npub19fcv2nflra09c6p9xz8c8detwj6uy07u4z4m25qh836mnvxtatdq6aay3c (npub19fc…ay3c) it’s coercion. The proposee feels like they can’t say no without a huge drama.
My friend was proposed to in this manner, said yes at the time and quietly backed out of it later.