Jeff Swann on Nostr: It's really not gay or effeminate at all. It feels a bit like some sort of ...
It's really not gay or effeminate at all. It feels a bit like some sort of coversational jujutsu where you kind of use your opponent's energy against them by identifying & repeating back the real driving or underlying issue. I mean, nothing is magic, but I think it lines up pretty well with the advice in Never Split The Difference too & that book has also helped me quite a bit.
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