in daily life you should be ok, just like the other trans people living here - with the added privilege of being a white woman anyways. People won't clock you or will be too polite to say otherwise (they'll just assume it's a foreigner thing). There are no neutral toilets, but going back to my first point, if you are presenting as a woman that day, then a woman you should be.
The issue is your legal docs are still unchanged - for reduced friction I would recommend that you be as masc/neutral on travel days including at check-in. Btw everyone must carry their original ID with them at all times, no photocopies - a driving license etc doesn't count if you're a foreigner, you must carry your passport everywhere. Rarely is there trouble tho esp if you stick to your friend and in more touristy areas.
It's not a party/nightclub city tho, so whirlwind romances won't be something I'd recommend you to indulge - this is a high-context activity.
Adrianna Tan (npub1xdy…etvd)
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