nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqsq96vhyh2ahp0vxnmrw3gg37mrfyktwwys9k72e46sn2lupzqzssm79z35 (nprofile…9z35) I think the majority is really this idea that the a-spectrum experience begins and ends with "I don't care about sex", which would be as noteworthy as "I don't like tomatoes". Queer and non-queer people then both think that ace people just want attention for such a nothingburger.
They both don't understand that the a-spec experience also includes "being pressured into relationships", "being forced into sex so you 'learn to like it'" and tons of "am I fundamentally broken" trauma.
Lianna (on Mastodon) /
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2025-04-08 20:44:02
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