npub1kjauf5ae53pstgv9u7mkfw2lzluyvtqhev6tj5fx85kfthck7r8qgke5gq (npub1kja…e5gq) So it does still sound like I can make the choice to not want to be around them, whatever things they choose to do to be around me.
I just don't vibe well with the technical arguments of "this company can do X and federation means Y" that present the social side of communities as unable to act.