The lost soul of adulthood: a journey back to the true self
In the hectic pace of modern life, we often lose sight of what's important. In his writings, renowned philosopher Manly P. Hall offers us a fascinating insight into the challenges of growing up and the spiritual journey that comes with it.
The awkward first steps into adulthood
Imagine walking into a room full of complicated machines you've never seen before. This is exactly what adulthood feels like for many of us. We acquire new skills and responsibilities, but as Hall puts it, these are "like new machinery or something that is not being used well" - they cause us problems because we haven't yet learnt how to use them effectively.
The restless consciousness
In this new world of adulthood, our consciousness often feels out of place. Hall describes it as "an almost lost soul" trying to find its way in this new reality. Do you recognise this feeling? It's as if a part of us knows we're meant for more, but we can't quite define what that "more" might be.
The loss of childhood dreams
Do you remember the boundless dreams of your childhood? Hall reminds us how these often get lost in the problems of adulthood. We become so consumed by the day-to-day challenges - career, finances, relationships - that we forget our "divine part," that aspect of our being that transcends the material.
The shadow of material life
With maturity often comes financial worries that can weigh on our minds. Hall warns that if we are not careful, these problems can overshadow our entire being. We begin to perceive these challenges as the only reality and forget that we were born for more than just problems.
Life: More than a struggle in the dark
Hall describes what many call "life" as a "battle of shadows in the dark". This powerful metaphor invites us to pause and ask: Is this all life has to offer? Or is there a deeper, richer reality that we are overlooking?
The path back to our true self
Hall's words are not only a description of our reality, but also an invitation to change. Here are some steps we can take to reconnect with our deeper selves:
1. Cultivate moments of silence: Take time each day for meditation or quiet reflection.
2. Rediscover the childlike perspective: Recall your childhood dreams and consider how you can integrate them into your adult life.
3. Putting material concerns in perspective: While financial responsibility is important, remind yourself that you are more than your material circumstances.
4. Develop a spiritual practice: Whether through religion, philosophy or nature connection, find ways to connect to something bigger than yourself.
5. Live Mindfully: Stay present in the moment and recognise the beauty and meaning in the little things in life.
Let's walk this path of self-discovery together and explore the true potential of our existence. Because as Hall reminds us, we are born for far more than just the shadows of everyday life.