when i was young and would jerk off to some porno chick i would tell myself that she's not actually that conventionally attractive it's just that she appeals to ME for some reason ...
we tell ourselves such lies because we don't want to face the truth that men better than us will take the woman we want and there is nothing we can do about it ... so we tell ourselves that those other men can't see what we see ... LOL
but decades later the pornos with the same girls i thought uniquely appealed to me have become classics because in fact they appealed to everybody because pussy is a commodity - you don't have any kind of special bond with a girl just because you think she is beautiful ...
likewise women also are all attracted to the same men - namely ones who are rich, powerful, energetic, ambitious etc. in other words NOT YOU !
men that attract women don't spend their lives on the Fediverse. if you're on FEDI you're an incel. and it isn't because you're ugly or short or fat and smelly ( even though if you're on fedi - you're probably all those things ). it's because you're a FUCKING LOSER.
reality is men who are winners can have any woman. same as how a beautiful young girl can have any man.
everyone has a sexual market value. yours is zero.
you spend your entire worthless existence telling yourself that you can get "lucky" and score a girl that will be amazing. THAT IS FUCKING LAUGHABLE.
you will never have more than what you deserve which is nothing. if you take steroids and amphetamines and make something of yourself you will be able to occasionally score with a hot chick that will dump you the moment she sobers up or you will be able to marry a mid.
but the idea that you will find a wonderful girl who will see something in you that others don't see and also nobody else will see how wonderful she is and try to take her away from you - IS PURE COPE.
everybody sees the same things in both you and her. either you deserve her or you do not.
YOU DON'T and will die a virgin !
quotingthe only bond a man and a woman can have is their children
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love is nothing more than probability of having shared children
when you been fucking a woman for a while you fall in love with her because in the good old days before contraception there would be a good chance she was pregnant with your kids at that point
that special bond you share with a woman is purely imaginary - without children it is pure delusion - it doesn't exist
i used to delude myself into thinking i see something in a girl that others don't see and vice versa but that's BS - everybody jerks off to the same porno stars because we are all attracted to the same women ( baddies ). and women are also all attracted to the same men ( alphas ).
there is nothing special about your relationship. if you think your GF is amazing it simply means she has temporarily settled for somebody below her standards until somebody better comes along.
and even if she does have your kids you are only obligated to love her for as long as she is breast feeding them. once they can eat solid food they don't need her and what happens to her is none of your concern. which is why men with options like Elon Musk or Leonardo DiCaprio get a new GF every 3-5 years or so.
if you have a "wife" it just makes you a loser.
a WIFECEL
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