ChasingWaterfalls on Nostr: Nope, don’t ever message first. We are still in caveman days where men must be the ...
Nope, don’t ever message first. We are still in caveman days where men must be the ones who chase. People want to think that women can be the ones to initiate and ask a guy out, but nope, male brains don’t like this. Men don’t have any real interest in women who initiate. Plus you run the risk of the lazy ones going out with you because you are a sure thing. FDS was a bit insane but some of their info was spot on.
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2023-08-14 16:19:01Event JSON
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