yes, this kind of setup is possible on https://relay.tools aka nostr1.com
fiatjaf also has a nice relay for experimentation that automatically adjusts the acl list to only show your notes to people you follow
mainstream clients though most will leak your note when someone else reacts or replies. so its best to discourage your friends entering the relay into their relay list unless they know what they're doing (use jumble etc)
cloud fodder and 121 others
npub10n…ztl5h
2025-05-27 17:21:45
in reply to nevent1q…rq7p
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wss://relay.nostr.bandPublished at
2025-05-27 17:21:45Event JSON
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