I used to do this! I would be listening to what a person had to say and already forming a reply in my head! When they would question whether I was listening I would get offended!
It took a long time for me to understand that you listen by hearing the words, feeling the atmosphere, seeing their body language, and not thinking about a reply until they had said all they needed to say!
Annie Dustan / anniedustan
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2024-04-11 10:14:36
in reply to nevent1q…w907
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2024-04-11 10:14:36Event JSON
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