Friendly advice on how to win friends and influence people (on nostr):
Show Real Interest: People love to talk about themselves—ask questions, listen, and engage.
Smile (Digitally Too!): Positive vibes are contagious. Use friendly emojis or uplifting words online.
Use Names & Tags: Tagging someone or using their name in comments is like a digital high-five.
Be a Good Listener: Don’t just wait to reply; actually read and engage with what others are saying.
Make People Feel Valued: Genuine compliments go a long way. Don’t overdo it, but make others feel seen.
Avoid Criticism: Public shaming? Not cool. Handle disagreements respectfully and privately if possible.
Find Common Ground: Start with what you agree on before diving into differences. Build bridges, not walls.
Own Your Mistakes: If you mess up, admit it. People respect honesty more than perfection.
Encourage Small Agreements: Start with points of agreement in a debate to build momentum in conversation.
Appeal to Their Interests: Frame your ideas in a way that aligns with their passions. It’s all about win-win.
seth / Seth
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