Today I learned that it takes around 50 hours of shared activities to go from an acquaintance to a friend. And another 90 hours to go from a friend to a good friend. And it takes 200 hours to make a close friend.
I do not think I'll ever make another new friend in my life.
I have 2 young kids. I do not have 50 hours. I barely find time to snatch a shower.
https://www.newsnationnow.com/health/maintaining-friendships-study/
David Njoku /
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2024-12-08 10:59:16
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