How to notice a Good Man 🧔
With Good Man, I’m not referring to a “Nice Guy” (see previous post for definition). I’m talking about a man who is and wants good, but who also knows and loves boundaries. A Good Man is confident, and kind. He knows how to say No. He treats you with respect, and expects you to treat him with respect, and if you don’t, he’ll simply move on, unlike the Nice Guy who sticks around because he needs validation from you.
A Good Man wants to get married, and doesn’t play games. He wants to be the man of one woman, a good woman, whom he can raise good kids with. Even if he doesn’t want kids, if they happen to come along, he’ll take on the job as a dad with joy.
A Good Man knows how to lead, and how to encourage others to lead. He gives space for others to try new things, and encourages them even if they fail.
A Good Man can spot the difference between someone who needs a second chance to succeed, and one who has decided to fail no matter how many chances they get.
A Good Man is authentic and speaks the truth even when it's uncomfortable.
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