Paperwork (nprofile…p32f) he is now saying the sort of ephebiphobic/adultist language. I get the impression he thinks he's helpless and incapable of doing anything and so his impulsibe behavior communicating something directly to people, that resulted in impulsive actions on their part, he acts like he didnt have the agency to be a part of tgat.
When in reality, he was a willing part of it. People can be abusive and manipulative. They can guilt trip you and make you dependent. Especially if youre unstable and sad. But you can still leave. Especially an online relationship. You can rethink things. You can establish boundaries. You can make it clear what you're seeking. You choose how to talk and interact with people. And you can leave or block anyone who ignores your boundaries.
But it feels like he just expected that all to happen on its own. Maybe i'm wrong. But a lot of unstable and lonely people without much relationship experience, literally do not understand these things. And having shitty toxic relationships with horrible communication as your example, and not thinking it through well afterwords, leads to conclusions like this. Now what? Will he not trust anyone who loves him and wants to be his?
Instead he could reevaluate how he goes about it.
I could be wrong. Maybe others are wholly to blame. But from what I've seen and knowing people like him and the attention seeking behavior and loneliness and obvious instability, I believe i've observed correctly.
Morilka /
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2025-03-23 19:09:11
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