AnnSofiNovelist on Nostr: I keep seeing statements like, "if at first you don't succeed, do it the way your ...

I keep seeing statements like, "if at first you don't succeed, do it the way your wife told you to."

These types of comments are so undercutting, rude, and disrespectful!

I married a highly capable man. He doesn't always do things like I would, but he's not me, and he still gets it done! His way is either just as good or even better than my way. Sometimes he asks for my assistance, as I ask for his, because it's a partnership.

I feel grieved when I see statements like this, because they claim that "wife knows best" just like, feminism claim that women know best.

Men are not women, and have different values! That's good! It's way better to give men space to figure it out, because maybe they come up with a new ans way better way of doing something, rather than doing something the "normal" way.
If he tries and decides he wants some input from his wife, he can ask for it at that point, inviting her into the process, instead of having had her opinion forced upon him before he even started.

Men are capable, most of the world is built by men. Sure, women are also capable, but they do NOT always know best! They are NOT superior or men, they are different, and equal, and naturally supposed to be a helper, not a dictator!

Hehe 😅, rant over.

Men are awesome! 💪 and men deserve respect!