it truly is.
this is the line that did it for me:
"They want him to lead, by making all the important decisions, so long as she agrees with those decisions."
i could write an essay on this and still not figure out exactly what i’m trying to express, but this is why i prefer female leadership—it *kinda* cuts through some of that noise.
i guess i could sum it up in one question:
"what do you want to eat for dinner?"
She doesn't truly want to know what *i* want for dinner (most of the time), what She's typically looking for is one of two things:
1. help Her figure out what She wants to eat (present options)
2. free Her from the burden of making every detailed decision
either way, it shows Her that i'm engaged and not being passive in the relationship.
purrs_for_Her
npub166…j0thf
2025-03-21 13:25:54
in reply to nevent1q…08lh
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