Control in this picture is not great. He is living in what was my grandpa's home and the place is in trust and the trustee, my aunt, would very much like to sell the place. Especially since the place is costing her a bit, and he has little money (disabled on social security).
That cable bill at the moment, he cannot afford, and I wasn't going to pay for it, so she did. I am trying to keep some peace, so the moron will not either end up homeless or in an old folks home, maybe. The only reason she's been paying for that cable is to keep her peace, because that moron will call you endless if he is bored -no boundaries. The boundary issue and his self-awareness is part of his mental illness, which is only amplified by the fact that he is also an asshole.
The Roko I am paying for along with all the streaming services, because it will not cost me extra. I'm just going to let him use my accounts, and I can because it is all using T-Mobile Internet (they cannot tell the difference from location). He will only need to pay 25 buck a month for the internet (which he has).