Losing a great companion, be it human or animal, can invoke so much sadness.
I think you are dealing with it well though and people do things others consider weird when trying to deal with those feelings, while nothing really can make it go away except the passage of time.
Our dog died about 2 years after i left my parents' house. After that i have been visiting them every day for at least a month. While before i came by mostly every week.
About 2 years later when i was watching this pretty mediocre called "Marley and me" which also fearured a blonde lab i still had to cry very bad at the end.
Our dog was also in pretty bad health near the end. Could hardly walk and fell over constantly. Started bed wetting and pooping. Always giving my parents that super guilty "i'm so sorry" face when they woke up and found wet spots or some poop on her bench. So sad.
I hope you'll start feeling better soon.
Jeroen Ubbink
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2025-04-23 05:14:35
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