Chris Trottier on Nostr: Great post by npub1hr0q3…p4k2l discussing a common issue on the Fediverse: ...

Great post by npub1hr0q3yq9s8ejx7rvc4mw3r7mmkzr7zp6tryngug0h4sj3tfm5dlqkp4k2l (npub1hr0…4k2l) discussing a common issue on the Fediverse: unsolicited advice. It's important for us to reflect and consider if our advice is truly wanted before jumping into comment sections. Instead of giving unsolicited advice, let's resist the urge and refrain from doing so.

RE: https://mastodon.social/users/vicgrinberg/statuses/111255705108928604

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People post because they want to vent, to share their frustration, to make others laugh or shake heads. If ppl post to get advice, they usually ask.

So: You want to give advice?

Has the person explicitly asked for it? No? Then don't.

But you really, really want to give advice! Still: no!

But your advice is really relevant! Still: no.

But you also know the person well (you follow them & they you & you interacted): ask if they want advice. If they don't explicitly say yes - it's still a no.