dilutionproof on Nostr: What probably helps is adding some good relays. Paid relays are good for that, but ...

What probably helps is adding some good relays. Paid relays are good for that, but you can also check https://nostr.watch/relays/statistics (site will take a while to load as it is locally measuring and calculating stuff on the fly) and add a few with a nice combination of latency, uptime and some geographic distribution