Laeserin on Nostr: I specifically use: my OnlyFrens relay, my OtherStuff relay, and a paid relay ...as ...

I specifically use:
my OnlyFrens relay,
my OtherStuff relay,
and a paid relay
...as my inbox and outbox for my npubs.

To limit access.

#NostrElite

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note15cp…e7hk

Make sure people can write into your "inbox" relays, people. For both, private and public inboxes.

If you add relays that require payment from other people to send messages to you, you are going to miss a lot of DMs, zaps and likes.