npub17a93lvl79m9crvwkkcglmgwqghdxzmkrllvyma7jdhl32k0th3fq4lmv9a (npub17a9…mv9a) This is super hard. Your MIL wants to live her life and be in control. Your wife wants to have her nearby to keep her safe. MIL is a competent adult, so fighting with her about it just makes things worse.
At 81, she could be independent for another decade or more. It’s not that old for many people.
Hard decisions will come when they come. Gently suggest lots of phone calls and food delivery if there’s a chance she’s not eating right.
Labrador Girl /
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2023-11-19 15:02:55
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