The person everyone needs to forgive? Themselves. Particularly for taking on the trauma that others put on us. Their trauma is not about you. Don’t take it personally.
I may forgive my narcissistic ex for all the shit she pulled during our 25 years of marriage—including turning our children against me—but I certainly won’t forget.
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PhoneBoy of The Lotus Effect /
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2024-01-11 12:49:47
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