₿äretta 🐻‍❄️🇨🇿 on Nostr: How chilled in your relationship the guy is, that when you offer him a BJ, he thinks ...

How chilled in your relationship the guy is, that when you offer him a BJ, he thinks about it and says: "Nah. Maybe later....Rather massage my feet now" and starts taking socks off.
I'm not sure if I'm amused by the audacity or actually hurt🤨
Are we this old? Is it normal to reach this stage in healthy relationship?
WhAt iS HaPPeNiNg
#marriage