pedo. None of them want to suffer from that affliction.
Nazis recruit new fascist scum successfully every day.
Pedos can't make others be pedos like them. It's impossible. You're either born a pedo or not. There's no choice. No recruitment.

2024-05-26 11:45:51

"Bridget!!! You don't believe that rape is awesome."
"Sure I do. Think about it. Teens are children. Children can't consent. Sex without consent is rape, and I gotta tell ya, I enjoy it every time. Dirk is the best."
--Redefining rape was a terrible idea.--
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2024-05-26 06:08:56

14 year olds decide to have sex all the time whether we like it or not.
It is OUR RESPONSIBILITY to honestly teach them everything they need to know to avoid unplanned pregnancy AND provide the necessary contraceptives.
This is a solvable problem. Let's solve it today.

2024-05-25 12:13:41

Infantilizing 17 year old women
(who can join the US Army btw)
by calling them children or girls
is demeaning AF.

2024-05-24 12:08:00

Has anybody ever seen a study of the terrible trauma suffered by people who grew up in nudist colonies and saw naked bodies every day throughout their childhood?
The Puritans would amplify the hell out of any such evidence, *if it existed*
#puritan #nudist #nudism #naked

2024-05-23 07:03:39

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I don't give a fuck about your stupid delusions 😀

2024-05-19 10:40:56

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anyone with a basic understanding of economics clearly sees you making a fool of yourself here.
for you own sake. stop it 😀

2024-05-19 10:39:50

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You don't know how math works 😀

2024-05-19 08:11:53

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so your claim of 28% loss of value in 3 years was a stupid fucking lie.
cool.