Zumbador on Nostr: In case this is use to anyone: Please don't assume *anything* about a nonbinary ...
In case this is use to anyone:
Please don't assume *anything* about a nonbinary person’s gender identity based on their pronouns.
For example, that a nonbinary person who accepts she/her pronouns is femme leaning. Or that a nonbinary person who accepts he/him pronouns is masculine in some way.
Changing your pronouns is difficult and exposes you to ridicule and judgment. Many nonbinary people don't have the energy for all of that.
The same goes for a person *looking* masculine or feminine. Changing that can be dangerous, or expose us to painful attention and ridicule.
A nonbinary person might very well consider themselves to be feminine or masculine, but please don't assume that based on the way they look or their pronouns. *Gender presentation* isn't always aligned with *Gender identity*
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2023-04-07 04:52:25Event JSON
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