Valence on Nostr: One would hope that an adult that knows they want children, would have that ...
One would hope that an adult that knows they want children, would have that conversation with their potential mate well before falling in love.
Perhaps categorize this as healthy boundaries while dating? Defining expectations and what each adult wants out of a relationship PRIOR to allowing themselves to bond over infatuation or lust alone.
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