once_aphysicist on Nostr: I feel those who cancel like this make too many commitments, and realise later that ...

I feel those who cancel like this make too many commitments, and realise later that they can't make it. Then they cancel the ones that are lower priority for them.

I respond to this kind of behaviour with tit for tat, my tit being, I keep a mental note of the ones who cancel more, and next time when they make plans, I have alternative options already in mind, which could be something as simple as, cook at home, go for a bike ride, etc.