Laeserin on Nostr: I think it should be relative to his station, as anything else goes against the ...

I think it should be relative to his station, as anything else goes against the principle that she is a member of his family and starts her off as the lesser partner or "poor relation".

A wealthy man who doesn't want to "lift a poor woman up" should marry a wealthy woman. That is why we assortatively mate, after all.