interesting perspective about the maternal urge and women not wanting children as much by default, but that they want to give them to a good man. i can't really argue with that since i'm not a woman lol—but is that how you felt?? though, that kind of makes sense because it's reckless and immature to just want a child and accept any sperm donor...
my thoughts in general are that the standard for men has changed the in modern era. protecting and providing itself isn't enough in the first world because it's nearly a default. women looking for marriage are typically looking for more than financial stability to feel loved. this means men have to bring better emotional support, shared responsibilities, and partnership qualities to the relationship.
the expectations for new mothers are grueling—especially if they have to work. having to manage multiple roles makes motherhood much less appealing. if the father isn't involved in supporting her during this time it leads to feelings of isolation and resentment. so as men, if we want children, we should be doing everything we can to ensure women that we can reduce that burden.
but i did enjoy the read because i never really thought about things from this perspective. it makes me think. :3
thanks for writing and sharing. ^^
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