Exactly: they broadcast what they WANT us to see. That's not necessarily reality.
I went to the birthday party for a young daughter of a good friend who's also a WN. The young moms there were all homeschoolers, and their kids were so well behaved. It was wonderful to see the way they interacted with their children! Really lovely young women.
I attended a get together at another (conservative) friend's house recently, and we had great food and even greater conversations. Lots of young families with beautiful young children, all well behaved. And I recognized these parents as the kids I watched grow up over the last 25 years! My friend's daughter was there with her boyfriend, who was a real gentlemen and she showed me pictures of their hunting expeditions. She didn't go hunting growing up, but she loved it. They want to settle down and have a large family. I'm so thrilled for them.
This is reality. There are awesome young people out there, raised by stable parents who broke the cycle of abuse from their own parents. We did this with our son, too. It's amazing to see how he's functioning in life, not having to survive trauma like my husband and I did. And it's great that they're having families of their own. Quality vs. quantity.