Semilexic on Nostr: I read both your arguments and you both have correct elements. He is right that the ...

I read both your arguments and you both have correct elements.

He is right that the natural state of women used to be managed by older women in their family. The aunts and grannies did the matchmaking. Sometimes the paterfamilias. But it was a group-choice.

YOU are correct that that entire system has been abolished and is unlikely to return unless Clown World turns into Mad Max world. And if we are to survive until any change, we have to adapt to present circumstances.

I think thats the disconnect, past vs present.