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Bartenders take a big hit this time of year, also.
So many regulars experience depression because they have family death anniversaries or other trauma they associate with the holidays. Their drinking and emotions escalate, putting bartenders in the tough spot of wanting to show sympathy/empathy to some of their most valued customers but also having to reign them in to prevent their self-destruction.
Some customers appreciate the extra care, some fly off into a rage.
Please show some extra kindness if you have a holiday drink at your local watering hole. Your bartender/server may be experiencing stress because a patron they care for shows signs of self-destruct mode.
And leave an extra tip!
#Holidays #Cocktails #Bartenders #Christmas #Kindness #MerryChristmas #DrinkResponsibly #HolidayCheer #Depression
Shannon Skinner (she/her) /
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2023-12-22 20:05:49
in reply to nevent1q…n8ph
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