My difficulty with allistic people answering questions that weren’t asked and getting mad when I answer the questions they did ask has taken a step closer to being solved
According to a video I watched, often allistic people don’t know what question will get them the answer they need eg “are you using this? Why is it here? Can I move it? Etc”
So they ask a more general question eg “what’s this?” And rely on you to figure out which question is most relevant to them.
Now to test this hypothesis
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2024-01-24 14:12:48
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